It’s a kink of mine. It makes me feel good, knowing they have no choice but to desperately attempt to hold on. Every guy has a weakness, whether it’s having his balls fondled, perhaps showing my ass in the mirror or swirling my tongue around his head as I maintain a firm grip.
When I find their weakness, involuntarily expressed via their body language, I know to continue. Don’t change a thing. Wink at them, let them know it’s a matter of time.
Oh, and talking of time. I start timing from the moment my lips seal around their throbbing head. It’s a game. They ALWAYS think they can last double the time they say.
I’ve made every guy cum that I’ve got down on my knees for. The average time I’d say is just under 3 minutes. Guys do very well to last more than 4-5. Some even last just under 2. You’re elite if you can last 8-10.
Sucking cock is both arousing, a challenge AND a game. Just depends who you play it with..
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/106ra0n/f_when_i_give_a_blowjob_i_challenge_myself_by
This is hot. Oral is my biggest kryptonite, so if your average is just under three minutes then I’d both love and hate to be on the receiving end.
I’ve not been with many women, by reddit atandards, lol, but had oral with all of them. I haven’t been able to cum yet with bj alone. The operative word is Alone. If you want me to cum, you need to get below my balls. Licking my perineum (aka taint), sliding your tongue inside gets me super hard, giving me a PM while go down on me, makes me orgasm uncontrollably, and cum Hard 💦💦💦
Well, I’ve never come from oral so let’s see you try
That sounds like a fun game you play have you and your man ever made little bets on how long he can last in the x amount of years y’all have been together
I have always had issues receiving blow jobs. I don’t know if I’ve never had a woman good at it, or if my noggin is fucked up over something that I cannot enjoy it. Someday, I’d sure like to meet the right woman, who also has certified credentials at sucking dick to figure it all out.
Ain’t no way 3 minutes? I’ve only nutted to head once anyway
So, I know this isn’t an AMA, but I’d really like to hear your expert opinion.
I very rarely come while being given head – although there was one particular lady in my past who still stands out as the only woman who has ever given me a blowjob that completely blew my mind. If I had to guess, I’d say I lasted – strangely enough – about 3 minutes.
Her technique was the obvious difference. She knew something that I think most women don’t.
In your expert opinion – what is it? What’s the secret to giving a blowjob that will reduce any man to a puddle of muck in 3 minutes?
That makes me feel better lol when a girl focuses on the tip I just lose it
That’s a beautiful challenge. I would love to know who lasted the longest and the story with it.
Hmmm. My ex wife, after 20 years practice sucking my cock, still take an average of 10 minutes. Most women take 20 to 30 minutes to finish me, if we go that long with the bj.
I’d be interested to see how long you could last sucking my dick.
That’s throat GOAT mentality right there
Too many of you have had partners who don’t know how to give head. Makes me sad.
I need this tbh. Never cum from bj at all
I busted in 42.69 seconds. Am in love.
Never came from a bj it’s not that it’s not good I just physically can’t
It’s similar going down on a woman, but it’s never been a matter of a race – more a matter of paying attention to subtle movements and sounds. I’ve not had many partners, but women do seem fundamentally different sexually than men. It’s like trying to coax a beautiful sound from a fine instrument- a challenge but one where the reward is sublime.
Challenge accepted. I love blowjobs, I love the sensations, and I’m super sensitive but sadly since brainmeds (sertraline) no climax :(
Oddly I do the same thing with my female partners, the louder my moans of appreciation the quicker they come, I think they can relax knowing that I’m doing it cos it like it. I’m a bit of a service top/pleasure dom. Average is 5-10mins depending on how shy they are. Do girls like not realise how amazing they smell and taste? So many have hang ups.
I have an incredibly hard time cumming from oral, so I would like to challenge you.
You’ll easily get me to cum within seconds then since I have foreskin
Speed challenge can be fun but sometimes it’s nice to take it slow and make him wait for satisfaction
I’m a freak but blowjobs just don’t do it for me – I can last forever. It’s not like that with PIV sex, or even handjobs, but I have to concentrate to finish with a blowjob and can definitely just put it off forever if I don’t specifically try to. I’m not like some control monster – don’t last especially long with PIV sex – just not BJ’s. I actually try to avoid getting them because it makes women feel bad I don’t react like most men (it’s not them – it’s me).
Are we talking a hands free mouth only blowjob with around a 3-4 minute timeline? If so that is impressive.
I can see it if you are working your hands on the head and shaft during oral, but it takes some serious skill to do it hands free in that time (which I do not doubt you have mastered).
I’ll be glad to last two minutes.
To add another level to the challenge, do it out in public where he’s slightly more distracted. It might be a little harder to get a quick result.