>Pre-note, skip if you want the juicy stuff:I have been in non-monogamous relationships since 2014. Am now 34, married, swinger and I like to write. Most of the stories are my experiences, wherever I can I’ll try to alter them to make them better. And maybe I get inspired to write about my fantasies.
**Setting**: I met a nice Dominant at a munch. It clicked and I had a very steamy afternoon with him, more about that here: [Rope and pain, exploring how kinky I am](https://www.reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/ilfx3c/rope_and_pain_exploring_how_kinky_i_am_fm_mild/)
This was the third time I went to his home and he’s getting more in his dominant role and starting to be more stern towards me.
He opens the door and I expect the usual greeting: A hug and just a swift kiss on my lips. Nope! He just leads me through the door with a slight smile and I feel a bit like an idiot for trying. I do not feel too bad about it, I’m feeling more comfortable around him and even dare to look him in his steel blue eyes. (I’m terribly shy)
We walk into the living room and suddenly he grabs me, pulls me towards him and kisses me so intensely that I forget about everything around me. When he stops he tells me that his plan was to wait with kissing me until I had at least removed my coat, well that failed. But I love the idea that I make him so impatient, it makes me feel desired.
I take off my coat and my shoes because I want to be able to curl up on the couch for the talking bit. He laughs when I take off my shoes and a second later I know why: He is not going to let me sit on the couch. “You can sit on your knees on the ground.”I sit down on my knees and let my feet glide to the sides so my butt rests on the ground.”Did I tell you you could do that?””No…””Back on your knees then!”His new stern attitude scares me just a tiny bit, but in a good way. It’s exciting to be told what to do so I can’t do anything wrong if I just listen to his demands.
He positions me in front of him on the floor. I can lean my head on his knees if I want. But first he ties my wrists together in front of me. He gives me a glass of lemonade which I clumsily drink with my tied hands. After a while just chilling he kisses me and unties my hands again to let me undress. The only thing I may keep on are my panties. He lets me stand in the middle of the floor and ties the ropes around my chest in a beautiful harness. First line of rope gets me a kiss on my shoulder. The second line of rope gets me caresses over my bare skin. The third line of rope gets me kisses in my neck. And the fourth line he touches my breasts with the back of his hand as if it were accidentally. My hands are kept untied but when I move them to hang at my side or to the front of my body he demands I keep them on my back, hands towards my elbows.
He ties a blindfold around my head, it makes me more comfortable because it shuts down not knowing where to look. He continues with more rope around my waist and suddenly he takes my hands and puts it on his erection. He’s only wearing his boxers and a t-shirt, when did that happen?! I’m a bit startled but I do want to explore him so I caress his dick and try to feel how big he is and if he’s curved in any way.The rope around my waist has a knot and continues between my legs towards my back. He takes a lot of time, slowly putting his hands between my thighs and touching deliberately. The knot is carefully positioned over the most sensitive part of my pussy. When he pulls the rope through the loop on my back the knot rubs on my clit and I feel my pussy getting swollen in excitement. He uselessly adjusts the knot but putting his fingers behind the rope and stroking them over my lips. He fastens the last bit of rope, takes off my blindfold and I see him admiring his work, or me or probably both.
He directs me back to the couch, sits down and makes me put my knees on one side of him with my belly on his lap. So I lie down and curve my back a little to present my butt. I have a nice plump butt and I love to show it off.In his low, soft and dominant voice he almost whispers in my ear:”I’m going to spank you and you can only say stop when you can’t handle it anymore. You can only say it hurts when it really does so that I can find out how to hit you. Do you understand?”I nod, I’m too nervous to speak.
He starts hitting my butt, one cheek at a time, about 4 hits and then he strokes the cheek a bit before doing the same on the other cheek. He’s building up strength, hitting a bit harder every time. Keeps moving around so no spot gets hit too often.When he hits a bit lower on one of my cheeks, he pulls the rope with the knot still resting against my pussy. I fight the urge to rub myself against the knot. I might be getting the rope wet with how horny I have become and I don’t care. With every harder hit it stings a little, but I can handle it so I just gasp for air, not needing to say auch or stop.The spanking is done and I have to stand on my feet again. My legs are wobbly, the spanking is making me space a little. I would have never expected that the pain would make me space!
He removes the rope from my body and the last item of clothing still on me, my panties, have to go. I sit down on my knees again and I have to be a good girl and put my hands on my back again. He gets out the clothespins and puts one on each nipple and leaves them there for a while, while he kisses me thoroughly and caresses my breasts just around the pins.When he removes the pins he caresses the tips of my now sensitive nipples. For the first time he sucks on my nipples, a shock goes through me as this is the first time he used his mouth for more than kissing.
