When I was young I was a standard horny girl. I spent lots of time on tumblr dreaming about celebrities and kink. Then when I was finishing high school I started dating this boy and we got married right out of college. On the day of my wedding I thought I would only ever have sex with one man.
Our libidos never matched up. In high school, he was the one who initiated sex, but I initiated everything else. Anal, kink, mutual masturbation, sex tapes. All me. He was weirded out, but we love each other, so he went along with it. Eventually though I got tired of asking and felt gross for making him do those things.
That culminated in a conversation a few years ago. He’s never been a jealous person. When he caught me in an especially kinky masturbation session, we had a long discussion where he said he didn’t really care if I saw other people. We don’t need to talk about it, and I had a more active social life anyway, so it worked out well. He wouldn’t have to wonder whether I was getting dick or drinks with the girls, and I wouldn’t hassle him for sex more than he wanted. He didn’t set rules, and frankly that’s made it a lot more fun to indulge.
It was so refreshing for our relationship. It only took a few days before I took advantage. During my lunch break a guy I met on Tinder picked me up at work and I sucked his dick in his car. My first load from a man other than my husband ever! And I got to do all the weird little things I’ve always wanted to.
Threesomes, foursomes, sex with girls, public sex, BDSM… I got to try all of it. I fucked his best friend. I fucked his ex that I was always jealous of in high school. My personal trainer fucked my face behind our gym. My boss has made advances and I responded.
There’s no way that he hasn’t heard something, but he’s never complained. Honestly, our sex life has gotten way better. I can fully enjoy our loving, vanilla sex without wishing I could do more with him. And he’s even let me eat his ass a few times!
It’s been such a turning point!
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/i6bhj1/my_husband_lets_me_sleep_with_whoever_i_want_so
When you fuck people like his friend or other you both know does that ever cause issues?
Yes girl slut it up! I bet he’s out there fucking and getting fucked as well!
Sounds like a fabulous arrangement! Well done that it works for you guys.
We need some more detailed examples!
So, the foursome?
My wife and I have a similar arrangement. But I share her. She just doesn’t want to see or know when or who I’m playing with.
Damn I need a woman like you ? my marriage is vanilla at best and a desert most the time. 27 years of being called a creep if ask for more than missionary and she’d probably shoot me if I even mentioned open marriage. What did I get myself into ? oh well have fun at least I can read about it.
Oh so after college, you… Felt constrained in your life because marriage is about that.
There’s more to do than just have sex, that’d extremely disrespectful to your husband. Admittedly hot, but what the fuck man????
Sounds good, except the Part that you included your boss. That is insane and can backfire soo hard
Edit: pun not intended :D
Hell yeah thats a great story. We all need an outlet to experience our kinks and fetishes
Have fun, and don’t forget the birth control. ?
I think you are a dude and this is a fantasy…
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I’ll be that husband when I marry, only that I will want to know (and maybe witness) everything! Stags make for the best husbands!
I give this relationship a year. Have fun!
/u/suckerlove666 the good life.
If this is true, your husband is a very compassionate human.
Rare.
Sounds sort of how things were with my 1st wife except reversed. Things were great in every respect except the bedroom, she was the one that was boring.
But that was in the 60’s, free love and flower children and all of that, one day we somehow ended up at a party and everyone was doing everyone, and the wife went nuts. Up until then I had never seen her get out of control, she lost count at six different guys that night (I was doing my own fair share so nothing I could say)
Needless to say, when she wanted to continue messing with others and I didn’t.. we split up.