My First Swingers Party

I had been contemplating doing something wild for a few months. I happened to be online one night and a guy that hosted swinger’s parties was chatting me up. After hearing about the parties I thought maybe I’d give it a try. I decided I needed a little help with getting enough nerve to go so I invited one of my besties to join me. She agreed to go with me for moral support.

We arrive and are of course some of the first people that show up (I have a thing for being on time). This turned out to be better. I got to relax and watch people come in rather than walking into a room with 40+ people (if you are even remotely shy you’ll understand that). I was able to have a few drinks (it’s BYOB) and get to know the host and a few others that were there early.

At some point these two men walk in. At first I thought they were very cute and that maybe this party was going to have real potential. At this point there are a few more girls than guys and you can tell that awkward moment when someone has to take the plunge. One of the guys suggested a BJ contest. Each of the girls would take turns giving them a BJ and they would of course rate who was better. I won (ha ha ha, there were only three participants but regardless I WON). Now reality, is this really something I should be proud of? Ha ha ha, I am in certain crowds.

Once the contest was over it was easy to move things along to actual sex. The room was set up with a large California king bed and a wide bench surrounding it (custom made). It was built for multiple people to use at once, perfect for the swingers party. Two of us girls took turns riding the two men from the contest. The guys were pretty hands off and in all honesty pretty selfish. They didn’t do anything but have us girls ride them until they got off. At this point there were a few more people in attendance. A few couples, some more single guys but not really any other single woman. Turns out there aren’t many single women in this lifestyle. There was lots of action going on around the room now. I decided to take a break. This was my first time in group sex and I still didn’t have a mental understanding of how it all worked. I was pretty disgusted by my first experience. I couldn’t believe how selfish those guys were and how the women just fell for it all.

I am at the bar area, watching and having a few drinks. At heart I’m a true voyeur and prefer the torture of watching rather than playing. At the bar I started to chit chat with another guy. After a little talk he asked if I wanted to go play. Now remember, this is my first experience at a swinger’s party so I wasn’t really prepared I guess. I couldn’t figure out why this guy wanted to go play after he just watched me with two other guys. I felt like I needed a shower or something. I wasn’t used to the concept of real sharing. Now granted I did use protection with each person so it’s not like this guy would be getting sloppy seconds, but I still wasn’t used to the concept of real sharing. He was kind. We sat around and talked for a long time. There was plenty of action going on around us. It was a wonderful feeling to be surrounded by people just being open and accepting. I never once felt judged (yes I know I was judging myself at that moment) or dismissed. People were open and all there for the same thing. This place was the perfect scene for a party. You could be viewed by everyone, no hidden nooks or anything. All the furniture was built for sex, even the couch and chairs.

I will also say that having my personal friend in attendance did make things a little strange for me. While I know she is open minded and would not judge me, it was hard to relax and let loose around her. I am grateful she went with me in the long run, I’d never had gone alone. This night was the start of my swinging lifestyle that will continue for a few more years.

Before I left, the guy from the bar area asked if I would attend the next party in two weeks. I was interested enough to say “yes”.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/3kx8nf/my_first_swingers_party