I am a married 24 year old mother. Our baby was born 8 months ago. Almost as soon as our pregnancy was confirmed my husband lost sexual interest in me. Something about the life growing in my tummy made him feel that sex urges were inappropriate. Strangely, he was still romantic, and we hugged and cuddled and he was very sweet. Liked to touch my stomach and pretend to talk to the baby inside. But he never got hard, and wanted to see me naked less frequently. By the sixth month we had a pretty dead bedroom except that he still asked me often to go down on him.
As my body swelled he lost all interest in me. I began to question my new appearance, felt “fat” and unsexy. I liked the favorable attention I sometimes received from friends and co-workers, couldn’t understand his indifference. My hormones were drowning me and I masturbated like crazy.
I ended up cheating on business travel with my best male friend in the office. I did NOT plan to cheat. Didn’t shave, or even pack sexy clothes or undies. Co-worker and I had a very light dinner together in the hotel and met again at 7 at the hot tub. Talking, we of course talked about the elephant in the room, by which I mean the hippo in the hot tub.
He said I turned him on, and complimented my sex appeal. I said something about my husband neglecting me, finding me unattractive. He was erect in his shorts and after displaying his appreciation for my looks he put my hand on his trunks. We ended up in his room and we had sex for hours over the next 2 days. Took him a while to work it into me the first time, but once he opened me he kept me open.
I kind of hated to go back to our normal lives, but he found opportunities to spend time with me once in a while right up until I delivered. At the same time, for the rest of my pregnancy my husband ignored me sexually.
After our baby was born my husband’s erection problem continued. My husband was both obsessed with watching me breast-feed and completely impotent.
I have done nothing bad since the baby’s birth, but only because my own libido is so low again. My husband and I are roommates now. Not sure I will ever want lame sex with him again. If my sexual appetites return to normal, I am thinking about finding myself a lover. Or phoning my friend.
I’m sure “sex while pregnant” is a thing for some women. And I’m kind of looking forward to our next pregnancy.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/jf4hzk/mf_never_been_as_slutty_as_when_i_was_pregnant
The needs will get ya. My wife normally has a low libido but she she was pregnant she wanted it all the time. She wanted me to go down on her all the time. Anyways 8 months later back to the deadbedrooM. Crazy thing she knows how I have a high sex drive. I take care of myself. I had a work friend. We really clicked. Best sex ever.
Get a divorce lol
I don’t know what’s wrong with men that don’t want to fuck their wives. Pregnant women are sexy af and sex with a pregnant woman is hot af. I have to say that it’s OK with me keep behaving this way. I’m always the “friend“ who helps pregnant woman and I have the time of my life.
Great story! I am happy to hear you were able to hook up with your friend and it was a fulfilling experience for you. I’ll admit that pregnant woman are very sexy. I hope you find either reach out to your friend or find a new friend! Keep us posted.
Yo kid gon come out ugly for that
Aren’t hot tubs bad for the fetus? In any event, are you looking forward to your next pregnancy with you husband or with someone else?
Also, has your husband been checked out? Seems like the continuation of his impotency would be a cause for alarm.
I couldn’t keep my hands off my wife when she was pregnant. Her pussy felt amazing. After the kids, she is never interested in sex. My dive is still pretty high. Really frustrating.