How I ended up in an open/hotwife relationship [MF]

I’ve been having a lot of conversations (through /r/dirtypenpals) about my last relationship in which I was shared (hence how my username came about). After going through the history of it a few times, I thought I’d just write it up and share it on here. So, this is how I ended up in an open/hotwife relationship.

My ex and I had both come from some pretty bad relationships. I had only been in two relationships prior to meeting him, and both were very controlling and emotionally draining. I was always prevented from exploring my sexuality and thus had not experienced much. My ex also never had a real opportunity to express himself and was ridiculed by his ex for liking porn and masturbating. When we met, we honestly thought that we were just going to be a fling. We had no idea that we would end up falling in love with each other and becoming each other’s best friend. So, thinking that we didn’t have to worry about any long-term ramifications, we agreed to be each other’s ally in terms of exploring our sexuality. We’d be honest about our thoughts and fantasies, and if we were comfortable, we would try to help fulfill those fantasies.

We started going through some of the basic stuff and very early on, we both mentioned the obvious: a threesome. He wanted one with another girl, and I wanted one with another guy. True to our word, we both made it happen. I delivered on the girl first, and he followed up by delivering on the guy a couple of months later. We both enjoyed both threesomes very much, but as it turned out, we both enjoyed having another guy join us a lot more than another girl. So, since we enjoyed it so much, we did it again, and again, and then it just became a regular ongoing part of our sex life.

What started as him just enjoying seeing me enveloped in so much pleasure, started to build and morph. It took some time, but he eventually wanted to start to find new guys to join us (for the first few months it was just his two friends). He started to push the boundaries a bit more and wanted to add more guys into the mix. He would step back and just watch me with the other guy instead of being involved the whole time. His interests just kept growing to the point that he would actually “lend me out” to certain guys. He also started to encourage me to do my own thing whenever I wanted and to tell him about it later. And I was enjoying all of it. Not only the actual sex itself, but I loved how happy and turned on he got. It just became part of our relationship and we both enjoyed it thoroughly.

The only reason our relationship ended was because we just couldn’t be apart. He got a job opportunity that he simply could not turn down, but it required him to travel a lot. We tried to make it work for a few months, but distance just wasn’t our thing. We had gotten too used to being there for each other at all times. We were each other’s best friend and having to be apart like was more torture than anything. We ended on good terms and are still in touch. I don’t know if I’ll ever have a relationship like the one I had with him again, but that’s how it happened. In the future I’ll share some specific adventures that I/we had.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/9dwjai/how_i_ended_up_in_an_openhotwife_relationship_mf