[M]y husband and I[F] met our daughter[F] at a Swingers Club

This is going on my burner account for sure. My husband and I are are both Brazilians living in Florida. We visit Brazil at least once an year to check on our family (Both our parents, and our daughter live in Brazil). We are regulars in Swingers club in the US, but have little experience on Brazil. This happened when we were there, and decided to visit one of those clubs. We were used to the scene back home, so we felt very comfortable there; we were on first name basis with the majority of the people in a matter of minutes. The Club was not a paid members type, but you had to get on the list by contacting one of the party promoters. They had five to six parties there a week and each had their own promoter, so you would have different requirements to each party (profiles on networks, working phone numbers to both attending, etc). There was a main room, that worked like a club, where people gathered for more social experiences and meet-ups prior to going off to some of the private rooms or the open group rooms that had a number of people present engaged in various activities.

We were enjoying ourselves in conversations with another couple in the main room when out of the corner of my husband’s eye, he thought he saw something. He leaned over towards me and whisper that there is a girl that looks a lot like our 20 year old daughter entering the club. Our daughter is a freshman in college, lived in her own apartment supported by us, and was always a pretty free spirit. Of course, we had never indulged our lifestyle to her, but never really thought about going out of our way to keep it from her, but we never received any mention about it coming from her, either.

I looked over towards the bar near the entrance and there she was. She was with a male childhood friend that she knew before moving to the US with us, and rebounded after coming back; someone that was very well known to us, and a regular at our house. Things quickly raced through my mind. First off, did she realize where she was accompanying him? If it was a surprise to her, what would she think if she seen her parents there. Even if she did know, what would she think seeing her parents. While there was no sex going on in this area, there were certainly scantly clad people there. The thoughts racing, my husband and I looking at each other with that bit of fear, when, all if a sudden we heard it: “Hi Mom”.

I looked up, I turned around with the fakest smile I have ever given. “Aw, hi” I said back. “Relax, Mom”, our daughter told me probably seeing the shocked look on my face. Our daughter slipped into the chair I was occupying. “Hey, relax mom. I have known for at least five years what you naughty people have been into. Don’t worry, your secret is safe with me.” I started relaxing, and feeling my body again. My husband? Just sort of stayed on the side of the conversation, completely quiet.

As we continued our conversation it came out that our daughter was actually a recurring member and her date, that was, now, staring at us nervously, was a first-timer looking for an experience. She also said that she had been enjoying multiple partners, both men and Women since she was 17. Has been a regular on the club for over a year now but her college schedule made it so she could only visit once a week, or during vacations. Being that the club list was first names only, she didn’t know that our names were there, and we also didn’t know that her name was hers.

After a short time, we became more like friends than mother daughter. We both realized we shared the same desires and that instead of being an awkward thing, we would enjoy it, anyway. We decided that it was time to go get some fun, but agreed on some rules: we would head to different areas, but if we ended up close, that it would be okay to be together but not play with each other. My daughter than addressed my husband: “Dad, it would be best if you didn’t go in the same areas I am. You know, to avoid any accidental contact.” He agreed immediately. Not having sex with our daughter was something he would definitely try to avoid. While I knew my daughter was a beautiful girl that looked after her body very well, but neither of us had never had any thoughts of having any sexual contact with her.

We managed to have a memorial evening that night. While my husband did mostly stick to his end of the bargain, we ended up breaking the rules. We did played in the same room, and both with each other and with the same men. I did watch my daughter engaged in various sexual practices, and I just thought she looked so good, that I couldn’t stop my body.

Her partner, on the other hand, was out of the rules, and he did enjoy having to play with all family members, and finding out that he did like to give oral to older men. My husband does like watching me, and a mother-daughter duo is kinda attractive, so eventually he did mention our relation, and we had a lot of attention.I received a lot of praise for having such a beautiful woman in my family (and a couple dads and moms mentioning that they wish to have their daughters in the scene too).

Since that first time, we both had more experiences with her, in Brazil and in the US. We enjoyed a swingers cruise for her 21st birthday, enrolled her as a member to the paid members club we attend in the US, and even enjoyed some experiences with her college friends, both M and F. Her dad even broke our rules, and did it with our daughter while I watched them, and attended events as a couple, all by themselves.

She is currently dating a very sweet girl that knows about our experiences, and even joined us a time or two, so we are very happy for all of this. In fact, that only made our family stronger.

What makes this all work is open, honest, non judgmental communication between all.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/iphuyj/my_husband_and_if_met_our_daughterf_at_a_swingers