So there’s this girl I’ve been eyeing for a while. We both take a weightlifting class together at university, and for WEEKS I just secretly gawked at her adorable petite body, dying for an excuse to talk to her because I knew sooner or later she’d notice me staring from across the room and I’d be labeled a creeper.
Then one day I realized she was also in one of my science classes (200+ students so it’s easy to miss people). All of a sudden I had reason to strike up conversation. The next weightlifting class I awkwardly did so, but for the most part it went well. A couple days go by and we’re back in weightlifting class and I awkwardly try to make another conversation happen just as we’re all leaving. I ask her if she’d be interested in studying together for the next big exam, and she gives me her # :)
A week or so later, she texts me that she’d love to meet up even just for 15 mins at a cafe to get to know each other. She drops by and…we end up talking for easily an hour or more. A few days later I text her and invite her for a movie night, but my place doesn’t work (temporarily live with parents to save $ for college) so I suggest her place. She lives with family too but suggests she be down to go out with me.
Here’s where it starts getting good: flash forward to tonight, and we go out to an indoor skydiving place that I have a gc for. We have a great time and afterward we head back to my car but never end up going anywhere else. She busts out a few drinks and snacks (she’s undeniably awesome and sweet) and we just start talking. We talk for over 2 hours– we’re both pursuing basically the same career and have many, many things in common, and she has so many cute mannerisms cuz English isn’t her first language and she’s trying so hard. Plus I think she’s fucking adorable and sexy as hell. After a couple hours I start initiating more physical contact– start stroking her hair, her back, and pretty soon we end up talking about sexual fantasies.
She’s pretty inexperienced, having only had a couple partners, but clearly has done her research cuz her talk tells that she knows a thing or two. She tells me that she’s still learning her kinks and what she’s into. Because of this, she’s incredibly open and starts asking me questions about how many partners I’ve had, if I’m quick to cum and whether I’m circumcised. Somehow or another we end up making out, right there in my car in the same parking lot and we find out we’re both really into making out with each other– we can’t get enough. She asks me if I’ve ever had anyone suck on and play with my nipples and I confess I haven’t. She proceeds to lick and nibble them, and then I ask her the same question. Her sports bra comes off and know the cute little breasts and butt I’ve been eyeing in class for WEEKS are in my mouth and in my hands. She tells me she’s insecure about her breast size and I tell her I’m legitimately into petite gals like herself and I love that I can manhandle her and that I found everything about her sexy as hell. She climbs on top of me, and we’re crunched together in the tiny driver’s area.
She soon tells me that she needs to be going home (her mom has called a couple of times) but that she’d like to help get me off. I thought she just meant a handjob, but she quickly made it clear that she meant more. She cutely struggles with my belt in our tight quarters for a couple minutes, and before I know it my Thor’s Hammer (it’s really average but a man has to feel good about himself) is in her mouth. My brain is legit on overload. I can’t believe that girl I’ve been eyeing forEVER has her mouth on my cock. She tells me “let me know however you like it and I’ll do it.” I somehow manage to stutter out the words to tell her she’s doing great…I dunno, maybe I just moaned.
After tensing every muscle I could to keep from cumming, and after getting super close and pulling her off I ask her where she wants me to cum. She says “anywhere but my face. I don’t want my mon to see it.” I ask “anywhere? Even your mouth?” And she says “yeah okay;) I might spit it out after but yeah”
After about ten more minutes of pulling her hair aside to watch her go down (took long, I never shouldve masturbated this morn), I tell her I’m so close and I explode in her mouth. I honestly don’t know how much it was other than to say we were both messy after and that my orgasm was so strong that I was worried about peeing in her mouth right after because I legitimately lost all control. She cleaned me up and told me that she even swallowed some of it;)
I told her I’m not a selfish lover and I would GLADLY return the favor. I love going down just as much as I love getting off. I think she was self-conscious because she had just come from the gym, but she asks me if I wanted to feel how wet she was. Umm, YEAH! She sticks my hand down into her yoga pants and tells me she’s been wet since our first kiss. I take a little guidance from her and finger around her clit (didn’t go deep inside tonight, rough fingernails) and she kinkily asks to taste it off my fingers. This girl is still figuring out her sexuality and desires and I am glad to be a part of it. We both know we seriously have to get her home so her mom doesnt hate her, but for another 15 minutes we just can’t keep out hands to ourselves. I wanted to eat her out and do her right there, but that’s for another night I hope.
