If there is one thing I’ve learned from the relatively small assortment of women I’ve been with is that they can be wildly different in how they experience orgasms. It’s interesting how different everyone is in this regard, but it also can be very frustrating because no one talks in detail about these differences and at least in the USA we don’t encourage people to talk about their sexual desires with each other, if anything it’s the opposite. Guys don’t get an instruction manual on how different each woman can be so it’s all learn as you go and then when you want to learn you sometimes have to pry the information out of your partner. Mainly I realized you can’t have any assumptions about each new partner.
One of my early partners when I was younger was this petite 20 year old brunette with a pretty face and an average body probably about 5’5″ in height while I’m 6’1″. When we first got together she had never had an orgasm. She hadn’t ever given herself one and the one guy she had intercourse with before me was just to check off the box of not being a virgin.
Funny thing is though she loved dick. It really turned her on to play with a hard one. She loved giving handjobs and blowjobs and despite having intercourse only once she had blown and played with a couple of guys before me. We would make out at my place on the couch fully clothed with just my dick out and her playing with it while we kissed and touched. She told me when I asked at one point that she loved the feel of a dick getting hard in her hand. We would take a long time enjoying each other like that and it made her really wet such that when we finally took it to the bedroom I would slide in without any effort at all.
She couldn’t get off from intercourse though and in those early days of my sexual adventures I was finding out that this was more the norm for women. In addition, she couldn’t even get herself off from manual stimulation. She enjoyed intercourse if she was turned on, but it wouldn’t give her an orgasm unless she had clit stimulation, but she needed a LOT of clit stimulation to get there.
I figured this detail out after I gave her that first orgasm. At the time I wasn’t that experienced at going down on a woman, but I really enjoyed doing it and still do. I love getting my face up in there and wrapping my arms under her legs and reaching up to play with her while I lick and suck at her pussy. I’ll fondle and touch her tits, stomach, neck or whatever while I’m tonguing her pussy, it’s all erotic to me.
After some trial and error I finally realized that she needed me to give her clit the hardest tongue lashing that I could possibly give, not even over the hood, directly on the clit, for around five minutes straight at which point she would shudder uncontrollably and every muscle in her body would tense up and she would have this HUGE orgasm. If there was no one around she would yell out loudly. I would keep the whole bottom portion of my face latched to her pussy while this was going on and it felt like I was riding a bucking bronco. When I dipped my tongue into her while this was happening I could feel her pussy clenching as well.
I figured out that I needed to ramp down the clit stimulation as her clit became very sensitive afterward. I would slowly ramp down my attention on her clit as she came down from her orgasm and then lick and suck on her pussy lips before I moved up onto her. The bottom of my face would be covered in her juices but she would kiss me deeply and intensely while I would have to carefully slide my hard cock into her so that I didn’t hit her clit on the way in as she would jump off the bed if I touched it at that point. Even intercourse was a little overstimulating for her at that point, but I was so turned on and her pussy was so wet and hot that it wouldn’t take me long after that to fill her up.
I ended up getting her a vibrator and that made it much easier for her to have orgasms. She described the result of an orgasm as a huge pick me up for her. She was energized. She would use the vibrator in the morning when we were not together before she went off to work. Strangely enough I think the vibrator orgasms were also different from the ones I gave her with oral.
The sensitivity factor and the one and done aspect of her orgasms contrasted sharply with the prevalent notion that women can have multiples, but I understood it as it reminded me of my own orgasms. Even though she didn’t get off from it herself she loved getting me off by riding me. At first when I would come in her she would just keep going and it was so overstimulating I couldn’t handle it, if you’ve experienced it you know, at one point I started laughing because it was like being tickled. I explained the problem and requested that when I finished she push me inside of her most of the way and then do short strokes, she took to that like a pro and it was immensely satisfying. She was fun, she would be smiling down at me while she road me downward from my orgasm plateau, pleased that she had succeeded in her task.
She also became extremely adept at using her pelvic floor muscles to hold in my cum afterwards so she could just go to the bathroom and drop it into the toilet. This had a fantastic side effect for me. She could take an iron grip on my dick if she wanted to and when I was fully hard this could even be uncomfortable, but when she would pull off of me after I came in her my cock was usually partly soft and it was so amazing because as she pulled off it was like she was milking those last drops of cum out of my dick with her pussy. I would just lay there in the afterglow with my cock covered in a light coating of her juices and my cum.
We were eventually able to get to the point where I could ramp her up with oral and then she would cue me to switch to intercourse and she could finish that way, but her orgasm was so powerful and so were her pelvic floor muscles that she would literally push me out of her when she came so I would generally just finish her off first and then then do my thing.
We had some fun times, but eventually we realized we didn’t have the same life goals and parted on amicable terms.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/10tnuss/mf_the_hot_sex_i_had_with_the_woman_that_never