Hey there. Figured I’d do an AMA since I’ve been in a poly triad for a bit now.
They’re married, it started off with her and I dating while he was stationed overseas in the Army (all consenual). He came home and we realized we also clicked well, despite me being a very gay girl lmao, and we decided to be all together
Ask away
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/6s8c3u/ffm_im_in_a_poly_relationship_ama
So, you said you’re lesbian. Do you and he have sex?
Why do you call it a trio instead of using typical polyamorous nomenclature?
How do you three handle sexual intimacy when all three of you are together?
Despite the choices of partners that you have, do you still masturbate? If so, how often?
Do you argue often? Who are arguments generally between and about what? What would you say is the greatest weakness of the relationships/arrangement?
Thanks for doing the AMA. My question – Are you open about the relationship? And where do you see this going in the long run?
sounds like it works for all of you, best of luck
Not really a question, just wanted to say I had a great experience being in a situation similar to yours in the last few months. I wish you and your family the best of luck!
I’m in a similar relationship (MMF) as the pivot (that the one person in the center who is dating the other two). We’ve been together for almost 10 years now since I returned from my military deployment.
It’s certainly something that can go well if you are willing to work on it. Just remember poly rule #1 communicate all the time.