If you’ve ever read my posts before you know I have sort of an issue with bringing sex into my friendships. It usually causes things to end up imploding but I still haven’t learned.
Lately I’ve been going through a pretty dark emotional state. A friend of mine has been so sweet and supportive throughout it. He checks up on me daily, texts me cute stuff throughout the day, and will hang out with me whenever I need company and just talk to me and try to make me feel better. It’s been immensely helpful and I’m so thankful he’s been so sweet. He makes me feel safe, talks to me about anything to distract me, watches cartoons with me, even brushes my hair(!!!)
The past week we’ve been hanging out on a nightly basis and staying up too late just talking and hanging and, lately, cuddling and kissing a little. It started when I asked if he could hold me the other night and he obliged, and we just sat there with my head on his chest while he ran his fingers through my hair and I cried. Eventually I got so wrapped up in my feelings that I started kissing him, and not just light kisses. They were deep, intimate kisses, lots of tongue, and they lasted for a while.
That night he held me until I started to fall asleep, and then he left to go back to his own place.
The next night he came over we almost immediately started making out on my couch, and things got a little heavy. I took off my top and let him suck on my tits while I ran my hands through his hair. One thing led to another and his hand ended up between my legs, and he started playing with me while he kissed me. Needless to say I was already pretty close to the edge, and his fingers made me cum hard. He didn’t stop after my first orgasm, though, and kept playing with my clit until I had a second and a third.
After that I sorta collapsed into the couch and he pulled me into his lap, stroking my hair and calling me a good girl. As I recovered I started running my hand up his thigh, then moved my head so I could undo his fly. I asked if it was okay if I sucked him and he was enthusiastic but said “only if you want to” and I did so I immediately took him in my mouth, wanting to make him feel good for treating me so well. Hearing him pant and moan as I ran my tongue over his head and squeezed his balls was making me wetter so I started pulling down my leggings, then looked up and asked if I could ride him.
He moaned something like “please” so I adjusted myself to sit in his lap with his cock between us, all wet with my spit and hard against my pussy, and started kissing him hard, pushing my tongue into his mouth, getting him to kiss me back. He did, and as soon as he put his tongue out I started swirling mine around it, sucking on it, all while looking him in the eyes. I could tel he was really enjoying it because his cheeks were all red and I could feel his cock twitching against me as he moaned.
I lifted myself, positioned his dick just right, and with that I was riding him, pulling his head up to kiss me again as I moved on top of him. He put one hand in my hair and squeezed my ass with the other as we pressed our bodies together.
Just a few minutes passed before he pulled his lips away and held on to my hips to keep me still and told me he was going to cum if I kept it up and asked if I had any condoms. I told him I didn’t but I was on birth control and he could cum in me if he wanted, when he wanted.
That seemed to stir him up again and he pulled me back into a kiss. I started to ride him again as we made out and immediately I felt his body tense up and he started moaning into my mouth and thrusting his hips up into me. I felt his cock pulse inside of me, hard, as he grunted and came. I just held his head and kissed him as he let it all out. We stayed like that for a while, my lips pressed against his forehead, as we both panted and he started going soft inside of me. I pulled away, went to get some paper towels to clean us up, then sat next to him on the couch and kissed him softly and slowly.
Afterwards we started talking. He thanked me and asked me why I let him fuck me; I told him it’s because he’s been being so sweet to me that it was the least I could do. Then he said that he’d never done that before.
I asked him what he meant and he admitted that while he’d made out and gotten head before, he’d never actually had PIV sex. I was surprised, and felt bad for taking his virginity but he told me he was glad it was with me and that it had been so special even though he hadn’t lasted long. The rest of the night we just cuddled and kissed and he brushed my hair again and ugh it was so nice and dreamy.
I’m a little worried I fucked up, since I’m definitely not in a place for monogamous relationship right now and I’m afraid he wants one and that fucking him and having all this intimacy with him is sending him those signals. I’m so all over the place I don’t even know where I’ll be next week right now and I don’t think I’d be a very good partner, or that I want to be.
But for now, selfishly, I want to keep doing this, even though I know I shouldn’t. It just feels so sweet and good right now.
I’m just worried I’ll blow up our friendship, since I’ve done that in the past by getting sexually involved with my friends.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/11mzeog/i_f23_took_my_friends_m20_virginity_without
Hopefully it works the way you want it too
Just talk to him and make it very clear what you want right now. And that you appreciate him being there for you..
He talks about feelings and brushes your hair? You need to husband this dude up. Just sayin’…
You didn’t take his V card; he gave it willingly and enthusiastically. Let him down easy, or he will have a hard time trusting the next girl.
Girl…..he’s a very husband material…..😶🌫️❤️🔥
Just take it slow. Not all relationships starts with “I love yous” or “let’s be bf or gf”. Just start slow. You should both explore before making it official or make it more than something.
Enjoy yourselves. But also, don’t be too much comfortable with each other. It can result to comfort more than love, which is great to others but some others nah.
I took my best friends anal virginity on a trampoline in my front yard
I’m very sure that he has a major crush on you. The sex you had was prob the best thing that ever happen to him. You made his dreams come true. He loves you, trust me.
Glad he had such a great first time, but this ain’t gonna end well
That’s what you call a boyfriend not a friend.
That’s how I lost my virginity. We tried to date but split soon after. Then she moved out of state 😭
Man, this guy sounds like husband material. I wouldn’t be quick to get rid of him. I would give it time and see where it goes. It sounds like he treats you really well.
!updateme
He obviously wanted to fuck u let’s not kid ourselves here😂
You’ve set a high bar for his future gfs and lovers (assuming you don’t claim him for yourself) by letting his first time be bare and so lovingly inviting him to finish inside of you! Best of luck to you to have whatever you’re going through sorted out, and that there can be more between you two!
Honestly that sounds kind of like me and my fiance. Minus the sex. We were pretty good friends at first and I developed feelings for her. She told me she wasn’t ready and told me to move on. The stubborn idiot that I am, of course didn’t. I was always there for her, emotionally and physically. After almost two years she came around, we started a relationship and she took my V-Card. Now we’re engaged and super happy.
If he’s just as stupid as me, be honest to him. He will probably wait for you and when you’re ready, you will have a patient and understanding partner. Or, you know, it could always turn out that he is some kind of incel and now thinks you owe him some shit. You never know…
Ooof harder to have this conversation after the fact but when you do try to be gentle with it. But be clear. Don’t lead him on and let him know what you expect
Women are such cuties