My first experience with bladder control as a domme

I have had a pee kink/fetish for a very long time. Sometimes I’d rather watch people having accidents than watch porn, so I knew that during exploring Femdom/Findom like I have been, I would need to explore bladder control too. At first I thought that I wanted to be the one controlled and played with like that, but over the years I’ve realised that I like to be the one in control. The thought of not just owning someone’s right to touch themselves or cum, or controlling their mind or even their wallets, but their own bladders… Now to me that is ultimate. The power I feel as the submissive becomes more and more needy, desperate is indescribable. See- you can try to hold it for as long as you can, hours even, but you’ll always have an accident. Some subs I even put in diapers to make sure they don’t make a mess.

My first experience however was with a sub I met through Twitter. He was very obedient and keen to please me which I liked. He mentioned during messages that he just needed to head to the bathroom and that’s when I saw the opportunity. I told him he couldn’t and that instead he had to talk to me, follow my instructions and that eventually I would let him go to the bathroom on my own terms. We had an agreement that I could surprise him with domme sessions at any time and this was that time. He obliged and sat back down. I told him that he had to find a big bottle, fill it with water and drink it. He didn’t need to go too badly yet so I wanted to play as much as I could. I told him that with every refill he would have to send me money: a combination of my two biggest kinks in one. I was trying not to touch myself on the other end of the phone as he drank his bottle and refilled it. He sent to me and drank again. This happened about 6 times- every time he thought he was full, I’d make him have another until I’d agreed that it was enough.

Now it was time for the best part to begin. He was full and whining helplessly. I told him to complete tasks like go and stand next to his running sink, to get in the shower and let the water run over his feet. He told me it was torture. I even let him sit down on the toilet, but of course I wouldn’t let him go. If he leaked even a drop I would have punished him. He was such a good pup for me and was begging for me to let him go. I’d been playing with him for over an hour and told him he had to wait another hour until he could pee. He practically wailed telling me that it was impossible, but I made him drink again for complaining. Eventually I told him to go to the bedroom and sit on his bed. There I told him to send me videos so I could see how much he was struggling- I couldn’t simply take his word for it after all. He was shaking like crazy, whining and begging. There was a lot of ‘oh fucks’ whispered as he kept repeating that he couldn’t hold it. I was ridiculously turned on at this point. I’d always watched videos like this vicariously but this time it was me in control- he’d do anything I told him to.

I told him that he’d have to send something big for me to let him go- and he did. Once I was satisfied I told him that he could let go- but that he had to film himself having the accident and that it had to be right there in his bed. Of course he protested at first and tried to resist, but we both knew he’d give in eventually. He needed it too badly. Some time went by and eventually a video came through. He was panting, trying to hold it in until the very last second. He was locked in Chastity too so I knew this would be messy. He was crouched over his bed and eventually he let go. It just kept going and going. He kept swearing as he tried to stop it and save his bed but it was too late. He’d made such a huge mess all over and was still going as he whined helplessly. It was the hottest thing I’d ever seen. I’ve recreated similar scenarios with subs since but I’ll never forget that first time.

Please note: I work on a traffic light system. Green= I’m happy with how everything is going, you can push me. Amber= I’m comfortable but this is probably my limit and Red= Stop, I’m uncomfortable. I use this method most of the time but for sessions like this in particular. The most this sub experienced was amber. We were very open with each other, I knew his hard limits and we discussed a lot before hand. Safe words are incredibly important! I just thought it was worth a mention.

Source: reddit.com/r/eroticliterature/comments/nhpwnn/my_first_experience_with_bladder_control_as_a