I have a friend from college (I’ll call her Amy) that I’ve stayed in touch with off and on over the years. We always had kind of a flirtatious relationship in college but both had some longer relationships and she was exploring her sexuality and not sure if she was lesbian or bi. About a year ago we wound up living pretty close together and hanging out. She dated someone for a few months after moving here before they broke up, I met him a few times and he seemed like a nice guy just kind of boring. One night after they broke up we were having drinks and she was kind of venting about him, and she mentioned that he was pretty vanilla/boring in the bedroom and she let it slip “I know that’s not a problem for you.” I looked at her confused and she admitted that she had a conversation once with an ex of mine who let a little slip about our sex life.
My biggest kink by far is spanking and this ex was happy to indulge it. Now Amy decided she was going to spill it all and confess that she was very interested in being spanked. A few exes had smacked her ass (how could they not? she has a great ass) during sex or generally but she wanted a real spanking, or at least over her panties until she got a sense of how it felt. I wound up having her strip down to her bra and panties and getting her over my knee for a spanking that night, not much about
15 smacks, but she seemed to enjoy it. After she confessed that she really enjoyed it but didn’t think she could sleep with me.
It’s happened 5-6 times since then, we try to meet up every other week or so for drinks, and I’ll always ask beforehand if she’s “been naughty lately” if she says yes we will usually go back to her place afterwards for a spanking. She increased her tolerance for strokes and I’ve even used a wooden spoon on her for about 5 strokes, we’ve still never really done anything sexual though she has confessed she’s made herself cum after I’ve left, and that she has felt my hard on underneath her. She’s
even considering letting me watch before I go next time. I’m sure to most it sounds like blue balls but it’s something I really enjoy.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/zn1f8p/mf_i_give_regular_disciplinefunishment_spankings