A little while ago I made a post where I mentioned having sex with my ex and had some people ask me about it so I decided to make this post to explain it.
We dated for about two years during high school. He was the one that took my virginity and I thought he was the one. He was one year older than me so when he graduated, I was staying in town while he went off to college two hours away from where we lived. Since we wouldn’t be with each other every day, he wanted to take a break so that he “wouldn’t have to be tied down during the time in our lives when we’re supposed to have fun and experiment.” He said we would get back together in a year when I went to college (we were both planning on going to the same college). Basically, he wanted an excuse to fuck other girls. I got mad and we decided to break up instead. We both were mad at each other and stopped talking for a while.
About 5 months after the break up, my 18th birthday was coming up and I wanted to show that I had gotten over it and there was no more bad blood between us so I asked him if I could visit for the day. Since my birth was in a Friday, my parents decided to let me skip school on my birthday so that Thursday I drove up to my ex’s apartment and you can guess what happened next. On my birthday itself, I don’t think I even put any clothes in that whole day. I’d never had sex that often in my life. I think we fucked 4 times that day. My ex asked his roommate if he could stay somewhere else for the day so we had no worries if anyone walking in on us. It was the best sex I had ever had. I think it was because we weren’t dating anymore, but my ex was so much rougher than he’d ever been. I never knew I liked rough sex so much, but it was great. We tried all kinds of new things, and I found out I really like getting spanked. It was such a great day. The next morning, we had sex one more time and then I drove home.
We didn’t really talk about it much after that until Christmas break came around. He had come home for the holidays and since neither of us had class, he asked if I wanted to meet up. I agreed and we fucked as soon as I got to his place. We ended up fucking a few more times during Christmas break until it was time for him to go back to college.
Soon after, I started dating a guy and I’m not the type to cheat so I told my ex that we wouldn’t have sex anymore. 4 months later though, and my bf broke up with me so I called my ex and dropped everything to drive over there and let him fuck me silly. I think that was when we decided that we would keep fucking whenever we were both single because it always ended up happening anyway so we weren’t gonna deny it any more. I’m pretty sure we fucked more during that summer than we did while we were dating.
When the fall came, I ended up going to the same college as him so I’m sure you can guess that we ended up fucking even more since we were so close together again. A lot of my friends have told me I need to stop because there’s no future with him and we broke up for a reason, but I just don’t want to stop. I’ve found so many new kinks that I didn’t even know I had since we started doing it and it just feels amazing. I told my friends that we stopped but I don’t know if they believed me or not. I think most of them secretly know I still do it but just don’t say anything because they know I’m too stubborn to listen. Honestly though, it just feels good fucking my ex so I don’t see any reason to stop.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/zt3o1j/mf_i_still_have_sex_with_my_ex
You’re in college; you don’t need to find your Life Partner yet anyway. Fucking the brains out of a specific guy is a lot easier and safer than fucking a bunch of strangers, and you’ve got a weirdly trusting space to explore your kinks.
Your friends are either prudes or jealous. Sure, one day this will probably wind down, and you’ll go on to try normal relationships again. But until then? Have fun, figure yourself out a bit, and tell your friends that they should get their own fuck buddies if they raise a fuss again.
What kinks are you into now?