About a year ago when I was living in my first apartment in Brooklyn I started talking to a girl on OkCupid. Honestly, I wouldn’t say I was super into her but she was cute and in an open relationship (though her exact wording was “ethically non-monogamous”). We got to talking because she was a grad student at the nearby college where I had went for my undergrad and was currently living a few blocks from.
The first time we met, we just got lunch and talked but planned to actually get together to fuck the next time. Basically just wanted to make sure everything seemed okay about the other. She was saying she had two other fuck buddies in addition to her boyfriend but the other two fuck buddies lived kind of far away so having me so close to school would be good.
The day we had planned to fuck I had my first day of work at a new job (she wasn’t working at all at the time; this is important to know for later). We met up at a bar a couple blocks from my place and had drinks for like an hour before finally heading back to my place probably around 11pm. I’d been looking forward to this literally all day and wanted to just get to fucking and felt the hour we spent at the bar was already too much but she wanted to watch Netflix first so we looked for something to watch and she picked Superbad. I love Superbad but that movie is 2 and a half hours so it felt like an eternity, especially since she wanted to watch the whole movie.
Things are off to a solid start once we start making out after the movie ends. After a bit she asks, “Are you going to fuck me?” and tells me to turn off the lights. Turning off the lights was a bit of a disappointment because I’m a visual person and also my bedroom in my apartment didn’t have any windows (the tv was still on, on the Netflix menu so it wasn’t pitch black but it was dark). Once we start to disrobe I see that she has never shaved or trimmed her pussy a day in her life once I take her panties off. Not ideal, but I figure I’ll manage and I start to eat her out when my nose is punched with a ton of B.O. Didn’t enjoy that. In retrospect it really bugs me because it was a hot July day, she doesn’t shave, and had all day to freshen up but I’m convinced she didn’t shower and just let me attempt to eat her out with a day or two of sweaty stinking up her pussy. After a bit she asks me to start fucking her but I asked if she would suck me a bit first and she gave me a toothy 10 second blowjob before asking me to put on the condom. I was only about half hard at the time but went for it. Had a little trouble getting it in her at first but did it and fucked her a bit doggystyle and slapped her ass a bit (but she really didn’t like me to do it harder than a casual high 5). I was actually having a bit of trouble staying hard, probably because of nerves (and maybe also because she didn’t really do much to make sure I was aroused; I had been when we got together almost 4 hours before but that anticipation really killed it). We switched to her riding me cowgirl and honestly it was pretty dull. I stayed hard a bit longer before losing it. At one point I even had thought “Masturbating feels better”.
I apologized for not being able to stay hard and really fuck her and she said it was okay and that we could try again later that night. So we just laid there for a bit and in the moment I was very frustrated and embarrassed at myself(my biggest worry was premature ejaculation so not getting hard because I was nervous was the last thing I expected). She stepped out to the bathroom at one point and maybe 5 minutes later got a call from her boyfriend that her cat was sick and needed to go to the vet.Fishy but I didn’t want to be paranoid since she had verbally been understanding about the situation. She left and declined my offer to walk her to the subway. The next day I went to message her and it turns out she had blocked me. Obviously the cat story was made up and she couldn’t be honest with me and say that she was disappointed and didn’t want to have sex again. I would have been fine with that considering she did no maintenance downstairs and also didn’t seem to care much about pleasing me. I’m more annoyed at the approach she took. On the plus side, that put me in a situation where my sexual experiences would only be able to go uphill from that.
TLDR: Met up with a girl in an open relationship. Tried to eat her out but her pussy was super hairy and smelly. She gave the worst blowjob ever and didn’t try to make sure I was turned on at all. Couldn’t get hard cuz she wasn’t trying to please me. Made up an excuse to leave.
Edit: I know it wasn’t the most arousing story but no need to downvote it. Sometimes people have bad sexual experiences.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/96lrvi/about_a_year_i_lost_my_virginity_it_was_a_pretty