I was messaging this guy [32M] I talk to (see previous posts) the other night because I was feeling turned on. As we were sexting, he sent me a row of messages that were more assertive and commanding than usual. It really turned me on. I told him I was into them and he said he loves being dominant but he didn’t know I was so interested in it. We have discussed our bedroom interests multiple times, but I believe every time we’d talked about “dominance” it has been in the context of physical acts rather than verbal ones. What we missed was that he is very interested in giving orders and I am in receiving them.
I loved him asking me to tell him he owns my pussy, to beg for his dick, to get in a certain position, hearing him describe how he would tease me, him insisting that I do as I’m told, among other things. He has a beautiful deep voice and reading the messages with his voice in mind added another element of arousal. He told me all the ways he wants to fuck me, how rough he wants to be with me. I was so wet from it all.
At one point I told him I was getting tired so we wrapped things up. He said he would jerk off later in the shower thinking about it. Sadly, I do not think we will ever get the chance to actually reenact all this in person due to our being in different countries, but I still like to fantasize about him all the time
Disclaimer: this is not an invitation to dm, I am not interested in talking to anyone
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/zzq45r/i_22f_loved_receiving_dominant_messages
A key element in dominance/submission is the dominant’s greed towards the submissive. Every demand is an expression of intense desire, rewarding the submissive with the unquestionable feeling of being wanted in exchange for making themselves fully available. Showing that naked desire, and the willingness to speak & act on it, helps show the right kind of person how much they enjoy being on the receiving end… and how much they’d do to keep earning it.
I really appreciate your disclaimer. Without that, I might have tried and its so nice to know if you welcome that.