Even tho a nympho, I don’t consider myself a sex prayer – I physically and psychologically have a sex addiction, but I don’t base my life on it and stay loyal to serious relationships. Accordingly, I only had 2 partners in my life and they both were serious to me. However, the general depiction of our sexual lives is something ridiculous considering my addiction.
Before I was nympho, I was a repressed sub. I lost my virginity to my first serious boyfriend who, because of general stress, gave poor performances all the time. After the first decent times, he started having erection dysfunctions and premature ejaculations – he was never fully erected and he often finished during the foreplay already, unable to go on. He also refused to give me oral and rarely accepted to finger me. What’s more, he wasn’t a dom at all – never used any bit of the roughness that I love, never went over simple experiences, never asked for mouth nor ass which I am crazy for (I had to ask him and I waited a lot to do that because it was obvious from the beginning he wasn’t into it, so we only had anal after like a year and a half). I had like 2 orgasms in 3 years. Still our bond was strong so we stayed together that much.
One year after the breakup, I had become a nympho, touching myself multiple times a day and eagerly needing to be dominated.
I found my current partner. Now we have sex like 2-3 times a day and I reach orgasm everytime, but he has ED too. When we had our first time, he was a 24 yo virgin and that clearly stressed him upon having sex with an insatiable and much more experienced sex addict. So I went and took condoms, but in the meantime he was left alone with his performance anxiety and lost his erection lmao. When I came back I couldn’t get him erected again. I was already giving up to the fact that I’d found another ED/PE/(supposedly) small penis case (I hadn’t seen the dick yet). An hour later he gets back at it – man, I was wrong about the size. Turns out he’s got a terrific pornstar-like dick lol. Until, he lost his erection again when he had to penetrate – you know how psychological ED works, you have it once and you are terrified that it happens again for the rest of your life, and the anxiety makes it happen again. So we went on for a couple months doing foreplay only (I was stunned when he went down on me of his own accord, my ex had never cared for me to reach orgasm lmao), which wasn’t bad because he is a God in fingering me and I LOVE giving head. Now we have sex regularly. He still has ED sometimes, both in foreplay and penetration, but he is perfectly able to make me cum anyway. However, one thing still leaves me disappointed: he’s not the dom kind of guy either, instead he’s very lovely and passionate, which I don’t mind, but I’m starting to feel the absolute need to be choked and ravaged. Damn I need to ask him to assfuck me.
Now I just wanted to share this because I’ve heard a lot about the couple cliché where the man wants it at all times and the woman rarely gives it, and I found this turned table kinda funny, especially for my first boyfriend. It cracks me up that I’m the only sex addict around and I’m the only one who gets the passive boys.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/hvt3vd/now_this_is_not_exactly_a_sex_story_just_a_funny
This actually really quite wholesome at least with your current boyfriend, it’s nice that your okay being patient with someone with ED