The handjob is under appreciated, I [F] really enjoy to make guys cum quickly from just that [FM]

I have a couple of FWBs and tend to be more on the dominant side with most of them. Recently I increased my dominance side. The fun thing is that they aren’t even that submissive. But the great thing as a female is that you have the power of the vagina; what you want sexually usually goes. Guys are easy to get horny and once they are you have them in your power. I really get off on that power play, which is a side of me I only found out about a few years ago. Perhaps it is because of the guys I get attracted to but I never had a guy that didn’t allow me to hold the strings during sex.

There has been a time in which I couldn’t do much more than that. I had vaginismus and because of that I couldn’t have penetrative sex. It forced me to be more creative with the possibilities I had left. Now I’m somewhat glad I went through that since it lead me to being very good in those things, instead of lazily using my vagina. Almost every girl can make a guy cum through her vagina but not every girl can jerk a guy off to an orgasm. I’m quite proud of that I can so easily.

Recently I added a dynamic to my sex life with my FWB’s. Sometimes I try really hard to make the guy orgasm during foreplay from nothing more than my hand(s). There are a couple of reasons for this. A handjob is considered the least special or sexual from all the sexual acts, so when I can make it so that they can’t (or even better: want to) go any further, I feel exhilarated. It is also something I can do, even when I don’t get in the mood. And most important of all: I am good at it and want to be the best in it. When a guy compliments me over a handjob or cums really quickly from it (which is in itself also a compliment) I feel very powerful. It’s the best thing to get me in the mood, which is funny since one of the positives about a handjob is that you can do it with little discomfort when you’re not in the mood.

It isn’t like I always do that, sometimes I like to be penetrated, even when I don’t get an orgasm though that. So sometimes I still won’t do it like that and have regular forplay and sometimes I have sex with them afterwards anyway if they can get hard soon after. It is fun to play with though. With one guy though it has been a while since we actually had penetrative sex and I’m not sure if that will change soon. It started through me wanting to make him cum before we could move on, but now he doesn’t want it any other way. He only asks me for a handjob and doesn’t expect or want anything more.

I get my pleasure before or after it, or at home, but sometimes I really just like to give. There is nothing like a good old fashioned handjob!

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/oelevs/the_handjob_is_under_appreciated_i_f_really_enjoy