[F] [NB] My (30F) partner (28NB) gives me the longest, hardest orgasms of my life.

As always, scroll to the dashes to skip the backstory and get to the sex.

Hello again, dear readers. I’m back with a more recent story than my last couple. If you’ve been following my posts, you might have read my stories [here](http://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/jqps0h/mf_how_i_30f_learned_that_i_can_have_gspot_orgasms/) and [here](http://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/jwcp4r/mf_hot_sex_with_my_30f_boyfriend_27m_on_the_couch/) about a romantic partner who I referred to as my boyfriend, and talked about using he/him pronouns. This story is about that same partner, however they have recently come out as nonbinary and told me they prefer they/them pronouns, so that’s what I’ll be using in stories about them from now on. I don’t think I’ve given them a pseudonym yet, so let’s call them Alex.

I’ve been in a relationship with Alex for around 9 months now, and I couldn’t be happier. Our relationship has progressed slowly but steadily, and feels so healthy and sustainable. This is Alex’s first polyamorous relationship. I am always cautious around dating people new to polyamory since they sometimes struggle with it, but it’s been so easy with Alex. They get along great with my other partners, and have recently developed another relationship of their own with a friend of mine. We communicate really well, the most mundane activities like grocery shopping feel fun with them, and no word of exaggeration, we have been having hands down the best sex of my life.

**—————Sexy things start here—————-**

I thought I was having great sex before I met Alex, but they’ve really raised the bar. If you’ve been following my posts, you know I’ve had a lot of sex, with what I would consider quite a lot of people. I’m not inexperienced. I’ve had several long-term relationships previously including a 10 year one, so it isn’t a case of me just never having had someone know my body well, either. Alex and my sex certainly does keep getting better over time as we get to know each other’s bodies more intimately and fall deeper in love, but it was already great from day dot. Our chemistry was immediate, I felt it like electricity from the first moment our bodies made contact. I’ve written here before about how they gave me my first g-spot orgasms the second time we ever had sex, which was something I didn’t even think my body was capable of.

Alex tells me that our sex is the best sex of their life, too. I made them cum in my mouth some time in our first couple weeks of dating, which they were taken aback by, especially since it was sleepy, middle of the night head. They told me afterwards that they had only ever cum from head once before, and that was only after several months of their partner at the time trying almost every day, sometimes for hours at a time, because she was really determined to make it happen. Before meeting me, Alex says they didn’t really get anything out of receiving oral, and found it slightly uncomfortable or even painful at times. They didn’t used to mind if their partner wanted to go down on them, since some people get turned on by giving, but it was always for their partner’s benefit and not their own. Now, they beg me for it. I feel like I don’t even really have to do anything to elicit a big reaction from them. A gentle lick of the length of their frenulum or a little swirl of my tongue around the head of their cock makes them moan and whine. If they aren’t fully erect, a few little licks or sucks gets them there in seconds. I’ve learned over time that they really like a lot of tongue action on just the head of their penis. I usually use both hands to stroke their shaft while I’m doing this, or I’ll have one hand on their shaft and the other on their balls and taint. I have once given them head while fingering their ass and milking their prostate, which was a first for them and they seemed to really enjoy it.

The orgasms Alex gives me are always good, but the ones I get when they go down on me now are nothing short of earth shattering. Alex has consistently made me cum nearly every time we’ve had sex from the beginning of our relationship, which in itself is great since I’ve certainly slept with people who couldn’t be bothered putting the work in, but they were normal orgasms in the beginning. These days, more often than not, they are on another level from what I’ve experienced before. I used to half-jokingly rate the strength of my orgasms on a scale of 1-10, but what used to be a 10 for me now pales in comparison to what I experience when Alex gives me head, so I’m gonna have to rewrite my scale.

Not only are the orgasms I have now with Alex way more intense than anything I’ve felt before, but they are also *really* long. Over the past 9 months, Alex has quite deliberately and systematically learned just what to do to draw my orgasms out for as long as possible, when to move their tongue and mouth, and when to keep still so as not to overstimulate me. Before Alex, when I came I would feel two or three big involuntary contractions of my vaginal muscles, which then quickly subsided. Now, I sometimes have half a dozen or more contractions. Often, they come in two or three waves, separated by a couple of smaller contractions. It feels almost as if I am having two or three orgasms back-to-back.

