My girlfriend wants to be in control during sex – with her kegel muscles [MF]

My girlfriend is hot and athletic and we have a very loving, caring relationship. But sex is weird because she likes to control every step that happens. With other girlfriends I was more dominant, with her it’s the opposite and I struggle a bit. It’s her personality to be very efficient and practical. Sometimes, she is even a bit mean to me, not on purpose – I think – more out of routine or self-care for her.

In 9 of 10 of the cases, she prefers missionary.

**Our usual routine**

She gets ready on her back on the bed, opens her legs, a towel under her ass to catch the dripping creampie she will get. She always expects me to finish inside her.

During the first few minutes of sex, she relaxes her pussy muscles for me and rubs her clit. It feels good, warm, exciting, I have no problem lasting as long as I want – or as she likes. I fuck her, sometimes a little rougher and faster, it’s perfect, while she masturbates with her fingers on her clit. She praises me for how good and perfect my cock feels inside her. After two minutes she orgasms by rubbing her clit and moans loudly. When she comes back to her senses, she asks me, “Do you want to cum”?

The first time I didn’t know what she was going to do. I said “yes” and kept going, feeling good and so proud that I had made her cum and I wanted to keep going for a few more minutes.

Then I felt it. The next thrust, her pussy felt different, tighter, more intense. Was it my imagination? I continued my steady deep thrusts and suddenly feel my orgasm approaching. I try to hold back as she tightens her muscles even more. This is too much, I’m going to ejaculate now! Her pussy is milking me. And then I start cumming and I freeze on top of her because it’s so intense. Her pussy walls stimulate my glans, I moan involuntarily. I try to give her a few mini-strokes, but I can’t because she’s too tight, this makes me just moan more. I lie on her tits like a virgin and pump out the rest of the cum while she relaxes her pussy and releases my penis from her grip. As soon as my orgasm is over, she says “good” and pushes my hips back with her hands. My penis slides out, the dripping creampie follows and flows onto the towel.

The first few times I didn’t even realize she was using her kegel muscles. It felt like premature ejaculation in the middle of the act, I didn’t know how it happened. I came so suddenly and without warning. Then I learned that she did it on purpose and it was part of her normal routine.

**She likes to be in control**

She asks “Do you want to come?” or “Are you ready?” and she makes me come shortly after, within 30 seconds, I cannot last when she grips my penis. When I slow down to hold back, she complains “Faster, fuck me.” If I fuck her too fast, I am over the edge in about five thrusts when she tightens her vagina.

At one point I answered “not yet” when she asked me “ready?”. She said, “ok, fuck me good and as long as you can”. I increased the speed , expecting a few more minutes, but then she constricted her vagina even more than usual. I was helpless to stop it, moaning, as I pumped my cum into her. She commented, “It’s okay, you tried” and pushed me out.

It is like a routine for her, no special effort :) It’s hot how great she is in bed, but also a little embarrassing, how she can control it. I have come to accept that. She says our sex is great and she wants it often.

She confirmed that she did this with all her lovers and boyfriends. She has been practicing Pilates and Kegel exercises for several years, and it shows.

I wonder how many women like to control sex this way?

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ryiacm/my_girlfriend_wants_to_be_in_control_during_sex