It’s been a while since I’ve had the opportunity to write up one of my experiences, and the events of this past weekend were absolutely phenomenal and it would be a travesty to not share the detailed account of it all. My wife Amelia and I are in an ethically non-monogamous open marriage, and she has been seeing her secondary partner Frankie for about 7 months, and told us individually that for her birthday this year she really wanted a threesome. I had met Frankie a few times up to this point and we had gotten along well, both of us being pretty nerdy/geeky and full of corny jokes. I warmed up to the idea and the two of us discreetly started planning over text.
## Our character sheets:
* Amelia just turned 38, is just about 5’1″, Asian, medium-length highlighted black hair, curvy, glasses, 36G breasts; identifies as a babygirl and a sub.
* I’m 6’2″, 37, 235 with a broad build, white/Italian descent, trimmed beard, dark blonde hair, slate blue eyes, and I happen to be fully blind; I identify as a service top sub, pleasure giver, and kinkstigator.
* Frankie is also around 6’2″, 48, Puerto Rican descent, brown hair, glasses, bearded, and a little heavier set; he is my wife’s Daddy Dom.
## Prelude
While Amelia’s birthday was in November, due to scheduling conflicts and logistics, it took all the way up to Dec. 18th to finally have a full day available for play. Frankie had said that the essence of Poly/Non-MonogAmelia is generally having a fetish for scheduling and calendars, and getting this all organized proved that point. As he got the hotel situated, we had some back and forth about what Amelia wanted, what we would bring, and assessed overall comfort levels with different kinds of play to make sure everyone was on the same page and happy.
While this was meant to be a surprise, Amelia caught on when Frankie and I got caught in a logistics and scheduling snafu. She was slated to have an overnight with Frankie on the weekend of the threesome, and one of their plans was to attend the Society of Janus munch in San Jose Saturday afternoon. Frankie had suggested that he and Amelia drive separate cars to the munch which didn’t make sense to her since Amelia thought she’d just drive to his house first and they would go in one car to the munch. Frankie couldn’t figure out a reason as to why they needed separate cars and divulged that I may have been planning on attending the munch with them. She got annoyed by that since that weekend was meant for her and Frankie, so he ended up coming clean when it was apparent she was unhappy about me intruding and he didn’t want her to resent me. Amelia came home and tried faking out my ruse by asking if I wanted to go to the munch, and I said that I’d like to attend. She played along by throwing all the logistical difficulties that would cause in my face (“How are you getting home? You can’t Lyft all the way from San Jose to Oakland! I’m not taking you to Berryessa BART! You know I don’t like you taking BART out of commute hours!”). I said I was comfortable figuring out all of those things, but I could feel the tension and got nervous about trying to keep the whole thing under wraps.
A few nights later she just outright asked if Frankie and I were planning a threesome, and I had to drop the act and explain myself. So no more surprise and Amelia knew when it was going to happen, but Frankie and I were at least able to keep the overall plans hidden from her up to the day. So a fail on the surprise, but it didn’t impact our fun in any way.
## Arrival
Finally, Dec. 18th rolled around and Amelia and I packed up clothes and toiletries and made our way down to the hotel. We met Frankie in the suite and I made my mental map of the space. As we explored the bedroom, we found that Frankie had the whole room staged with practically everything in his kink arsenal. Amelia felt like she was in a full-on sex toy shop. Frankie had grouped all the toys and tools and displayed them in easy to reach places. Vibrators and dildos were on the night stand to the right of the bed. Sensation play tools like nipple pumps/clamps, Wartenberg pinwheels, etc. were on the night stand to the left, and both night stands had lube at the ready. The dresser facing the bed contained a variety of restraints and rope, anal toys, and butt plugs, along with floggers and other impact play items laid out in each drawer. We were in awe of how well it had all been decked out!
We put our stuff down and headed out to the munch at San Pedro Square. We got food and drinks and ended up spending the time just getting comfy with all of us together rather than actually interacting with the other munch attendees. Most people had cliqued off into their own groups and Frankie led us around to mingle with folks after we ate. Eventually the munch ended and we made our way back to the hotel.
