My bf and I (19F) met in college. He was the first man to fuck my asshole. I’d had vaginal sex, given blow jobs and hand jobs before even licked up the cum from the handjobs, and always swallowed giving blowjobs. But never anal sex. He took care of that within the first month together.
After a few months things were a little stale, and routine. So to spice things up we did roleplay, sexy lingerie, and eventually I did lesbian sex with him watching, then with the girl watching he had sex with me. Then it was me and another guy with my bf watching.
I was very nervous in both the first few women, and men then got over it. He did ask once if he could have sex with one of the women who was willing. I guided him into her and was doing all I could to not cry while he was having sex with her. So after that I entertained others for our mutual enjoyment.
Then we got to multiple men, gangbangs. To be honest I loved it and still do. Last weekend we did an all anal bang of me, a motel suite, guys came in one at a time and had anal sex with me. Within 3 hours I’d been anally banged 14 times by 9 different cocks. The last of the men left and my bf wanted to have anal sex with me too, he was the first, and wanted to be the last. I just couldn’t do it. I was so sore, opened up, and swollen red I couldn’t do it anymore. I had to tell my bf no.
I couldn’t even let him have my vagina as it hurt me behind. I gave him a bj. That was Saturday night, it is now a week later. Tonight I can finally let him have my vagina, but not my butt, I’m still a bit swollen and hurt, but only a little. It may be another few days before I can take it again back there.
I think from here on out, it’s vaginal and oral gangbangs for us. He remarked that it was the only time I ever refused what he wanted in sex. I felt bad, but I’ll make it up to him somehow.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/12u2vwg/group_had_to_tell_him_no
Letting your body rest when it literally hurts isn’t something to EVER feel bad about and any partner that tells you anything different isn’t worth the time of day. Especially one trying to coerce a 19 year old into anal sex with a sore asshole.