*(This is a consent roleplay that i play with my husband And for this post i was* removed and blocked from the sub reddit bdsm comunity. *That being said I hope you like it )*
A horny sub is a happy sub and it’s actually true, If you don’t believe it, pay attention to when your sub is horniest, and compare it to how happy he is when he is least horny. The diffidence may be subtle but I bet if you compared his happiness when most horny, to his happiness when least horny, you would notice quite the difference. So it’s try to keep him as horny as possible. The best way to do this is frequent masturbation but infrequent orgasms. The key is starting the day with a masturbation session. If it’s not the very first thing, then it’s as soon as possible. My husband Sub has to lay on his back with his legs lifted up over and past his head. His cock points right at his face, and he is to reach for his mouth as he masturbates. My goal is for him to be able to suck his own cock, which you have to admit, is a bit sexy even if he never makes it, I like the position because it adds a little something extra for him if he “accidentally” comes. I’ve told him if he comes he is to stay in that position until he’s emptied his whole load on his face, although I suspect this makes an accident more likely.
I don’t know if he will ever reach his cock, but it’s spiced things up a little, and that’s good. I can give other tasks like these to accompany the masturbation. One common task is to have him stretch their balls by hanging weights or just making a ring with his own fingers around balls, or to stretch their ass usinga plug, fingers or dildos, if you like the idea then it’s a reasonable addition. You could add conditioning or association. So you could make a sub turned on by anything by getting them to masturbate to it Like your underwear,licking his own precum or things like making him wear gloves and lots of lube as he strokes himself or having him tie his balls up with one end of a string or rope, and then tying the other end of it to his feet tying them close enough together that he can’t get a full stroke without tugging tightly on his balls it might be a good addition to your sub’s scheduled masturbation if he needs something extra to get him close, or if it makes him horny beyond reason.
Another fun idea is to have him repeat a “mantra” while masturbating What I enjoy doing with these is having my sub say something embarrassing if others were to hear it. For example, “Obedience is pleasure”. “Mistress owns my cock” Or, “I want to be tied up and teased but not allowed to come.” Mantra depends what you want or what you want to reinforce. The other type of thing I could have him say is something I want him to remember. Such as, “My cock belongs to my Mistreess, I will do anything she asks.” I’ll often make the sub masturbate before we start. He squirms that much more, and is that much more vocal. Both of which I love.
Telling my sub that im doing this to keep him horny, will not only make it more fun for him, but make him more horny. I’ve found, soft and gentle can do more than shouting domes, If i am extra sweet and soothing, the sub is calmer but at his horniest. I think the ability to keep a sub horny to manipulate them into obeying is good but also being soothing enough to calm them before he get too close learning to enjoy the horny feeling, edging is an endless orgasm.
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