I know the guys I should like, because they’re the kind of guys my friends date. I date them too of course: they’re smart, well read, politically progressive, maybe a little nerdy, but conscientious and caring. But then there is the other type. The ones I can’t help myself with. You know the type I’m talking about: cocky, arrogant, maybe misogynistic too. The ones that every feminist fiber of your being hates.
And yet I find myself going weak around them all too often. The guy in the office who said women should look pretty and stay quiet in meetings? Yep, I’ve fucked him. The man who loudly defended everything Trump doed and says? Yes, him too.
The side of me that my family and friends see feels increasingly fake. To them I’m an ardent feminist who doesn’t give the time of day to any non-progressive men and is the first to slap down a sexist. I’d be humiliated if they knew that I didn’t just date academic allies, but increasingly regularly begged to be roughly plowed by the kind of asshole who bullied them back at school.
The worst was the most recent. I bumped into him at a bar when I was out with a group of girls I had been friends with at school. He had been at our school too: he was a typical arrogant asshole who had been a bit of a bully. He breezed over with the same confidence he’d always had.
He was soon spouting nonsense about politics, BLM, and women. Yet when he rested his hand on my thigh I didn’t stop him. He laughed as he told his appalled female audience about how women “really just need to get fucked more, then they’ll be happier” while secretly under the table I opened my legs. I opened them even wider as he slid his fingers into my panties when he started saying that dressing sexier was “more feminist” than dressing without thinking of the male gaze.
Thankfully none of my friends saw me follow him out the bar and they were too drunk to notice how long I had been away for. I would hate for them to know about how my feminism leaked down my legs while he fucked me in the alley behind the bar.
I say I’m a feminist, but would one act like this?
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/11f8gii/32f_i_am_a_bad_feminist_fm
My girlfriend is the same! She has a feminist mindset outside of the bed. She likes getting rough fucked, CNC, cuckquean, etc, and her excuse is, “it’s only for you” whenever I tease her. So you’re definitely not alone! đ
Sexuality is often the expression of a repressed side, with taboos being particularly intriguing. I’m a progressive dude personally and enjoy having equal relationships in most things, but I’ve learned I need to be dominant aggressive, and generally… uh, “not-PC” when it comes to sex.
Hate to break it to you lady but you ain’t special, or different. Most of your friends are probably doing the same
Edit: imo being feminist essentially means you want women to be treated as individuals and be free to choose their options and have the same options as men… including the option to be dicked down by some misogynistic dick
Nothing like seeing the outspoken fems on their knees. Their whole fucking ideology has to wait until after my cum drains down their throats
I am not a feminist and being completely and totally and utterly fucked by an Alpha male is truly a joy in every possible way I could describe. I like my men to fix stuff, take charge, chop wood, work up a good sweat. There is nothing better in my opinion than a good man being a good man!
You are not a bad feminist. You are a woman discovering what you like. No not be ashamed of your desires. You are who you are.
I have been with multiple women who were very vocal about feminism in the political and social sense. But in the bedroom or after a few drinks each became a submissive Geisha who wanted to please and be used.
What a strange post. It’s hot, but you’re definitely just feminist for the “show” of it all.
You might like the sub r/fuckingevil
Girl, same. Feminist as fuck here but damn if I don’t love it when I’m roughed around and degraded by my husband, calling me all kinds if names that would break my heart if he ever called me those things outside of getting fucked. There’s just something so liberating about letting my brain turn off and being a dirty little cockslut.
And a good slut?
Have a healthy libido? Yes, a person who strives for basic sexual equity in society would have a healthy libido, and that includes screwing people their attracted to.
This is the âbut I shouldnât be attractedâ fantasy. Ultimately you like what you like. Are you going to settle down with an obnoxious pig who belittles genuine decency and common sense? Now thatâs the bigger test of if you actually are a feminist or if itâs just part of your post-adolescent idealistic phase.
As another poster said in here, it’s the repressed side showing up as a kink.
I personally have grown up always seeing women as individuals and not as some separate gender, and am very on board with progressivism, breaking toxic cultural norms and the like.
But my turn ons and fantasies are the opposite, like I love dumb bimbo sluts getting greased up with oil in slutty, stringy neon clothing and just using their holes to dump my cum when I please đ¤¤
Our culture has considered sex as taboo and immoral for centuries, frankly it makes sense that as we normalize it the two mindsets will clash in our heads and create some interesting desires and scenarios
you’re all idiots if you think this person is a real woman or that this story is real.
there’s also nothing inconsistent with believing that women should have equal rights in public life and also wanting to get dicked down and fucked