First time poster etc.
While 2020 has been the year from hell – it has helped cement the end of DB situation for me (F 30s) and my partner (M 30s). Which has been awesome. Part of this DB situation was a medical issue where I just couldn’t get aroused and now that it is fixed I still have a hard time with having truly mind shattering orgasms (like I used to). It’s been tough, as you can imagine before now if and when we had sex I wanted it to be quick and really for his pleasure. As time has leveled things out that has shifted to sex seeking enjoyment, passion and fun even if my climaxes are shallower than before.
A big part of this process has been holding on to some guilt for not being able to be this endless climax machine that I used to be. I felt like I was disappointing him for some reason and maybe a little broken I guess. One thing I have always been really good at is oral, like make a guy cum in under 5 minutes every time. I think this is for three reasons: I have a big mouth (my fist can fit in there), I will change things up if it’s taking a bit (communication), and I am very competitive/enthusiastic. I have secretly always viewed blow jobs as this race I can win by making him cum really hard really fast. However, after having my own issues I started to see oral differently (at least some times), as something to casually do like a massage – that it’s not all about the orgasm. Lately instead of the “5 minute race” blow jobs I have him get comfortable and tell him I’m just going to slowly blow him and he shouldn’t cum. It’s been a real turn on and a nice way to get even more intimate – kind of like telling him I want to make him feel loved if that makes sense.
Not sure on the universes thoughts on this – just wanted to write it down.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/jqk7dx/seeing_blow_jobs_in_a_new_light_f
>It’s been a real turn on and a nice way to get even more intimate – kind of like telling him I want to make him feel loved if that makes sense.
Beautifully put. There is something profoundly meaningful and beautiful in selfishness.
Universe here.
Do kundalini meditation open up your energy body and then you can have sex through energy. Heat up chakras and feel the world around you energy wise. Soon you will notice a layer of normal body and energy body and once that happens the magic can happen. Only thing needed is energy and movement. Its sex in energy form so since that’s the case you expel no energy for doing this other than humping or recieving in the air. It feels incredible like normal sex but nothing but air. I’ve made my lady cum 11 times in a row from doing this irl and energy based. You know that you can do this and be pleasured at any time or space all he needs to do is think of you and you can be doing whatever and you can get off.
I hope you take this path and everyone here and have the best energy sex that anyone could think of.
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