Just came back from having sex with this super annoying guy. Are there any men that are into this kink? Where (I believe there is even a whole subreddit dedicated to this kind of sex) where one partner (usually the woman) is bored and then in turn ignores the other (typically the man) (I believe that is what the subreddit is called – bored and ignored) but in spite of this, they still partake in sexual activities.
I have no idea when this became a kink of mine, and it’s sometimes hard to find the right man to pursue this with, (because when I show signs of being bored or annoyed, men will stop pursuing me) *however*, every now and then, I’ll meet up with a man, who is pretty persistent in having sex despite me showing the typical signs of being bored and annoyed.
Bored and ignored, (or at least the current understanding I have of it) is where one partner displays typical behavior of being bored, and while doing so, is ignoring the other. However, (for me) there is also an added element of being annoyed. Like despite being genuinely excited for the sex, I’ll still show the typical signs of being annoyed (eye rolling, moving away as he tries kissing me, looking generally displeased all around).
So this man, basically takes me from his couch and moves us to the bedroom. I sort of sit on the edge of the bed, and literally just that, as he tries kissing my neck, rubbing my legs, massaging my body. I’m pretty disengaged at this point, and there is not a single ounce of satisfaction in my body. He tries picking me up to move to higher up in the bed, but is unable to do so (because he’s fairly weak) so I just slowly with all the time in the world move up, and lay down. He continues to kiss me, picking my shirt over my head, massaging my breasts, and trying to get a glance of what I’m doing. I am literally just looking away, thinking about all the other things I have going on that day, and I really don’t do much of anything.
I was literally showing all the signs of someone who did not want to have sex. I did not remove an inch of my clothes (he had done so with my arms and legs limp), I continuously moved my face away when he tried kissing me, as he fingered me and asked if it felt good, I did not respond. Then when it came time for the actual penetration, nothing changed on my part. I just laid there, as he started to thrust. He let out all these moans, as if it felt amazing, (don’t get me wrong, despite not doing much of anything my pussy is tight af). He just continued to thrust and thrust until he finally came. Whenever he was done, I still did not display an ounce of enjoyment. I just laid there as he cleaned me up, and eventually placed me under his arm.
I’m not sure why I enjoy this kind of sex. Probably because in spite of showing sooo many signs of being completely bored and dissatisfied, the man is still able to enjoy himself. That despite being there (physically) I don’t actually add anything to it. Doesn’t matter if I’m enjoying it, or hating it. He will just mount me and fuck me til he cums. My pleasure or satisfaction plays no part in his, and in spite of it, he will still pursue.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/dqql1a/2843_fm_a_bored_and_ignored_and_annoyed_afternoon
Women are confusing