## A shocking Good Time
We were quite full from lunch, so we just took our time getting settled. Phones put on silent, Smart Water bottles set up on each nightstand, towels at the ready, and we slowly made our way to the bed.
Amelia plopped down in the center of the king bed and I hopped up to her left. Frankie started things off by taking out a Violet Wand, an electrical play toy that creates a fun zappy charge either with different of glass attachments or by using a body strap that turns you into a conductor. Amelia was still fully dressed in a short red skirt and a black sweater with silver strands interwoven throughout. I was in jeans and a long-sleeve black Henley, and Frankie was in jeans, a D&D t-shirt, plus had just taken off his Han Solo leather jacket. He turned the wand on and the unmistakable buzzing sound of the toy filled the room. He knelt on the bed and touched the business end to her leg causing her to make a really cute yelp and squirm away. Frankie adjusted the strength down a bit and started coursing it over her thighs, the crackling sound of the electric arcs changing depending on how far he had it away from her skin. Amelia laid back and enjoyed it while we worked out the right strength, then Frankie swapped out the attachment for the body contact strap and placed it under Amelia’s butt. Her skin now came alive with current and Frankie and I started touching her together.
The fun part about the body contact is that you have much more control over the intensity of the sensation just from how you are touching your partner. Using the tip of your finger focuses much more energy transferring between one point versus using your palm or a larger surface area which makes it much more subtle. I opened my palm and traced the tips of my fingers around her leg, slowly moving up her shin, over her knee, and alternating palm and finger touches around her inner thigh. My hand was tingling as the current flowed through us, and Amelia kept making different kinds of fun noises that were a mix between pleasure and being tickled. Frankie and I kept moving our hands around her body, tracing the energy down her arms and hands, across her tummy, eventually moving over her breasts and erect nipples, and also playfully seeing how it worked through her hair. I accidentally bonked her forehead with mine as I adjusted my position and promptly got zapped in the face.
From previous experience, I knew well enough to not try using my mouth on someone connected to the wand, but Frankie tried it anyways just for science. I started tracing her mound which made her jump and gasp, and we continued on with zappy touch until we once again swapped out the attachment. Frankie offered me a few choices and I took one that had a spoon shaped tip and continued using it around Amelia’s body. I played with changing the intensity, tried writing my name on her thigh while she squirmed around, and made fun little touches randomly around her body.
## A Little Restraint
I started feeling Amelia’s body moving rhythmically and wet noises coming from between her legs. Frankie had started playing with her pussy and was fingering her. Part of the lead-up to this day was that Amelia had been ordered to not play with herself or orgasm all week, and we continued the orgasm control/denial. She was not allowed to cum until we said so, which naturally added a fun aspect of finding different ways to pleasure her and get her to the edge without tipping her over. It was fun teasing her about having to not play with herself in the days leading up to our little tryst, and was worth every second when the desperation of wanting to cum and the frustration of not being able to do so started edging into her gasps and voice.
Frankie got off the bed and wandered over to the dresser and returned with ankle restraints and rope. Amelia’s ankles are so tiny Frankie has to use wrist restraints on them to get them tight enough. The bed we were on was a hotel plinth bed that didn’t have any legs or space underneath it, so Frankie had to improvise a rope anchoring system looped under the mattress and fastened the restraints to the rope with carabiners. We checked in with Amelia to make sure she was comfy and proceeded to help her take off her top and bra. I turned off the Violet Wand and set it aside as Frankie got back on the bed.
With Amelia’s legs now fastened to the bed, we moved on to a little more fun torture. Frankie picked up the Wartenberg pinwheels, little metal medical tools used for assessing nerve response. Essentially tiny and very spiky pizza cutters in a way. Frankie handed me one and he took another and we started rolling them across Amelia’s exposed skin. We turned the Violet Wand back on for some extra oomph with how much the pinwheels stung just to see how she liked it, and turned it off pretty quickly after she jumped and decided she wasn’t into that at all. We kept rolling the pinwheels around her for quite some time, enjoying her responses as we found fun sensitive spots around her body and played with different speeds and patterns of movement.
