My bf recently moved across the country to start law school. We decided to start a open relationship while we are long distance to fulfill any sexual desires / need for physical intimacy.
But we had a few rules:
1. Use protection for safety and to avoid accidental pregnancies
2. Have to tell the other person before hooking up/meeting with some one
3. No going on dates or hanging out with the person we are hooking up with
The rules felt very reasonable at first until I met T, (30m). Upon our first meeting I was obsessed. Hotter then my bf, fucked me even better, was more attentive and overall more fun.
T was unaware of my open relationship, but my bf knew I was seeing him. But thought it was only once a week.
In reality I’ve been spending almost all my time with T. Hookups multiple times a week, dates, sleepovers, even hanging out with his friends. Breaking rule 3.
Most recently I broke the first rule. Letting T use me like a fuck toy and getting treated like his cum dump has been amazing. He fucks and fills me even more then my bf did.
I do feel bad for breaking the rules of the arrangement but at the same time absolutely have been loving the taboo of seeing him and being his cum slut. I don’t want it to end anytime soon. But maybe that makes me a bad gf
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/zjczlu/fm_ive_been_letting_my_fwb_use_me_like_a_cum_slut
No that just makes you a good cumslut…
This is almost exactly the arrangement my gf’s sister has with her boyfriend. He’s on the other side of the continent, and she has a bull who fucks her regularly. They also make videos for her to send to her boyfriend. But I don’t think the bf knows how regular these hookups are. According to my gf, her sister’s bull has been fucking her sister more than her bf used to.
She’s also been matching with other guys on dating apps and hooked up with a 2 or 3 of them, and has had an MFM with her bull and another guy. Bf knows about that stuff though, maybe just not the frequency of her fucking her bull.
You should feel bad lmao that’s shitty
It’s amazing that you and your boyfriend have this kind of relationship.
You’re kind of being shitty though.
Personally I think it’s unrealistic to be in a committed relationship before people are in their late twenties. So the fact that you’re even trying to make this work and explore different Dynamics is good for you too.
Please show him the respect that he has shown you and let him know that you’ve been having unprotected sex before you fuck your boyfriend again.
You don’t have to tell him the rest of the stuff. But he deserves to know that men whose sexual history he has no idea about have been coming inside of you.
Either break off with t or break up with your boyfriend. It’s clear who you prefer.