She’s super chill and amazing in so many ways, definitely dating material. Unrelated to that, but on the way home I ask her if she has any real kinks she knows and she said if she did have a true kink it would be that she loves giving head…ummm, that’s awesome. Anyway, redditors, know I’m in a quandary. I’m financially unstable for a couple of years while I finish school and I am in an INTENSE — CRAZY intense — college program for 2+ years still. I have very little time and money, but this girl is incredible and I can’t believe tonight happened. I told her about my concerns with dating and I don’t want to break her heart but my heart has just been closed off to dating for so long. We’re just gonna take it really slow and not call it dating and just take baby steps, but I’m seriously torn and worried that I’ll end up breaking her heart like the last couple girls, who I hurt cuz I got close but had big walls up toward dating right now. Still she’s amazing and I can’t turn away. Any tips for navigating this sort of situation would be so appreciated…hope you enjoyed my story. I’m typing this on my phone and my fingers still smell of her;)
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/48fdpt/long_time_lurker_my_26m_first_post_here_bj_with
Don’t Fuck This Up! You can do an intense program and still date. Especially given that she is in the same career path as you. I met, dated, and married someone all during super intense graduate school. Just be open and honest. I cannot stress this enough.
Good luck and keep us informed as you learn all her kinks!
Go clean your phone.
You both have VERY good starting point, I’d say. Way better that most of us probably.
You both have VERY good starting point, I’d say. Way better that most of us probably.
You both have VERY good starting point, I’d say. Way better that most of us probably.
You both have VERY good starting point, I’d say. Way better that most of us probably.
You both have VERY good starting point, I’d say. Way better that most of us probably.
You both have VERY good starting point, I’d say. Way better that most of us probably.
You both have VERY good starting point, I’d say. Way better that most of us probably.
You both have VERY good starting point, I’d say. Way better that most of us probably.
I had lots of free time (as in I ONLY had tow ork), I had lot of money but never wanted to pursue incredible girls, I just wanted to fuck around (and as many as possible) hot girls. I was successful at that.
I have nothing in my hands right now. Girls were obviously looking at my money, enjoyed my company, and my money. The fancy restaurants. The fancy gifts.
Until I met someone who never cared about it. No fairy tale here, I fucked up there as well.
Please don’t associate money with love. You’ll work it out. Picnics are fun and cheap :) If you cook your food, she’ll like you even more. Do things together. There’s heaps of free things you can experience together.
Get her a small present every now and then. It doesn’t need to be expensive. She wants you to think of her. Please open your heart, dude. please don’t turn away. You’re lucky, she’s inexperienced and she wants to learn. She’s sweet and love sex, what the heck do you want more?
I’m with you and fully support you, go get her :)
Ok, congrats seem to be in order. Not sure if this sub is the best place for relationship advice but here goes:
It sounds like you’ve got some expectations around what ‘Dating’ means in terms of financial outlay. You’re both at Uni! Candlelit dinners are more likely to be instant noodles than 5 star ravioli! Just put in the effort, don’t stress over trying to impress her and just be present and engaged during your time together.
You crazy kids have fun together.
Very hot and also very sweet :) I hope things go well for you! I was in a similar situation (working 3 jobs, athlete, and full time uni) and we are still going strong! My advice is shitty but simple: if you want it to work, you will make it work. Best of luck and enjoy it ;)
Do Not Fuck This Up!!!!! I lost my dream girl coz of some fuck up on my part. I was also in the same situ as you we both were doing our Masters and lived 60 Kms. apart. But still managed to make it work for a year and a half. As you say she is open to communication just be patient and find your own feeling about her. When you are sure about your own feelings and feel ready to take the load of sharing your life with another person then ask her and explain the difficulties you will be facing. Then show her your resolve to make it work. After that leave it up to her to decide if she still wants to get into it. If she is really into you she will say yes. I know coz mine did even though we came from vastly different backgrounds and spoke different languages but she still said yes!
It was the happiest day of my life. Even though I fucked it up later but if I had not I would have married that girl.
Ironically, tensing muscles releases a hormone that makes you climax