TL;DR: Title. We’ve been home from our vacation in Barbados for less than 6 hours and I’m writing this on my “porn” account for obvious reasons but really I just want to vent so this probably isn’t going to be a good wank for you. I’m posting it here because I read stories here all the time that remind me of what happened so I hope you don’t mind. This really happened so if it seems bullshit it’s because I’m not good at describing things in writing. Anyway this is a long story, sorry.
I’ve been married to my wife for 7 years this summer and sex is good, always has been, but my wife was a wild child before we were married and sometimes she reminisces about old boyfriends and stuff in sexual ways to me, like crazy things she did, and it really used to bother me but not so much anymore. For example she told me a bunch of times about the time she had sex with another girl when she was in high school, or when her and her old boyfriend ordered condoms from a delivery store and they had it delivered all the way to the tent they were camping in. Little stories like that are supposed to be funny or turns ons for me but really it just reminded me how she had a way more exciting sex life then I ever did. I used to be really quiet about sex and make it like I am just not a kiss and tell kind of guy but the truth is I never had a girlfriend in high school and in university my experiences were okay but I didn’t have any crazy times like she did. She is an amazing wife and she never cheated on me but sometimes when we have sex or after sex she talks about stuff and she admits she fantasizes about threesomes with me and another guy or another girl but she doesn’t really want to do it.
So anyway we got on the topic of sexual adventures and swinging, she admitted it really turned her on to imagine me with another woman and it became a thing we talked about sometimes for a while, like during sex she would tell me to pretend she was somebody else, and she got me to admit eventually that I thought one of her old friends was hot, and we had sex with her role playing as her friend and it was really good so we did it again. I really got turned on by her pretending to be other girls and made a jump in our sex life so we were both really happy.
Eventually we began to talk about if I ever want to have another woman join us and I was reluctant at first but we created an account last year on a popular free site but lets just say the fish were not biting! I know if I had a picture of my wife on there she’d be swallowed by a shark, but we didn’t post a photo of either of us because we’re not from a super large community. But I got to see a lot of the things she was talking about and I could also see there are a lot of couples online with similar fantasies as we have.
Anyway I’m sorry it’s taking so long to get it out, I will speed it up. We went on vacation after New Years to an island nation and we met a couple that we both found very cool and attractive, they were from Europe but I don’t want to be more specific than that. We took them to an outdoor BBQ party in the town one night and we all got pretty drunk and when we got back to our room much later she was very drunk with me and too talky, like saying she wanted me to pretend she was his wife and she can pretend I’m him, it was a bit weird though because she was drunk and something about her was just off. Anyway we didn’t even have sex because she even got sick later, so the next day we were pretty mad and it was basically a wasted vacation day.
But on Sunday we talked about it and things were fine, she admitted she was turned on by the idea of us swapping partners because I had been talking about it so much, but to be honest I don’t think that’s true because I think about it sometimes but I am not very talkative about sex unless it’s in the moment. I admitted I found her very sexy (especially what she was wearing to the beach party) and she is bustier than my wife and my wife made comments like how she saw how much I was staring at his wife’s cleavage the whole time (which I admit is 100% true!!!) I also hit it off with her a little bit and we talked for a while about all kinds of topics while we were eating and she is a very dry humor and interesting perspective on things, and my wife and her husband talked a little bit but it didn’t seem like they had much of a connection at the time (but I was wrong!) So when we saw her on Sunday afternoon on the patio my wife was like “ohhh look at her today!” and it’s true she looked ridiculous, almost bursting out of her two piece.
We made plans with them to have drinks after dinner because they had plans to go somewhere just the two of them, so my wife and I spent the day on an excursion and it was a very sexy day! She was very flirty with me all day and it was obvious she was on fire. She dressed really cute, yellow dress that’s flowing but also tight, hard to really describe but its sexy as hell. She was biting my ear and whispering to me all day, laughing a lot too, it was our best day of the trip and I was horny as all hell by the time we headed back to the hotel. She was talking all day long about doing something with the other couple and how much I wanted to fuck our new friend’s brains out, which was very true. We talked it over in our room before we went down to the restaurant and we said whatever happens happens, if we hang out with them and things get sexual we can play it by ear and if we feel uncomfortable we can always just stop, and I was sure she was comfortable and I was comfortable with everything.
Anyway we changed and she looked really hot, she had on a white dress and white high heels (+ white underwears) so she really stood out in a crowd that night! She had lipstick on and did her nails with red nailpolish, even her toes. So we went and had dinner and she looked amazing, and after a while I thought maybe they weren’t coming but then we saw them walking across the lobby so I got up and went to say hello. She looked really sexy too and they were coming from dinner somewhere else, and I asked them to join us for a drink and they agreed. So they came to our table and we talked for a while, he and my wife talked more and they were sitting next to each other in the booth and I was sitting facing his wife (sorry if that’s confusing with all the pronouns). I could tell my wife was still turned out from our afternoon together, she had her hands on his arm sometimes and by the time we were ready to leave she was touching his leg and really being flirty with him. The only thing he talked about was exercise which was a bit boring. He isn’t a very talkative guy so I didn’t know if he was really into anything like this, it seemed like his wife was much more the talker and leader of their relationship and much more charming than him. He wasn’t touching my wife or anything and he didn’t seem super into it, I thought maybe he was nervous but he just kind of sat there.
