Honest question and serious answers only please. I just had sex with a women who told me she liked it rough. As foreplay, I said she can only have it in the ass unless I watch porn while she blows me for a good amount of time. Her response was, “I’ll let you fuck me while you watch.” I was trying to push the limits, so I told her she would have to bend over and balance a laptop on her back while I had my way with her. To my surprise, she proceeded to do so. I fucked her for ~45 min while I looked at pictures of other women (not porn).
Every woman I’ve been with likes to be degraded. Even when I ask and they say No, I wait until after the first orgasm and then try to choke, spank, etc. They’ve all love it and act surprised that they do. Some are confident, successful, or “wholesome”.
My question is this: Do most women just enjoy this type of sex, am I just attracted to a certain type, or am I just an asshole?
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/46coi2/degrading_sex
That’s not degrading, dude. That’s sex.
I’ve found that most women are subs to some degree more so than domme or vanilla. But you have to make them feel physically and emotionally safe so it’s a balancing act.
Degrading is if you call them names and treat them with disrespect. Not just during sex but during the times that lead up to it. Some women get turned on by that. Nothing wrong with that as long as there is mutual respect afterwards imo.
I think most women just go with it once they are horny. I mean isn’t a big part of addiction making the woman’s pussy tell her that she wants your cock?
I think you are fine. Maybe you watch a lot of porn.
Women for some reason enjoy being treated like a slut/shit..I’ve used the technique for years and they keep coming back for more.
I agree with the others. It’s only degrading if you are mean spirited, hateful, abusive, etc. One of the things that’s gotten lost in our culture is that men were designed by God/Mother Nature/Universe (depending on your beliefs), to be the dominant sex. When women exhibit this behavior your describing, it’s really very natural. We’ve been conditioned over the years to think this is wrong. It may not be the popular mentality, but between consenting adults, it is anything but degrading.
I’m with OP I agree choke/spank is degrading (chicks never spamk/choke man) and in my experience most women like or at tolerate ut
See if she let’s you piss on her whilst she’s sitting.
1/10 will say yes.
That’s degrading.