[M] I told my wife that I am attracted to her sister

I’m happily married to my lovely wife but since meeting her sister for the first time a couple weeks back, I can’t keep it any longer and had to confess to my wife.

I was insanely guilty of this and felt like shit and didn’t know how to exactly tell her. It’s not like I’m madly in love with her sister or want to date her or anything, it’s just this “urge” or “lust” if you will. A wank would probably make me get over it lol. But it didn’t, and for 2 weeks now, I’ve been avoiding sex with my wife because I can’t stop thinking about her sister. It’s a shitty feeling and I feel awful about it.

Last night, I sat down with my wife and talked about our inner deep fantasies. I asked her to tell me and share with me anything she might want to “explore”. She confessed a few things but nothing too extreme or unusual I guess. This is where I started opening up and slowly confessed to her how I felt about her sister. I assured her it’s purely fantasy and nothing more. She was a bit upset I’m not gonna lie and looked hurt. What happened next took me by surprise. She said she can help me atleast control this urge and offered something by way of a handjob. She didn’t want to sleep with me just yet though because the thought of her being compared to her sister is too much right now and unbearable.

Anyway, she started playing with me until I slowly got hard and she asked me to think about her or anyone else and assured me again that it’s okay. Slowly, she started talking about her sister and asked me what I liked about her. This is when it reaaaallly got weird and I started throbbin. She offered to show me pics of her sister on her phone. Nothing nude or nsfw obviously but just selfies and random photos. This made me insanely harder and in seconds, I came.

Today morning i woke up and kissed my wife on my way to work and thanked her for last night and apologized for telling her her how I felt about her sister and that it’s super inappropriate. She didn’t say anything , I can see she’s still looking upset and hurt.

I will see her after 8 hours when I’m back but I still feel truly awful and don’t know how to face her or talk to her again or if things will be the same again.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/sowig0/m_i_told_my_wife_that_i_am_attracted_to_her_sister

16 comments

  3. Haha my girl knows I find her sister and cousins attractive and I would sleep with her mom even tho she’s only ok on the attraction scale. She lets me verbalize my fantasies during sex and handjobs….. she’ll even add to them occasionally but more just a rehash of something I’ve already said.

    I think it stems from a fetish of incest, not incest with my blood family but with hers…. I don’t think it will matter who I’m dating I’ll fantasize about her female family members.

  4. I’m curious how he’s happily married but only met the sister 2 weeks ago. Seems sus.

  7. Wow! Kudos for the honesty thought, you have balls and seems like alot of respect for your wife. Update us all in a few weeks, please!

  9. That’s hot but Yikes! I hope for your sake that your wife has an open mind or else you can kiss this marriage goodbye pal. Imagine if you had a brother and your wife admitted to not having sex with you because she’s more attracted to him. GG no re.

  10. If my husband told me he fantasized about either of my sisters I wouldn’t be hurt, grossed out and maybe confused, just give her time and show her love and devotion (step it up a notch) and she will probably be good to go. You’ll be surprised at where our minds get to sometimes so I bet on some level unless she is an extremely jealous person she appreciates the bold honesty.

  11. Maybe you should highlight how the forbidden aspect of the situation makes it a incredible turn on… and that had her participating together the other night was just over the top.
    And thank her a lot… maybe tease her to tell you if she never fantasize about anyone close, while you eat her out. You need to find a way to reciprocate and make her fill she is the center of attention.

  14. I just wanted to say I’m proud of you for being so open and honest with her! I think that speaks volumes about you and how dedicated to her you are.

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