I’m a rainmaker [F28] [mild BDSM]

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I have been in non-monogamous relationships since 2014. Am now 35, married, swinger and I like to write. Most of the stories are my experiences, wherever I can I’ll try to alter them to make them better. And maybe I get inspired to write about my fantasies.

**Setting**: I met a Dom at a munch with whom it clicked very well. This was our fourth and last encounter because he found a monogamous girlfriend after this. It was a good night and it’s a long story. You can find the story of the 3rd encounter here: [My Dom is getting more stern with me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/iril9q/my_dom_is_getting_more_stern_with_me_spanking_and/)

I come in and we start off just talking on the couch. After a while he says: “You’re wearing too much, take everything off except for any lingerie you’re wearing.” Of course I comply and I’m allowed to sit on the couch again. But he directs me to lie with my head in his lap because he wants to talk about the fact that he met someone which could go somewhere further and it could mean that we’d have to stop our evenings. The idea makes me sad, but I care about him and I want him to be happy and I can’t give him a girlfriend. I’m just his submissive.

My Dom is getting more stern with me, spanking, and an incredibly wet pussy

>Pre-note, skip if you want the juicy stuff:I have been in non-monogamous relationships since 2014. Am now 34, married, swinger and I like to write. Most of the stories are my experiences, wherever I can I’ll try to alter them to make them better. And maybe I get inspired to write about my fantasies.

**Setting**: I met a nice Dominant at a munch. It clicked and I had a very steamy afternoon with him, more about that here: [Rope and pain, exploring how kinky I am](https://www.reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/ilfx3c/rope_and_pain_exploring_how_kinky_i_am_fm_mild/)

This was the third time I went to his home and he’s getting more in his dominant role and starting to be more stern towards me.

He opens the door and I expect the usual greeting: A hug and just a swift kiss on my lips. Nope! He just leads me through the door with a slight smile and I feel a bit like an idiot for trying. I do not feel too bad about it, I’m feeling more comfortable around him and even dare to look him in his steel blue eyes. (I’m terribly shy)

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Rope and pain, exploring how kinky I am [FM] [Mild BDSM]

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>I have been in non-monogamous relationships since 2014. Am now 34, married, swinger and I like to write. Most of the stories are my experiences, wherever I can I’ll try to alter them to make them better. And maybe I get inspired to write about my fantasies.

**Setting**: I met a nice Dominant at a munch. We’ve started sending pm’s afterwards through the site where we found the munch. After some pm’s he asked if I wanted to come over. More about the first encounter here: [First time being a bondage bunny](https://www.reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/ih6wxf/first_time_being_a_bondage_bunny_f28_mild_bdsm/)

This was the second time I went to his home and this time we went further…

He opens the door and guides me through. We start talking while walking into the livingroom. I’m a bit anxious, I have no idea if this is going to be like last time or totally different. Halfway through my sentence he starts kissing me passionately. And as suddenly as he started he stops again and with a serious face he says: “Sorry, you were telling about your week.”

First time being a bondage bunny [F28] mild BDSM

>Pre-note, skip if you want the juicy stuff:
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>I have been in non-monogamous relationships since 2014. Am now 34, married, swinger and I like to write. Most of the stories are my experiences, wherever I can I’ll try to alter them to make them better. And maybe I get inspired to write about my fantasies.

**Setting**: I’ve met a nice Dominant at a munch. We’ve started sending pm’s afterwards through the site where we found the munch. After some pm’s he asked if I wanted to come over. I’ve talked to my bf to lay down the new rules since we might not be monogamous after this. This was the year 2014

I ring the bell at his house and he opens the door. I’m nervous as hell, I’ve never done something like this and I’m not really one for normal dates either. He’s standing in the middle of the doorway with open arms. I give him a hug and although it doesn’t really calm my nerves, it does feel nice. For some reason we keep standing in the hallway, talking, and sometimes the conversation falls silent. In one of those silences he bends over to me with a big smile and says: “I would really like to kiss you!” I lean in as to answer that I would like that too.