It took many counseling sessions and some fancy therapy techniques, Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), to undo the brainwashing and reprogram my neural circuitry. I put [guided masturbation](https://soundgasm.net/u/comealot/Guided-Masturbation) at the center of my treatment program. I used it like a form of hypnosis to subconsciously reprogram taboo sexual desires and neutralize the sexual inhibitions that were holding me back.
Please don’t make light of it. This stuff is serious. We all have hangs ups and demons to overcome. My first was to find a way to end the masturbation session in “Joy” vs. being overpowered by feelings of guilt. With a lot of practice, moral support and more practice, I fapped my way out of this conundrum. And I attribute my success to audio erotica. Hearing a woman’s voice encouraging a joyful outcome did the trick for me. But my wife wouldn’t do it. And my therapist wasn’t going to do it. So who’s voice was it going to be.
In walked [Nurse Judy](https://www.amazon.com/Comealot-Sex-Clinic-Nurse-Judy-ebook/dp/B076X5DLY4/) , a sex therapist extraordinaire at The Comealot Sex Clinic. Like any imaginary friend, she met all of my personal needs spot on. She knew was sex therapy should really be like. And She was “hands on”. I liked Nurse Judy so much I fantasized about our working sessions and wrote an audio book about her too. As long as I had Nurse Judy, my personal penis trainer, in my corner, how could I lose? And that brings me to the second challenge. Sex addiction.
You don’t have to look too far to find the warning signs of porn addiction. Just check out [NoFap]( https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/) on reddit. Like any self induced pain killer, there is a tendency to get hooked and do it too much. I’ve got a history of addictions and this was like no other. For alcohol addiction, I could abstain, but sex addiction is different. I had to go through an elaborate process of keeping an “ejaculation log” so I knew how much I was doing it, and in conjunction with the log, I had to set boundaries all around me. Sort of like a baby in a play pen with rubber bumpers, I had to masturbate by the rules. What rules? Well I had to make them up as I went along. Using the 3 circle methodology from [Sex Addicts Anonymous](https://saa-recovery.org/SAALiterature/English/ThreeCircles/), I was able to design a regime that satisfied my wife, my therapist and me. For some reason, reading, writing and listening to erotica was the sweet spot for me. Maybe it had to do with the noises I used to hear in the wee hours of the night from my parent’s sexual escapades down the hall. Or maybe it had something to do with the joy of listening and letting your imagination wander vs. watching porn which for me is overly stimulating, audio erotica worked for me. And I could channel my sexual energy and be creative.
In walked [Jasmine](https://www.amazon.com/Comealot-Sex-Clinic-Jasmine-ebook/dp/B076YZW8J5/), my sex goddess. She took me by storm and swept me off my feet. I wrote a book about her too because I just love hearing her voice, saying all the things I want a woman to say. And there is Hazel, and Pricilla, and Star, and Chloe, and Roxxy, and ChinaGirl9 too. These are all the girls who hang out at [The Comealot Sex Clinic](http://comealot.net). Hugh Hefner has his playboy bunnies. I’ve got my certified “sex therapists”. Go figure!
So there you have it. Instead of chasing my wife around, day and night, complaining about not getting enough sex, reading, writing and listening to audio erotica saved my marriage. I found a mutually agreed upon pass time and I’m lovin’ it! And I don’t have to pay hundreds of dollars to real sex therapists either. Audio erotica books are cheaper and more engaging than therapy and they always have a happy ending. In my stories, every chapter ends in orgasm. Happy nocturnal emissions. Enjoy!
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/7aztnl/m_how_audio_erotica_saved_my_marriage_part_3