My (M28) wife (F27) are getting into butt play for the first time. We both have a bit of an aversion to anal sex. It’s just something neither of us have been very interested in. She’s hasn’t been interested anything butt related. Despite not being into anal I would say I’m a bit more open to general butt play.
In the past, the most we’ve ever done has been pressing a long vibrator along her pussy and ass so there’s a light sensation on her butthole. But over several years we may have only done that a handful of times.
A week ago my wife came out of the shower and I immediately started going down on her. In the process of licking her I was taking long slow licks from bottom to top and I would start at the patch of skin between the vagina and butthole. Once or twice I accidentally caught her asshole with my lick and she let out a soft moan. Within a few minutes I was giving her first rim job! It lasted 10 minutes or show and she was super relaxed and enjoyed it.
Less than a week later we’re having a quickie in the bathroom and I have her bent over the counter. While fucking I pressed my thump against her asshole and she loved it. It didn’t completely insert it but was flat part of my thumb against her asshole and a good amount of pressure.
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Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/wl55an/mf_married_couple_dabbling_with_anal_play
Lube and communication…make the world go round.
I always enjoyed butt play with my partners, but seldom have anal sex. Anal sex is an undertaking that requires a bit of prep as well as some knowledge that it’s gonna occur. So being that we are too busy to plan “buttfucking” on the planner we stay to fingers, tongues, and specific anal toys. Pleasure is had by all…if the mood hits right and she is down for it, we have anal sex. She is the one who asks for it, as its her anus and she’s the one who knows how her body feels. I’ve always told her, if you want butt sex just tell me..otherwise I’ll assume it’s a no. That works well for us.