How I [M] 19, landed in bed with F [20] while on a school trip after only 24 hours while on a school field trip

Edit: forgive the title, I’m blind and tired. Its 3am and I just got off work

Some backstory. I live in socal and had the opportunity to go to San Francisco for 3 days with some other music department kids in my school to play and perform for part of a musical conference that was being held there. I’m usually a loner although I get along with just about everyone in my class, but I’m not close to anyone. I sit alone on the bus on the way there and planned on going out by myself the entire trip. Well things didn’t go as planned.

On my 2nd night I decided to join a group of kids from my school to go out. I’m not sure why I decided to join them but I’m glad I did. That’s when I met Michelle. She was short, chubby, dark skin and hair but was curvy. I was walking in the back of the group with my earphones on when this random girl who I’ve never seen or met before. (We were in different ensembles) She comes up to me and starts talking to me. We introduce ourselves and we spend the entire night talking as we’re exploring the city with the group. At some point I think she’s telling a story and to add detail she grabs my arm and puts it around hers like couples do when together. Well we keep our arms tied for some reason and we keep walking. At some point people start to notice us and are asking if we were dating. She says no I’m just carrying her or something and everyone goes back to their business.

We were out for probably an hour at least before heading back to our hotel. Some kids decide to throw a kickback at one of their rooms and invites everyone. That’s where Michelle and I go our separate ways. I return to my hotel room for a bit before deciding to head back out on my own. I don’t hear from Michelle until the next day.

It was concert day the next day so all the kids were more on edge than usual. Our practices are early in the morning so everyone tends to do their own thing and we meet up one practice is over. Concert comes and goes. At the end everyone is taking pictures and kids are talking amongst themselves and what not. I see Michelle and I approach her and begin talking to her. Our professors who came with us to chaperone decided to get everyone together and take pictures and what not. After that I go back to my room to eat. I get to my room and I’m alone. I’m halfway through changing from my concert clothes to normal casual clothes when I get a knock on the door. I’m expecting it to be one of the professors. I look through the peep hole and there’s no one there. I’m like wtf and I decide to open the door. I open it and Michelle is on the wall. I notice her and she goes “just the man I was looking for”. I think she asked what my room number was the day before and I told her. She came looking for me and I let her in.

She gets on the bed and we begin to talk as I eat my lunch on the desk. At some point she asks if she can add herself to my instagram on phone number. I say sure and unlock my phone. She adds herself on Instagram and adds her contact too. We continue talking and eating when my roommate walks in (each student shares a room with 1 or 2 other students). I introduce them to eachother and we all go around our business. At some point one kid from our school messaged our group chat which has everyone on the trip. They say a few of them are planning on going to the golden gate bridge and to meet in the lobby if anyone else is interested. Michelle and I decide to join them so we head to the lobby, my roommate stays behind.

We get to the lobby and there’s a bunch of kids there and we’re deciding on how to get there. No one had a car since we came from out of town on bus (6 ish hour drive north). We decide to get ubers there. There were a lot of us so it took 2 ubers to fit everyone. Michelle and I are split up. Its probably a 20 minute drive to the bridge. I decide to check my phone and I notice Michelle texted me on Instagram. We started to talk while on the way there but the conversation didn’t last long.

Eventually we get to the bridge and we re group and we start talking some more while exploring the bridge. We were there for probably only like 2 hours because they were closing the bridge soon by the time we got there. The group decides they want to eat and eventually decide on thai food. We request our ubers and we wait. Meanwhile Michelle and I continue to talk. She begins to talk about herself and I’m not sure how it got to it but she then says that she thinks she’s ugly. I tell her I disagree and I think she’s beautiful in order to re assure her (I would go on later to find out she’s very insecure about herself). She says really and I say yes and she begins to tear up. I go to hug her to comfort her. Fast forward and our ubers arrive and again we’re separated.

She begins to text me again and say again how cold it is. I agree and say it is pretty cold. Then she says that she low key wants to cuddle. I see the message and I’m trying to think of a response. I wasn’t sure if she was just thinking out loud or dropping hints but I decided to reply with “wanna cuddle later”. We begin to lightly flirt back and forth a bit before turning the subject to food. She points out the cup noodles that she saw in my room earlier. I mention I brought them for anyone to eat in case someone didn’t have money. She goes we could have stayed at the hotel instead of eating out but we decide to stay with the group until the end.

Fast forward she decides to spend some quality time together in my room. I take her there and one of my roommates was there practicing his instrument ?. He notices Michelle and gets the idea and decides to leave (sorry bro). I tell her to get comfortable while I go use the restroom. I go in there to use the toilet and change. I come out and she’s already in bed.

