A milf and her night with a kinky FWB [MF]

I’m 48 and my FWB (who I shall call Mateo) is in his mid 50s. We dated for awhile (non monogamously but fairly seriously), and then for a variety of reasons I ended it. He said he would always be interested in a FWB situation and, because he and I had always had really amazing sexual chemistry, at one point I decided to take him up on the offer and we began seeing each other once or twice a month. I enjoy his company and he has amazing stamina for a man in his 50s.

For some background: we met on Fetlife. Mateo is an amateur photograph, who is very skilled in Shibari, and advertised on Fetlife that he was looking for female subjects for a Shibari photo project he was working on. I am an exhibitionist who likes being restrained (but had never had been with anyone truly skilled in the art of rope) and was intrigued. We met for drinks to discuss his project. He showed me some of his pictures (both his artistic ones and his NFSW ones). While nowhere near as skilled as he is in photography, I am also interested in it. I take a lot of wildlife photography. (And if you look through my profile content, you’ll see that another one of my favorite subjects is myself. Lol). We both kind of got turned on looking at each other’s pictures and I ended up going home with him. (I had never done this upon first meeting up with someone who I hadn’t talked too at all beforehand but he was just someone I felt I could trust. At the time I figured Mateo did it regularly but I later learned that he had only done it once before.)

Anyhow, we had arranged to get together last night. We each have a few other FWB’s/partners but rarely if ever see them due to COVID (especially me). I hadn’t had sex for several months (the longest I’ve gone for awhile). I’ve been super stressed lately due to work and parenting issues and have felt really isolated due to social isolation. My magic wand, while truly magical, was not cutting the mustard! Mateo and I are both into kink and BDSM and he considers himself a top and not a dom. For him that means he likes to control sexual interaction and enjoys being the “doer” but isn’t into the deeper power dynamics of domination. I enjoy power play (and primarily consider myself a sub ), and usually get those needs met with others. When Mateo and I play, he always ties me up (sometimes quite intricately), and usually ends up spanking me or playing with other pain devices (I have a VERY extensive toy collection). We also really enjoy anal sex and I discovered though him that I love being fisted. (He actually took a class in it and is really skilled. I’ve had a few other men do it to me and they usually just aren’t as good at it as he is.) I was so looking forward to the release that a good impact play session always gives me. It’s a big stress reliever for me. Another reason I love being sub is that I can give up control, as I have way too much of it in my non-sexual life, and I needed this last night, too.

So, last night: he knocked on the door and as soon as I answered it, he pulled me too him and began kissing me. I was wearing his favorite red lingerie set underneath some casual clothes (along with my favorite ass plug). He pushed me up against the wall as we kissed. At one point, he asked me how wet I was. (I get VERY wet very easily and he loves it). I told him to check and see. He slid his hand down into my panties, and inserted a finger into my very wet pussy. He murmured, “mmmmmm,” pulled his finger out and put it in my mouth so that I could see/taste for myself (although I already knew). Then he kissed me again to taste it too. He immediately maneuvered me over to the couch, bent me over, pulled down my pants and panties, and entered me from behind. I hadn’t been fucked in a long time and it felt really good. He teased me, going in and out and slowing or stopping while I begged him to continue. At one point he completely stopped and said it was time to order some food. I put my pants and panties back on and we ordered some food to be delivered. After chatting for awhile and catching up over dinner, he leaned over and kissed me slowly and softly and told me we needed to go into my bedroom. I instantly got wet again.

Once in my room, he told me to face the side of my bed. He pulled down my pants but left my panties on, admiring them out loud. He told me to bend over, pulled my panties to the side, and slid his cock into me. There was something so hot about the fact that he was fucking me with my panties on. The thing about Mateo and I: we like to do some really kinky things but we also both appreciate small acts of sensuality. This was definitely one of them. He could see himself fucking me from behind in the mirror and couldn’t stop telling me how much he liked it. While fucking me, he spanked my ass with his hand, which just made me wetter. (He always tells me that when he spanks me he can feel my pussy get wetter.)

He then got up on my bed on his knees and told me to suck his cock. I took him into my mouth while he grabbed my hair with his hands. All the while, he continued to watch in the mirror (he loves this). I licked and sucked his balls and his shaft, the way that I knew he liked it. (Since my divorce 3 years ago from a man I’d been with for 22 years, I’ve learned that every guy likes his cock sucked differently. I always try to figure out what each of my partners like best. Mateo likes for me to take him all the way into my mouth and then gently bite down at the base of his shaft in between me licking and sucking him.) He moaned while I did this.

