Me and my girlfriend of 6 years have been having great sex lately. One night during sex she asked me if I would like to have a 3 some which caught me a little off guard, But during the heat of the moment I said sure why not if you want to. Since then it’s been brought up during sex a few times and we fantasize about it. She seems to get turned on by the idea of fucking another girl and watching me fuck another girl and honestly I do too. I know she has had a little girl on girl action before, We have had discussions about boundaries and what we would like to do to each other and are now looking for our possible 3rd. We love each other and I’m comfortable with the idea if she is and so far she seems very open to bringing another girl in the mix. Any advice? We are both nervous but think it could be fun. Also talking about seems to have brought us closer. We have two girls in mind, one of them my girl is attracted to more but is a bit shy and on the fence but they’ve traded pussy pics, the other girl I find equally attractive and say she would definitely do it but has a bit of more dominant personality and is a freak from what I’ve heard. Any help to have this play out smoothly
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/dhh0rp/mff_setting_up_first_threesome
Yes, nice dude! Congrats first off. My advice would be, tell your g/f that you want her to do stuff with a girl first while you watch. A few times and then have her get you involved when shes comfortable with you being involved. Dont push or rush, just let it happen and it will be rewarded in kind.
You still get to watch, so it’s not like you’re back to square one you know? Also, watching first lets you formulate a game plan.
Well, if gf and girl 1 have exchanged pussy pics already, I’d say you’re at least 80% to success there. The fact that gf finds her more attractive is also a plus.
Girl 2 has the advantage of being more dominant, you said. If you two are a bit uncertain or nervous about the threesome, a dominant or experienced third person may have the confidence to help push you all through it, helping ensure it really happens, rather than all 3 of you sitting on the couch staring awkwardly at each other all night because nobody will make the first move.
So first off it’s not so much your pick man. Let her choose the woman with your encouragement. Second make it all about your girl. Keep her center of attention flat and simple. Stay with in your boundaries that have been set unless she changes them. I’ve had a ton of threesomes and only ever had one bad experience that was due to not paying my wife enough attention. You and her will always be nervous don’t try to force it. Invite her pick over for dinner and drinks and get some drinking games going. These are great ice breakers ring of fire, truth and dare stuff like that are awesome breakers
Let the girls have some time alone together is she’s on the fence, then once she gets used to being with the gf you can work up to the threesome