So anyway I had no idea at the time how it was going to come up, I was even wondering at one point to suggest if she wanted to go for a walk on the beach with me but my wife was asked by the waiter if she wanted another wine and right away she goes “do you two…” and pointed back and forth to me and my new friend, and they all started to laugh and my wife was like “don’t give him any ideas!” and it was a bit awkward. I could tell there was a lot of sexual innuendos but I wasn’t sure where it was coming from, but we all got up to leave and my wife was like “I think they want to be alone!” and it was happening very quickly. I thought it would be good to get her alone and see what happens, so I asked her if we could go for a walk on the beach and she agreed. My wife told me good luck. I knew she was going off to be with another man but I was not really worried about it because she seemed comfortable and I was very excited for this new experience of a lifetime.
But we walked for a while and talked but it wasn’t the romantic experience like I thought it would be. After ten minutes a guy on the beach even that late at night came up and asked us if we wanted to buy marijuana and we ended up following him around for a while until he finally got us some and by the time we got back to the hotel we were both pretty high and not horny at all. It was a bit awkward for a while and I kept thinking about my wife and if she was ok, but she actually texted me several times to tell me everything is fine and that she was fooling around with him and for me to have fun. I still never told her about the marijuana and the walk because I find it embarrassing and as far as she knows something sexual happened but I’m not saying what it is, anyway that’s what she thinks but it’s not like I made up a lie, I just kept quiet about what happened.
Anyway we ended up back in her room watching television and talking about politics for a long time, we snuggled and made out a little bit but it didn’t go very far because the vibe was pretty low key. I brought up the fact that our spouses were just one floor up and a few rooms down from us and who knows what they were doing, but she didn’t really seem to care and she had a weird attitude about it that I think is just a language barrier thing because her first language is not English.
I woke up in the morning pretty early and she was asleep in my arms, and then her husband came back in and went in the bathroom to have a shower. So we kissed for a few minutes even while her husband was showering just a few feet away from us, which was pretty hot but I didn’t want to hang around so I said I had to go because I wanted to see my wife and find out what happened.
I know you’ve gotten this far and you probably want a detailed description of how he fucked her brains out, but I don’t have all the details, sorry. When I got back to the room she was in the shower too and I thought about joining her but I waited instead. There were several condom wrappers and tissues in the basket by the bed, so I knew right away they didn’t just sit around and talk. When she came out of the shower she was pretty uncomfortable and kind of standoffish and “i don’t care” attitude about everything which I still don’t understand at all. We talked about it only the next morning and it was better after a day of being mostly apart just sitting on our patio and drinking wine, but she admitted that they had sex a lot that night and she doesn’t know how to feel about it. She said I don’t want to know the details, “trust me”, but I think I do only because it seems like she didn’t fully enjoy something about what happened and I don’t know what it is That’s why I am posting this anonymously because I know it makes me look like a bit of an idiot which I am. I also don’t want to risk having problems with my wife, especially if she is unhappy. She seems ok now and I doubt we will talk about it again for a while since it seems behind us now, I just don’t want her to think I am upset or anything but I don’t know how to communicate it I guess. I didn’t tell her that we didn’t have sex, she didn’t even ask what happened between us, so I don’t know how to reassure her that it was just a vacation and it’s over now, next phase. But when I asked her if she ever thought we would do that again she said “no way in hell”. So I don’t know what to make of it at all.
Thanks for letting me vent, sorry it wasn’t a sexy story.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/epkf1l/mf_my_wife_fucked_a_married_guy_in_our_hotel_room
Sounds like y’all just need to communicate better, honestly. And set boundaries moving forward. Cause it does seem like your wife is unhappy about her experience, whether something bad happened or she just feels guilty about the whole thing after her hormone levels subsided. And you definitely don’t want that to happen again. I think for now, it’d be a good idea to focus on your relationship with each other. If this kind of opportunity ever comes up again and y’all change your mind about it, make sure you’re ready for it, emotionally and mentally.
Also, definitely have another conversation about it. Communication is key. If she bottles up everything, it won’t do the relationship any good. Get her to share what happened. As a married couple, there needs to be trust.
I’m pretty sure I’m much younger than you and I’m not married, but I hope I gave some good advice haha. Thanks for sharing your experience. And who knows, maybe it’ll happen again and turn out better
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Mmmm… the white underwears.lol
Sounds like she thought it was something you wanted and went along with it.
She probably didn’t enjoy it as much as she thought she would.
Most of the time fantasies should remain just fantasies. Fine if its in a casual relationship but often causes problems in loving relationships