So heres the second date.
It's been less than a week since I saw her. i had the day off so i called her up and asked if she wanted to do something. To which she said she did and we met up to go to the mall. Immediately we hit it off again like the last day was just yesterday. We were walking holding hands and cuddling every chance we got. But never kissed for some reason.
There was a movie theatre in this mall so we decided to catch a flick. Trainwreck was playing in 10 minutes so we jumped at that. The whole movie there was cuddling but still nothing more. I started to find this very odd but went along with it.
by this time it was pretty late so we decided to call it a night. so i drove her home and parked in a empty nearby parking lot.
After the last date we agreed not to go as far as last time even though not much happened. Boy was that not the case.. we started making out and i followed the whole 'toning it down' rules she told me. not touching anywhere private. which is when she climbed up on me and started to grind into me. (sidenote shes wearing a summer dress and only panties underneath) so i can feel her pussy grinding into my thin shorts and she is moaning up a storm. i figure this isnt that big a deal since shes into it so i go with it but still keeping my hands at a safe place.
we keep at this for about an hour. it feels good but not enough make me cum. she eventually gets off. both of us dripping in sweat. and we just continue making out and i feel her hand reaching for my dick.
I really do like this girl so i tell her to stop because maybe this would be too close to the line that we shouldnt cross. but she tells me that she doesnt know what she wants and doesnt want to get hurt. so purely physical is nothing to her. but i tell her that i sort of like her and dont want to risk losing her to some meaningless handjob.
but she leans in and kisses me. I try to stop but she grabs my dick and my will power drains. and she starts jerking me off. to this point i say. fuck it and fondle her tits. and we get back into it. she leans down and starts giving me an amazing blowjob. after about 10 mins i feel myself about to come but she gets off and i almost cum everywhere if i werent for my hand.
things calm down after that and we get to talking about what we both want. shes scared of commitment and doesnt want to hurt my feelings and insists that i find someone else but we could still be friends. where as i feel more attached go her and want to keep trying. but honestly the fact i have to push makes me thing this might not be a good idea.
i honestly don't know what to do about her now. I cant exactly force her to change her mind. So maybe i should just give up and give her her space to think things through and let her decide what she wants.
thought? my ears are open to suggestions.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/3eykw7/tinder_date_goes_well_part_2
She has issues in the past and thats the reason why se doesn’t want to get hurt with you. You either fight for her or you become "friends." Give her time but if you are really attached to her. Fight for her.
She’s just not sure with you. If you think there’s a chance she could change her mind, date her some more and show her you’re worth being in a relationship with.
Dude she blew you on the second date and you’ve never done anything with a woman before don’t get attached just count it as a win and keep it movin.