We hold a little break, my phone was making noises and while I shut that thing up, he walks out of the room. When he gets back he asks if I need to pee. “I don’t háve to, but I could…” He puts his hands on my shoulders and resolutely turns me around and with a soft push he makes clear that I need to go now. I wonder what is coming but am glad for not being expected to not be a normal human being.When I walk down the hallway afterwards he comes towards me. He kisses me and tells me to close my eyes. He turns me around and guides me in a direction I have no idea of. I hold out my hands to not bump into anything but that is not allowed. Hands go on my back again and he puts me in a corner, eyes closed, waiting, no idea what is coming. All I hear is him walking to somewhere, probably the kitchen because I hear ice cubes in a glass. Oh god…
After a while he guides me from my corner to the bedroom. I may open my eyes and he tells me to sit on the bed on my hands and knees. I feel like I’m turning into a puddle because being on hands and knees, fully naked, knowing he’s going to do unknown but probably fun stuff to me turns me on big time.A finger traces my spine to my hips and trails between my cheeks ending at my pussy. He traces over my slit, up and down until my juices have made his finger wet. One finger enters my pussy and I start to moan. A second finger joins in and I get louder. When he enters me with three fingers my arms buckle under all the sensations and I drop my head on the bed. “Did I tell you you could do that?!””No…” and I lift myself up again to undergo all the sensations in my pussy, barely keeping myself on my hands.
“Turn around”I lie down on my back and see that he is naked now too. I feel exposed on my back and even more when he ties my feet wide apart to the bed and one hand. I do not dare to watch while he ties me up, I hear small chains. Would that be the joined nipple clamps? Next I feel the delicious tension of clamps on my nipples, good guess. He directs my only free hand to him and because he is naked I can fully explore how he feels and reacts to my touch. I feel the soft skin of his balls and hard erection under my hands. And to my surprise a hard, probably steel, cockring! I’m intrigued!Before I can decide to look at the ring I feel his mouth on my pussy. Suddenly I’m not interested anymore, my mind is fully between my legs now. He licks softly over my clit, raising my clithood slightly. His stubble tickles my lips when he sucks my clit into his mouth. He enters me with two fingers and starts to massage my g-spot the sensation makes me crazy and I writhe in the restraints. His fingers make the wettest sound in my pussy I have ever heard. He mercily keeps on stimulating my g-spot and I keep on producing wetness. I do not come but the sensation keeps on going and it feels like this could go on forever as long as he stimulates me. Eventually I feel lightheaded from my moaning and writhing and I gather a sliver of control over myself and manage to say “stop”.He stops, looks at me, smiles and says: “You are incredibly delicious!”
My last free hand gets tied to the bed and he gets out the ice cubes. I hate cold, I really don’t want the ice cubes! He drips the terribly cold drops on my skin. I struggle in the ropes and laugh uncomfortably with every drop like I’ve been tickled and not in the fun way. The ice feels extra cold on my nipples, the water runs in the dip between my lips and my legs. And the ice feels the coldest on my clit. He gives me a cube in my mouth and dries me off with a towel. He kisses me and retrieves what is left of the ice cube from my mouth with his.
He starts manipulating my pussy again, licking, sucking, fingering and massaging my g-spot. I thought I might be empty but still my juices flow and the wet noises start again. I scream and writhe because I don’t know what to do else with all these sensations. My own panting makes me breathless and I yell “Stop stop!”
He lies down next to me and I cuddle against him. I feel comfortable with him, he strokes my arm that lies around his stomach and he gives me kisses. I trail with my fingers over his chest and belly and dare to trail with the tips of my fingers over his dick. He laughs and I exclaim: “What?! I’m just teasing you!””You can tease me more if you’d like.””It would really be teasing if I stopped doing anything.”I gather my courage and move my head towards his groin. I want to go slow, I kiss his skin right next to his dick. I move my face right over his dick, not touching just breathing warm over his erection. Just one tentative lick over his tip before pausing and licking over his full shaft and take him into my mouth. I slowly suck and stroke him and take my time. He, however, is fast, the whole scene has aroused him a lot. He raises my head by my chin and I look at him. He tells me that if I go on like that he’ll come. “But I’m not done with you yet!” I want to do so much more to him. I continue and show him that he completely fits in my throat without me gagging and I press my lips against his base. “I’m going to come” He says. I come up a little so I can say “hmhm” and continue enjoying myself, he can come if he wants. When he’s again deep in my throat he comes. Gently I let him go and look at him while he’s twitching from his orgasm.
I lay down next to him and after an hour of cuddling and a bit of relaxed talk it’s time for me to go home.
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/iril9q/my_dom_is_getting_more_stern_with_me_spanking_and