Flirting like I ask if I can join her and she says go ahead. I get in bed next to her and immediately put my arm around her. Now we’re awkwardly sitting in bed together (we were both very sexually inexperienced and this was both of our first times cuddling). I think I ask if she wants to watch TV and she goes sure. I turn the tv on for a bit before she gets tired and says she wants to sleep. I turn off the tv and we lay in bed. At some point she starts asking questions like have I ever had sex before and if I’ve ever kissed a girl before. I answer no to both questions (??). She says that she’s the same. In my head I begin to wonder if she’s dropping hints. Then I ask if she wants to kiss. She turns around and says sure. We then begin to kiss and make out. I think we stop after a while and I then ask if I can finger her (direct yes I’m not sure why I asked so randomly but she said yes). She said yes but she said she was gonna go to the bathroom first. In my head I go great now I’m gonna finger a piss wet pussy. But I wasn’t gonna turn around and say goodnight and sleep. I took the opportunity and went for it.

She came back and said ready. I then slip my hand over her pants and begin to rub her pussy. Fast forward some more and I’m fingering her pussy as we’re making out. The story is getting pretty long so I’m gonna cut it. Basically we spent a good amount of time playing with eachothers bodies including my first bj, me licking and sucking her tits, lots of making out. We didn’t have sex because I was (and still am ?) a virgin and I tend to masturbate a lot and didn’t have a lot of cum or sensitivity and that’s not how I wanted my first time to be. Also I didn’t have condoms and I was sharing a room with 2 other roommates who could walk in at any time.

After we finished, we went to bed. More like she went to bed. I couldn’t sleep. One of my roommates would eventually return and brought a mutual friend who I’m close to along with another close mutual friend who was visiting us from his school in Sacramento (we all went to the same community college and played music together. I knew him for 2 semesters before he transferred. The rest of us stayed behind). They noticed Michelle and are all super surprised at how I managed to get her. We pass around some drinks and I begin to tell them about her. Eventually everyone else leaves and we all go to sleep.

The next morning Michelle and I woke up at around the same time. We begin to kiss and make out before I cut her short because we were making too much noise and my roommates were still asleep. She then decides to go back to her own room. It’s our last day in San Francisco and we’re supposed to go home later that morning but I had made plans with myself to go eat at Crepe House. Michelle asks what my plans for the morning are and I tell her and invite her to eat since it’s the least I can do after the night we spent together. Fast forward we’re on the bus, separate because we were keeping eachother secret from the rest of the kids, but turns out some of them already knew. Word somehow got around. I think its because someone accidentally knocked on my door the night before and Michelle answered it. The guy goes “sorry I thought this was OP’s room, and she goes it is” that’s all I heard from the bathroom. This guy is a big talker and I’m assuming that’s how word got around. Also her roommates knew because Michelle texted them she wasn’t gonna be coming back that night.

Eventually Michelle invited me to sit next to her and I accept her invitation. I sit next to her and we hold hands and fall asleep together on the bus.

After coming home we established a fwb relationship. During school when we would see eachother we would talk and get flirty and kiss a bit. We found a hidden spot and we got it on (no sex) a few times (along with my car this one time which was super hot ?). There were times where we would share nudes too (I’m not sharing so don’t ask). We never had sex because it was during the semester and we were both too busy. Also on top of that she had a super strict family which barely let her out of the house so we couldn’t really meet up once the semester ended.

Eventually her problems grew and she decided to spend some time in Mexico with some family she had there. She left right before the virus got worse and everything got shut down so she was basically trapped there for a bit. The whole relationship I felt was rocky though because she would often times leave me on seen when I would try to flirt with her. I often questioned if she wanted to continue the fwb relationship. I would question her feelings towards this relationship and would re assure her that I had no problem cutting the with benefits part and remaining just friends. She would say she’s fine being fwb and that she’s just insecure about herself (no matter how many times I complimented her body). There were times too when we couldn’t talk because her family would take her phone from her and hide it for whatever reason. For those reasons now our whole relationship fell apart. We don’t speak anymore at all. I told her to text me when it was safe to talk (she would steal the phone behind her family’s back and would tell me not to text her back bc she’s gonna put it back). I said fine just tell me when it’s safe to talk so we can catch up. She said she will and I waited for that “hey how are you doing” or whatever text. I would go on to learn that she’s back home in the states and working a job here, but still no text. And for that, I basically cut her out without actually doing so. I still have her messages I just don’t follow her accounts anymore because she unfollowed me first so I left it as is. But just wanted to share the story with you people. I didn’t have a lot of people to share it with and I wanted to share it more so here I am.

Tldr, being a nice guy landed me in bed with a girl after only knowing her for 24 hours while on a school field trip

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