## All Tied Up
After we felt that Amelia had had her fill of pretending to be a prickly pizza, Frankie went back to the dresser and grabbed more rope. He settled himself behind Amelia and started working on a chest harness. I felt his work with my hands so I could get a sense of what he was doing while he talked it through. He made a single-column tie around her upper chest and knotted it in the back by her shoulders, then wrapped the rope around her a few times under her breasts. He brought the rope up over her shoulders and made a fun little twisting pattern down her sternum, tightening the harness and making her ample breasts pop out even more.
I grabbed some rope and started doing a single column tie on Amelia’s ankle, but ran out of rope while I was tying a ladder pattern up her shin. I undid the rope and grabbed a longer length and repeated the tie, then used more rope to do a similar ladder tie up her arm. Frankie and Amelia made out while I worked with the rope, attaching another length of rope to the ladder that ended at her knee and continued the hitching design up her thigh, my hands coursing over her smooth skin while I used gentle arousing touch mixed with firmer movements to manipulate the rope. Rope work has always been fascinating to me, as it’s a fun mix of arousing sensual and tactile touch along with technical skill and artistry. I like visualizing the patterns that I’m making with the rope, the communication and checking-in to ensure that everything feels great and that nothing is too tight or too loose, and then enjoying the fruits of the labor by having a partner partially or fully restrained for additional play. Frankie and I geeked out a bit about the various types of rope while we worked on Amelia, and she just laid back and let us manipulate her as we needed to finish our ties.
## The Breast Kind of Play
Once we were done, Frankie commented on how awesome all of the rope work looked and started playing with Amelia’s breasts and hard nipples. He moved around again and produced the nipple sucker toys he brought. They were small tapered glass tubes attached to a rubber bulb. You would squeeze the bulb, place the conical tapered end over the nipple, and then releasing the bulb would suck the nipple into the tube, making it grow and expand. We played with these for a while, asking Amelia how much she was enjoying it. The nipple suckers came with tiny rubber bands that could be slipped around the outside of the tapered mouth of the tube. When the pump was attached to the nipple, the band could be rolled/slid down the tube until it was off the tube and sitting around the base of the nipple, essentially acting like a cock ring and keeping the freshly pumped nipple plump and erect. Amelia said it made her nipples more sensitive, and I was quite excited feeling how large they had become.
I took the nipple sucker off after making sure the nipple band was in place, then tried sucking her nipple while massaging her breast. This proved to be a little difficult, as latching on and sucking almost popped the band off, and I wasn’t particularly drawn to the idea of accidentally inhaling or swallowing the band. Frankie and I sucked her breasts together, each of us squeezing and loving her breasts with our hands. Lots of fun talk back and forth about how hot she looked and how much fun her breasts were. I leaned up from my position on the bed to make out with my wife, pinching and squeezing her nipple and kneading her breast while our lips and tongues worked together. Her breathing quickened as Frankie started rubbing and fingering her again, that and our combined touch riling her up to another orgasmic edge. She told us she was getting close, and we both promptly stopped what we were doing to let her come back down, much to her delicious annoyance. We told her a variety of things to think about to help her come back down from the edge, and with the mention of sports and hockey (our favorite), I started tapping out one of our San Jose Sharks chants on her tummy. Tap-Tap-TapTapTap, Let’s Go Sha-arks! Our mascot SJ Sharkie would bang that pattern out on his drum during the games, and we all started cracking up as Amelia exclaimed that she’d never be able to look at Sharkie in the same way again.
Stay tuned for Parts 2 and 3! Hope you’ve enjoyed this so far. :)
Edit: [READ on to Part 2 here.](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/rooxrh/my_wifes_kinky_birthday_threesome_part_2_mfm/)
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