Eventually, he got off of the bed and told me to lie down on my stomach facing the foot of the bed. He got out his rope and tied each of my wrists to the two posts of my bed. (Poster beds are great for Shibari!). He then got behind me and spanked my ass with a leather paddle. He fucked me from behind again for awhile while I was tied to my bed. He always uses hemp rope and we’ve gotten to the point where the unique smell of the rope turns me on just when I smell it. He fucked me really hard for awhile and then stopped. He got out a wooden paddle and hit my ass a few times with it. He told me that he was going to hit me hard, 10 times, alternating cheeks and then I needed to count each smack out loud. Because I’m a good girl (usually, ha ha), I did as he requested, sucking in my breath after each thwack. (It hurt! But in a way that I love).

He told me to turn over on my back. He untied my wrists from the bottom two posts of the bed and tied them to the top two posts. He got out a pair of nipple clamps and attached them to my nipples, adjusting the tension so that it hurt. I gasped in both pleasure and pain. He then went down on me, sucking on my lips and my clit. I love how vocal Mateo is. He always tells me how beautiful I am and how much he enjoys my body (his favorite part of my body is my ass, but he also really likes my pussy–he always tells me I have one of the most beautiful pussies that he has ever seen). He kept telling me how good my pussy tasted. Mateo likes a very trimmed bush and bare lips. I had recently been growing out my bush for several months (see my pics!). I was enjoying the hair on the top of my bush but felt ambivalent about the lips. (Before he came over I asked him what his thoughts were. He said he loves the shape of my pussy lips and it’s way easier to fully see them bare. I told him that was a good enough argument for me to shave my lips but that I was keeping the top full and untrimmed. He said that was a fine compromise.) Anyhow, he sucked and licked my clit while occasionally reaching up to pull the chain of the nipple clamps to create more pressure (and pain!). He did this until I came in his mouth. When I finished shuddering, he said, “I think it’s time for me to fuck you in the ass–what do you think?” Because I love this so much, he didn’t have to ask me twice!

He untied me and flipped me over. He put some lube on his cock, pulled out the metal ass plug that I was wearing, and slowly slid inside of me. It felt so amazing. He obviously thought so, as well, as he moaned, “ahhhh” really loudly. (In the summer I have to shut my windows because he’s so loud!) He started moving slowly but then picked up the pace as I began backing my ass into him to feel it deeper. Soon, he was fucking me in the ass really hard. I don’t know why I like anal sex so much: part of it is how good it feels and part of it is the naughtiness factor. I’ve never been able to cum this way (or though vaginal penetrative sex for that matter–I’m 100% in need of clit stimulation to cum) but I still LOVE how it feels. Mateo and I are “fluid bonded” after both being tested for STD’s and agreeing to use protection with other partners. I love having him cum in my ass. After a certain point I knew that’s what I wanted and I told him so. I begged him to cum in my ass. (Although usually he decides where he cums each time we get together, he did not object!). As he was cumming, he laid down so all of his weight was on my back (which I also always love) and he thrusted a few more times while grabbing my shoulders for leverage. The idea of his cum in my ass was such a turn on to me. He pulled out and we both rested for a few minutes. Finally, he asked the question that he knew I was thinking: “Are you ready for me to fist you?”

As I said, I love the way Mateo fists me. I laid down on my back, he lubed up his hand, and slowly pushed a few fingers into my pussy. Eventually he maneuvered all of his fingers in, keeping them straight. He asked, “are you ready for me to make a fist?” “Mmmm-hmmmm” I replied. He slowly made a fist while I moaned. He always does something that feels somewhat magical, where he uses his knuckle to massage my g-spot while slowly rotating his fist back and forth. It feels amazing. I love feeling so full. He handed me my magic wand so I could use it on my clit while he moved his fist around inside of me. The feeling of being fisted while having my clit stimulated usually makes me cum really fast. Last night was no exception. He told me loves feeling all of my vaginal muscles clench around his fist while I cum. He slowly pulled out his fist and placed his hand on the outside of my pussy, flat, pressing down gently for awhile (something he learned in his class that feels really good!). We cuddled for awhile and he went home.

I fell asleep naked. This morning, I got up to pee and admired the large bruise on my ass as I passed the mirror. I got back into my bed, turned on my magic wand, moved it down to my clit, and thought about last night. I came within 2 minutes. It’s always interesting to me what I find to be the hottest after an encounter like the one I had. Last night, it was Mateo sliding my panties to the side while he fucked me. I don’t know why I liked this the most, but when I thought of it this morning, I came so hard and fast. That’s sometimes the most interesting part of sex and sexuality and what I have enjoyed learning about and exploring the most in the past 3 years. It’s not always the most explosive or craziest moments that are the most memorable: sometimes it’s just small random acts that your brain and body fixate on.

I texted Mateo and we talked about what we enjoyed most about last night and what we thought about while we masturbated today (for him it was also my red panties). And we both agreed we need to do it again soon.

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