The last sel[f]ie I have taken of myself after showing husbands friend.

While I have been writing about sexual history with old relationships, my husband said i was welcome to throw in stories from our relationship as well. We’ve been together for 10 years so we have some sexual history. This is a few years into our relationship while on a couples trip to Chicago.

This is a simple story so I won’t make it long. It’s about the last time I took a nude picture on my own phone.

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My husband and I dated for three years before getting engaged. Our second summer together, we went on a trip with 2 of his buddies and their respective wife and girlfriend—> now wife. They are still close friends of ours and as I write this we have plans to bbq at one of their pools this Saturday.

The married couple already acted as such and were closer friends at the time. The husband has lived with my now husband for 2 years during their 20’s and we’re all close now. The other unmarried couple were close friends but this was our first trip with them and we questioned how we would feel after the trip was over. Mainly this was because the guy would often say sexual comments about me but typically also as a negative to his girlfriend—> now wife. So it would be something like “if you lost a few lbs, you could pull that suit off too “ referring to my bathing suit at near navy pier during this trip.

Well we were in Chicago in our last day of a 2 night/three day stay when we split up to shop for the morning before heading home.

My now husband and I went to the department stores on Michigan ave, can’t remember which one, but my husband was asking me to get new bras because I never splurge on myself and had some pretty ratty bras.

When we found the section I looked around and was helped by a women to find some ideal styles. These weren’t sexy bras, just ones that were new and would fit. In the changing room I texted my husband that it was weird the sales lady was working so closely with me. Coming in and adjusting the straps after each bra I tried. He of course responded saying he wished he could see them. The next time the sales women walked out I took a mirror selfie in the bra and another pulling down a cup and showing 1 breast while covering the phone with my face.

I sent it to my now husband and continued to try on bras. I thought nothing else of it because it was such a simple gesture, happened quickly and I was distracted with shopping and buying and getting out of there to rendezvous with everyone for the drive back home.

After finishing up shopping, and buying two bras, We show up 5 minutes early to the rendezvous…an annoying trait of my husbands to always be early. The other two couples were 10 min late. My husband drove his dads big expedition that fit everyone so we loaded up our shopping finds and prepared for home. As we pulled out of the parking lot, the tailgate lifted and half of our bags fell into the busy intersection. The two guys in back immediately jumped out, threw everything back in and shut the door till they heard it click. We were on our way within seconds but still embarrassing.

Once in the highway I was already head down into my phone bored with a 4-5 hour trip ahead. Then in the back seat our unmarried guy friend asked if I had the newest iPhone. It was new but came out a few weeks earlier, so I had already stopped showing it off. He was a photographer so he said he wanted to play with the new upgraded camera and settings. I handed my phone over and he went into the camera app and took a couple photos including “portrait mode” which was new on this phone. He was amazed by the quality and told us how he doesn’t need to own his nice dslr anymore because phones are becoming so capable. For another 3-4 minutes he was pretty quiet while he continued to play with the settings and then handed back the phone.

Within about .0000001 seconds of the phone hitting my hand I realized I still had that flashing photo in my camera roll. He was just in the phone and had it for a while, so I figured he was able to find and look at the photo. He had enough time to send it to himself without much trouble as well.

I was mortified, so I have sworn off having anything sexy on my phone. My husband used to like this story because one of his close friends has likely seen me naked, but now he hates it because it’s been years since I have actually sent a picture myself. I pose for him, so he can’t complain, but he misses when I would send him things while he was out of town for work or out on a guys night.

My husband confronted him a year or two later and he claimed he never saw a naked picture, wishes he did, and was sad that he missed it. I believe my husband has actually shared the picture with him more recently, but only from his phone, or at least he teases me that he has.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/opg568/the_last_selfie_i_have_taken_of_myself_after