Wife and I got so caught up with our fantasy/strategies that we straight up forgot we were having sex [FM]

I don’t know if this one is hot or just weird, but I thought you guys might enjoy it anyway.

So the missus and I were fooling around, and we got to talking about something that’s been a feature of or shared fantasies for a while now: introducing other people into our sexual activities (I’ve discussed this in Reddit previously). There was something different about this night, though. For some reason, it wasn’t merely fantasizing. After a point, we were laying the groundwork for opening up our sex-lives.

We talked about how far we were willing to go with other people. We’ve talked about this before, of course, but it was different this time because we were actually discussing our limits and goals, and not merely dreaming about fucking and getting fucked by a whole bunch of folk. She ask me if I’d like for us to attend an orgy, and I answered (truthfully) that it’s something I think about occasionally but not so much that I have a strong urge to do it. I told her that if she’d like to get serviced by me and some other dudes, I’d seriously consider it, though it’s not a particular kink of mine (no judgement of guys who are into that. It’s just not something that does it for me). This similarly doesn’t seem to be something that she’s into, and so that’s how we settled on a plain old FFM threesome.

It’s important to note that these discussions went on while we were performing varying acts of stroking, licking and entering. Not the best idea to have such talks while messing around, I know. However, I like to think we were seriously considering the other’s ideas and points-of-view despite the activities. With our limits established, it was time for some serious fucking. We started going at it doggy-style. Now, this is normally my wife’s favorite finishing position. In our normal sessions, this would be the point were I’m expected to release inside of her. On this day, however, I was instructed to hold off. “You’re going to have to last a bit longer if you’re fucking two of us.” In all honestly, I don’t remember if she actually said “fucking” here, but I think you can afford me the creative license as it explains her thinking. She is so serious about this threesome that she started training me for it.

She didn’t make it easy for me either. I was invited to consider how the other woman would feel if she were being eaten out by my wife as I pounding. She then floated the possibly of the other woman wearing a strap-on and fucking her while she was blowing me, so she could enjoy than MFM sensation after all. Anyway, this training/fantasizing went on for a while, and quite a few hypothetical 3way scenarios were brought up, but eventually we got on to talking about how we might actually go about arranging this threesome. This is were things got really interesting for me.

My wife’s idea was that it would be something she has arranged a birthday present for me. She finds a willing girl on a dating app. They go on a couple of dates to work things out and maybe break a few sexual barriers. Nothing too far though. They’re saving that for the big event. On my birthday I get a message telling me to come home quickly for my gift. There I find my wife and our new friend getting things started, and I’m invited to spend some time alone with our guest to do whatever we want together for five minutes, before the wife joins us again (this part my wife later told me she’d made up on the spot, and then surprised herself by how immediately turned on she was by the idea).

This was all pretty hot stuff. However, as hot as it was, this was not my main takeaway. For some reason, I instead found my wife’s unicorn-hunting story rather sweet. I don’t remember what position we were in when she started the narrative, but for the sake of convenience I’m going to say she was riding me cowgirl-style. Well, as I listened to her story, I had to pull her closer to me until we were cuddling, because the tale of the woman finding another woman to bring home to her husband was just so endearing to me.

The story I came up with produced similar results. In my version of events, we were on vacation in some exotic tourist destination. We were in a popular expat bar and I had started discussing different international beers with a group of new friends (another passion of mine). While feeling slightly neglected, my wife caught the eye of and was eventually approached by a solo female traveler who was looking for new adventures. She started by suggesting I was being neglectful and that I realize how lucky I am to have her in my life (all true), but my wife defended me by saying I deserved some personal time for all the things I do for her (I’m going to take an aside to say I’m a damn good husband). The woman takes this to heart, and so when I finally noticed my wife had found a new friend I approached them to make sure she was okay, and things progressed quickly from there.

All of this was told while I had a finger inside her. I was hoping the story and the stimulation would be enough to bring her over the edge. Unfortunately she enjoyed the seduction/flirting narrative so much that it distracted her from the sex. She was weirdly content with the fantasies we’d just discussed. Now, it could have been that we were both tired. We’d been alternating between sex and discussions for hours at this point, but I don’t think so. We were lying in each other’s arms in what felt like the relaxed, post-orgasm glow we’d normally feel after sex, except neither of us had come at that point.

I think the reason we felt so content is that, despite basically distracting ourselves from having sex, we actually achieved something. When we talked about threesomes before, it was usually either fantasizing with hypotheticals or discussing the limits. This time, however, we established a roadmap for what it is we would like to gain from opening our sex lives to other participants. We may not have the exact route figured out, but we know what the destination is.

All this being said, the wife very vocally kicked me out of the room when we woke the next morning so that she could have some “alone time”. Roadmaps and goals are great, but she wasn’t not getting her orgasm.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/10k5jgd/wife_and_i_got_so_caught_up_with_our

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