One of the most enjoyable and all out intense sexual encounters I’ve ever had proved size was irrelevant. I slept with a guy who I really liked and he had a cock that was probably 4.5-5” or so.
He made me laugh, he made me feel comfortable and he paid attention to me. He asked what turned me on and what I’d love to try.
When it came down to it, I didn’t even think twice about his size. He pleasured me with my fingers, mouth and his cock. He listened to my responses and honed in on what my body language indicated worked well.
I slept with him a few more times after that and bragged to my friends that I’d been having amazing sex. Size doesn’t come into it. He was the whole package
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/zo6o4g/fm_this_sexual_experience_will_tell_you_why_size
I love the general attitude behind this and it’s a sexy story too, but it really is a subjective preference and can matter quite a lot to some people. I’m not saying bigger is better, since it depends almost entirely on how much the person cares about their partner’s pleasure. He sounds like he was an amazing communicator and lay, I’m glad you got some great sex! 🔥
This is the experience I’ve had with average guys too. Often bigger guys are of the opinion that their dick is all they need and it is simply not true. Average guys make better lovers imo
You’re not with him anymore, are ya 😂
Very well said l, Brava! 👏🏻
Thanks for making us with statistically average (5.2″) dicks feel like we still have something to offer in the bedroom… What we lack in length we make up for with our tongues (in my case)…I hope!
Personal experiences are hard to generalize, and absolutes are almost always inaccurate (I realize the irony of saying that). Size might not be a necessary condition for great sex, as this story proves, but saying it doesn’t matter seems naive. It certainly made a difference for most of the ladies I have been with, both positive and negative (bumping the cervix can hurt the lady a lot). And I get that being big might lead to over-reliance for some, denying whatever advantage size might have conferred, but the sheer fact that we are talking about it means that the advantages are real. Saying that a guy with a big cock cannot be an attentive, generous lover is like saying that beautiful women never develop a personality because they don’t need to: unfair generalizations.
“You can get shit done with a knee.”
-me, circa 2014
A friend’s dad once shared..
’if you can’t hit the bottom of the well, rattle the hell out of the sides ..’
But now you’re back to taking a big dick…
This guy I dated after college, he was short, small dick, not great looking, but hilarious and I loved his personality. We were making out after drinking one night and he was like “You wanna fuck like Jack rabbits?” I laughed so hard and then he seriously knew how to fuck. We saw eachother for a while, and then when I moved away I would still hit him up. This was 15 years ago and he still remains one of the best fucks ever.
Why size doesn’t matter to some.
Too big is bad. Hitting the cervix is not enjoyable.
Too small is bad. She’s gotta feel something.
Everything else is subjective.
Its not the quantity it’s the quality
And it’s the quality that gets the quantity…
WOOOOO – HOOOOO
Bless this beautiful OP for giving average dudes like us some hope for a sexual future.
Being bi, it’s harder to please men with an average cock than a woman, but I’ll be damned if I’m not trying for each.
💙🫶🥰
Biggest dick I ever had talking 10in was a pillow princess. My man is 5 1/2 and is a way better lover and makes me forget my own damn name, shit I only thought existed in smut books
Pff. The best fuck buddy my wife ever had was 2″ hard on a good day.
He taught me a few things that my wife is grateful for to this day.
I was just having this exact conversation with a female friend of mine. We’re swingers. I pointed out that the men with large penises we know always have full dance cards. Women buy them things to keep their attention. So us smaller guys are never going to believe their size doesn’t matter.
I understand that size wouldn’t matter but I was of the opinion that 4-5 is below to just average that in itself is awesome compared to how guys micros gotta go through the wringer.
Then why do some girls say they like bigger dicks?
I was just thinking something like this, except from a straight guy’s perspective. The best sexperiences I’ve ever had was with the “loosest” pussy I’ve ever had. She lost her virginity to me so I never took any of the compliments she gave me seriously. I always thought once she was more experienced, she would think differently about our sex. As for me, I still think about her sex to this day.
There was something about her passion, her wanting me, needing me, and of course, she was SO good at fucking. She fucked like a porn star in any position, and the faces and sounds she made were incredibly hot. She was so good at being a slut for me too. I wish I had more time to explore more naughty stuff with her.
We went our separate ways and came back to hangout and fuck several times over a span of 4-5 years. Each time, she was just as good and still the best. I asked her what it was like with other guys and she said it was good but there’s something about our relationship that just makes our sex so carnal and amazing. I agreed with her a million percent.
Good to know you had such a wonderful experience
As long as he will lick you…
Guys do put way too much on the size of their penis, like it’s their only identity or something. The worst sex I ever had was with a guy with too big of a cock. It just hurt me because he fucked me from behind and I didn’t have any control of the depth and he was banging in to my cervix very hard. Not fun. I do have to admit that I did have sex with a guy with too small of a dick, it wasn’t the length, it was the width, he was barely thicker than a finger. I honestly couldn’t tell when he entered me. That wasn’t great either. But every other cock in between those two have been wonderful
The original post and the answers are all a great inspiration for guys who like me are only average in size.
I had a female friend who was a size queen and she always wanted to experience a dick that was in double digits for size.
She met a guy with 11″ and kept saying it was fantastic) but a few years later admitted to me (at her engagement party) when I jokingly asked if her fiancée was huge, that it was the worst sex she ever had and she told me her husband to be was probably a little smaller than average sized.