The first time I had an orgasm like this was a couple of months ago. I was lying on my back with my butt right at the edge of the bed, and had Alex kneeling on floor between my legs, eating my pussy. I had my legs wrapped around their shoulders, putting them in closer when I wanted more direct stimulation and pushing them away slightly when I wanted them to ease off. I had a fistful of their long hair, and was making slight adjustments to the angle of their head as we went. Anyway, we had been going at it like this for a pretty long time, and we were edging me, backing things off every time I got too close, but never losing the momentum we were building. They were moaning into my pussy as they ate me. They had one hand grasping my hip so they could pull me in closer to their face, and the other one holding my free hand. All of a sudden, I felt the orgasm coming like a freight train, racing towards me with unstoppable momentum. I heard myself cry out something I never would have expected to find myself saying during sex: “What the fuck?!”. It’s not a very sexy phrase, and could easily have been mistaken for me telling Alex they were doing something wrong, but I was just in shock and disbelief over how **big** it felt. Luckily, they seemed to understand that, because they didn’t stop or falter in their movements. They just grasped my hand and my hip tighter, and kept moaning as they ate me. I kept saying it. I didn’t mean to, it just kept spilling out. I could hear the words, but I didn’t feel like it was me saying them. I felt external to them, like a passive observer: “What the fuck? What the FUCK?! What the FUCK ALEX?!”.

The orgasm hit me like a tidal wave and washed over me hard, tearing outwards from my loins to the top of my head, the tips of my fingers and tips of my toes. As I felt the spasms of my pussy slowing down, I thought it was over, but then Alex made some tiny movement with their tongue, and they started getting harder again. Everything went white for a moment. I later joked to Alex that it’s like I left my body and saw God. My ears were ringing. My whole body was shaking violently. I heard myself let out a high-pitched scream and felt my legs lock around Alex’s head. As the second wave subsided and my vision returned, my head was spinning, I felt dizzy and almost like I was going to faint. I was completely out of breath, and panting like I’d just run a marathon. Alex climbed up from between my legs, kissed me, and sat beside me on the bed. I rolled over to lay my head on their chest, and they put an arm around me. They asked me “how was that?” with mild concern in their voice. It was a few minutes before I was able to answer them. I couldn’t get words out beyond the occasional “wow,” “fuck,” or miscellaneous incoherent whining noises. From then on, these kind of orgasm have been a regular occurrence, I now have them most times that Alex goes down on me.

When we fuck, my orgasms usually aren’t nearly as big as they are during oral, but I do regularly cum several times within the span of a few minutes. I know this is pretty common for afab folk, but I was never able to do it before, not even while masturbating. After I came, it would be like there was a refractory period before I was able to cum again. Somehow, Alex seems to have changed that, and I’m able to do it on my own now, too.

I have more I wanted to say, like about how the other day, for the first time, I had one of the big, earth-shattering orgasms while Alex was inside me. Maybe I’ll write a part 2, but I’m out of time for now. I am in bed having a slow Saturday morning as I write this, and I just received a text from Alex asking what I was doing. I replied, “I’m writing about fucking you. When you’re awake enough, get your cute butt over here and let me ride that dick”. They sent a bunch of heart-eyed emojis, followed by, “I’m still waking up, but I’m suddenly very motivated. I’ll let you know when I’m on my way!”

So, folks, I’m going to go take a shower and make myself smell nice. Alex has made it very clear that they will enthusiastically go down on me no matter when I last showered (I believe their exact words included, “I worship your pussy”), but I want to, and I’ve probably got 15 minutes if I head off now.

**Feedback and questions are always welcome. I ignore or send snide responses to seedy DMs. Being a woman who openly enjoys and talks about sex does not mean I am interested in sex with you.**

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/o8qde3/f_nb_my_30f_partner_28nb_gives_me_the_longest