I’m almost 19. Hispanic. Short. Fat. I have a small penis (only 5 inches). I don’t consider myself attractive face-wise, either.
I’ve always felt inadequate to other guys because they’re tall, lean, and have handsome faces, and this is what girls look for. I read alot of stories here and all the girls like a tall guy with a big penis. To anyone that says I should lose weight, I can, but it won’t change anything.
How am I supposed to lose my virginity when I’m not enough? I’d like to someday live out my fantasies but unfortunately I’m genetically inferior. Why the fuck is life is unfair?
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/7qhdf2/m_serious_post_about_me_and_need_advice_if
Hey man, don’t make the mistake of taking what you read on here as a representation of what’s normal, or what should be happening in your life. Gonewildstories is like the highlights reel of thousands of people’s sex lives, and half the stories seem to be made up or exaggerated.
As for your virginity, the more you stress about losing it, the more pushy you will be and therefore more likely to mess up a good thing because you tried to rush it.
Just relax, take a breath, and know that one day you’ll look back on it and realise how pointless it was getting worked up over it.
Here’s a link to an article about “average size” if you think 5” is small
https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/www.menshealth.com/sex-women/average-penis-size%3famp
But in my opinion, if you get to the point where a girl’s wanting to see your junk, she’s not going to switch off and say “I just don’t think that will cut it”
Don’t stress it, your only 19…. There is so much more than sex at the age.
But if you are wondering… confidence is a huge factor. Just work with what you got.
Don’t stress! It will arrive one day! I am a big man and I found love at 25! I think that you should enjoy life and not worry about these things. Looks are one thing, but attitude and confidence are another. Good luck!
As a fellow Latin guy lurker on this subreddit let me tell you that you don’t gotta give a fuck about dick size period. For some girls, it’s a nice trait to have but why would you wanna be with a girl who’s main concern is what you’re packing down there? You should hook up or have sex with someone who likes you mainly due to your personality. My current girlfriend and I started off strictly as friends. I’m significantly older than her (25, she’s 19) but I only let my personality and mannerisms carry the weight of whatever I was slacking on.
Personality man, not dick size. You sound self-deprecating like me and I think that’s based off our immigrant conditioning from our mamas never thinking we’re good enough etc etc.
Anyway man, get into fashion, start hopping on the bike, lift 3x a week doing StrongLifts 5×5, and do things that give you confidence to walk around this world like you’re a bad ass mother fucker (literally if you’re into the milf crowd). Own yourself, change yourself if you want to, but always always always let your personality shine and the rest will come :)
Try to not stress yourself about it! Time will come and there will be a girl for you!! :) Although I love big cock, the very fucking best orgasms I’ve ever had in my life were with probably the smallest dick I’ve ever fucked.. <3 and it was also a bigger guy.. :)
As the others mentioned already – I know it’s hard and an everyday challenge, but try to build up confidence by doing what you like and what you know you’re good at! :)
Bro…the only thing holding you back is yourself. I say that from experience, as I was a virgin until I was 21 or so. I was living in such a haze of self-conscious negativity that I did not realize I was not seeing how other people really saw me, and in fact, there were women interested in me and people who found me appealing.
Not that your success rate with getting laid should be the barometer by which you measure yourself, but just be yourself, do your best to silence that internal negative critic, and pay attention to how people genuinely react to you, rather than what the voice in your head is telling you they are thinking.
I would say use tinder. Just dont expect a relationship out of it. Have seen many friends date people using the app