Alright, story time. Kinda new to reddit and this is my first time posting to r/GONEWILDSTORIES so be gentle. As you can probably tell by my username, I'm a big fan of edging. Up until last night though, I thought I was doing it "right". I would jack off till I was close, then stop and calm down (sometimes I'd wait till I go soft and then start all over again, other times I'd just wait 30 seconds or so). I hadn't gotten to the point where I could stop myself mid-ejaculation using keggles (yet…) so I would always get right up to the point of no return and stop. This worked pretty well for a while, I could go for 2 hours or so and then have an intense orgasm and cum a huge load (for me). But last night, I decided to experiment with something I'd read about on other sub-reddits called keggles. For those of you who don't know, its basically clenching the muscle that controls your urine stream and ejaculation. Anyways, I was edging in bed, and have been at it for 45 min or so. I could feel myself getting close so I slowed down and used the precum I had accumulated as lube. I stopped just short of the point of no return (was watching porn and knew I'd cum if I kept at it). Then I decided to take a quick break and try without the porn. I turned it off and grabbed my cock again and began stroking. A generous amount of precum oozed out of my head and I slathered it up and down my shaft as I stroked. I could feel myself getting close so I started using my keggles (had been practicing a bit before and the night before). I knew I was about to cum but I just kept going. The point of no return came and I pumped it one more time before I let go and flexed my keggles with all my strength. My head swelled and got bright red/purple. I could feel myself having a sort of orgasm/ruined orgasm and loved every second of it. Eventually I could feel myself calm down and I relaxed. My cock was still rock hard though, but I didn't feel like I had had a full orgasm. Then, a thick stream of clear/cloudy fluid started streaming out of my head, with just enough force to get out of my shaft. I thought this was the hottest thing I'd ever seen while masturbating. I quickly grabbed my cock again and used this precum/cum mixture to edge again. I did the same thing, got to the point of no return, one more pump and flexed. I got the same perfect stream of leaked cum again, but still fell short of a full orgasm. I did this over and over again for about 30 min till I knew I would have a full blown orgasm if I did it again. Then I just went to bed, can't wait to do it again tomorrow.
Anyone else have experience with this? I assume this is what everyone meant by edging and I just misunderstood. Share your best edging stories below!!
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/3pmtx8/thought_i_knew_what_edging_was_till_last_night
I’ve never understood what muscles those are or how to control them. But by the sound of it you’re going to have a pretty big mess tomorrow lol
I’ve never understood what muscles those are or how to control them. But by the sound of it you’re going to have a pretty big mess tomorrow lol
If just do a quick search for "keggles" you’ll find a lot of threads about them. It does take a little time to strengthen them but I’ve only been doing it for a few days and I have no problem stopping myself mid-ejaculation now. And actually, whenever I edge like this, I use up about half my cum so I don’t end up with blue balls the whole day if I never get to have a full orgasm. Going to edge again today and will probably end up blowing so we’ll see how bad the damage is!
If just do a quick search for "keggles" you’ll find a lot of threads about them. It does take a little time to strengthen them but I’ve only been doing it for a few days and I have no problem stopping myself mid-ejaculation now. And actually, whenever I edge like this, I use up about half my cum so I don’t end up with blue balls the whole day if I never get to have a full orgasm. Going to edge again today and will probably end up blowing so we’ll see how bad the damage is!
Ever figure out how to stop peeing mid-stream? It’s those same set of muscle groups. If you figure out how to use those muscles (doesn’t take long, just try stopping your piss mid-stream next time you go) you just reapply that to ejaculation. That said, the actual name for those set of muscles is Pubococcygeus Muscles (PC for short), and both genders have them. If you search for Kegels (the correct spelling), or PC muscle exercises, or something along those lines you’ll find more information. At it’s most extreme you can completely stop ejaculation. But the major concern isn’t ejaculation, rather it’s retroejaculation. Retroejaculation is where you ejaculate into the bladder instead of out. So it’s something to be careful of after you’ve practice Kegels to a high enough level.
I also have experience with this. Although, I barely use it any more when I masturbate. But while having sex with my wife or her friend. (I had an AMA about that situation a couple of weeks ago) Before I met my wife, I had only very little sexual experience and it was really bad for my self-confidence towards sex. Nevertheless, in my prior experience and while masturbating, I found out, that I am multi orgasm capable when I’m horny enough and the situation is right. I can have multiple orgasms in a row without a break without making a real effort to achieve that. Problem: I had not really a control over it so this "skill" was useless for sex. It ruined losing my virginity and gaining sexual experience with that "first time" girl. I was really sad about that and finally found out about kegel’s and edging. But it turned out, working out with kegel’s exercise while masturbating to porn was only half the rent. Sure it helped to control my body, but sex with another person is a very mental thing and as long as you can not connect your body with your mind it doesn’t help much. When I met my wife it turns out, that she is a kegel’s master. She initially learned it from her best friend (who is a fitness trainer and knows a lot about human body and muscles) to fight menstrual cramps. It also turned out that it improved her sex life (with her ex) a lot. So when I got together with her, she was very understanding about my lack of sexual experience, but excited that I also knew about the kegel’s stuff and she finally taught me to connect my physical capabilities to my sexual mind. The result was so awesome… we’d edge each other for hours. We made challenges about how many times we could edge or the opposite: orgasm. With the use of the kegel’s muscles I’m in full control now (most times), when to come, how much cum to come, not to come and it makes it even possible to have additional orgasms until I ran completely dry of cum and even precum. I’m currently thinking about writing my own multi part gonewildstory about the steps that brought me to this point. Anyway, I can only suggest, that anybody who has problems reaching or controlling their orgasms should try kegel’s. It is really not too hard to start with it. Like others wrote, just try to stop mid-peeing and learn to use these muscles when you’re not peeing but your cock is erect.
You’re really missing out on something. It will improve your sex life significantly if you can manage to gain control over these muscles. Like the others wrote, just start easy and stop mid-peeing. Or multiple times during one pee. Once that works, wait longer until you really have to pee more and more. It is not easy to overcome at the beginning. But once you feel that you can control these muscles, start using them when you have an erection and feel an orgasm built up.
That sounds painful lol how would you even know if that happens and how would it be corrected :/
Because I’ve experienced retroejaculation before. In my case I just remember to shoot in the right direction.