Admittedly this will be a bit different than my other posts in that it is an amalgamation of experiences, as opposed to one particular one.
I wanted to write about it because several people were surprised that I do this, and expressed interest in learning more. If there is a better subreddit for this, please let me know!
So over the last year or so, I have been on dating apps and Reddit regularly. Once in a while I meet women, who for whatever reason (religion, fear, life constraints) are still virgins.
People looking mostly for casual sex like myself would often stop the conversation there. Instead of that, I ask them about why, and how that has affected their dating life. These women often communicate how they are scared of any sexual situation, because they don’t trust themselves to be able to say no without bothering their partner.
I actually care a lot about women being able to safely explore sex, so sometimes I will offer to teach these virgin women. I believe that the safest way for a woman who doesn’t feel super comfortable saying no to avoid having sex with a dominant partner is to get him off in a different way. So that ends up being the focus.
It often starts simple, like what kind of face she should make during sex, and how she can initiate foreplay. These women are often jumpy and nervous around sex, so it’s important to take it slow and help them feel safe.
I teach them a “stoplight” system regarding consent, and highlight how I actually have no interest in taking their virginity (I think that should be with someone special), or penetrating them with my fingers.
I let them know about lessons before hand, and even assign homework (often watching specific types of porn). We work our way up progressively to practicing handjobs or blowjobs on me. I also offer to eat them out, because I believe they should know how good that can feel such that they can train future partners.
Of course, I’m no saint; the deal in these cases is that, after they have practiced and received feedback in one session, I get to do something I like that is within their boundaries. Often this ends up being something like blowing my load on their face, which for many, is their first time.
Progressively these women get better; one practiced so much on me with respect to sucking cock that she could give me the best blowjobs I ever had. She also joined me for a threesome once, which was an extra bonus.
At that point, I introduce many of them to kinky activities, like light s&m / bondage, public sex acts, and role play. For whatever reason, these women tend to really enjoy the m side of things , so I teach them about things they can explore.
At some point these women “graduate”, feeling confident in their ability to provide sexual pleasure to a man and make him cum if they need to. This makes them feel more comfortable dating, which they dive into after learning these skills.
After this we usually stay friends, and they update me when they reach sexual milestones. I’ve done this with around 8 women so far, and have found it to be a very fulfilling experience to see someone go through their journey. Sometimes I meet up with them later on, and it’s extra fun to see their development ;)
That’s a summary of my experiences here! Happy to answer questions (:
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/alipmy/i_regularly_teach_virgin_women_how_to_suck_cock_mf
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>If there is a better subreddit for this, please let me know!
I would recommend r/IHaveNoLifeSoIMakeShitUpAndPostItToGoneWildStories
You should do an AMA.
It shouldn’t surprise me that I’m not the only guy to do this – but it did = )
My intentions and opportunities are on different tracks from yours, but I’ve a similar care and interest – do you make a point of teaching them/guiding through their first full-out orgasm? As in butterfly technique/G Spot/W zone or whichever term comes to mind.
I’ve always thought it very important; the first one is toughest to make, not something she can do alone and – to be succinct – a woman has to learn how to let go just as a man learns how to control, pace and last.
Where do I sign up? Lmao
You sir are a gentleman and a scholar. Keep doing the lord’s work.
>I actually care a lot about women being able to safely explore sex, so sometimes I will offer to teach these virgin women. I believe that the safest way for a woman who doesn’t feel super comfortable saying no to avoid having sex with a dominant partner is to get him off in a different way. So that ends up being the focus.
Are you fucking kidding me? You are an exploitive predator.
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Hot!