Edit: Folks, if you’re sliding into my DMs asking for a pic, please be polite?
I’m in my early 20s, single, and I happen to have a body type (big tits, slim waist, round ass) that a lot of professional athletes LOVE. I know this because they frequently slide into my insta DMs to hook up, particular since I moved to a major city after college. I don’t always oblige them (or even respond) but I always have enough attractive offers stacked up to keep my sex life happily full with fit, athletically gifted men.
But I know that’s just for fun, they are NOT boyfriend material. So I do try to date “normal” guys, but it never gets very serious because, to be blunt, they just can’t compete sexually. Honestly that would be okay if they were willing to share me with other men, but so far that has not happened. A few guys have even tried, but it was too difficult for them emotionally. And, on my end, it’s hard to fake enthusiasm over regular sex when I’m flashing back to having my guts rearranged by a 6’6” baller with a big thick dick and a god-like physique.
I do want a real relationship though, so I’m *trying* to wean myself off of basketball player dick. But it’s hard! Every time my DM notifications go off I get excited. I’m not proud of it but I’ve even bailed in the middle of dates to meet up with guys. So far the longest I’ve made it without giving in is 10 days, and that was torture. I guess it’s like any other habit—I’ll quit when I’m ready to. And I’m just not ready yet.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/zghl8n/fm_trying_and_failing_to_date_normal_guys_after
Trying to date ‘normal’ guys is a mistake and will always be a let down. Your best bet is to try and move to the fitness world so that you can keep the physics and stamina you’re used to without giving up on someone ‘datable’.
Only hot women think this is a gonewild story. For us men, it’s rather depressing. lol
A man in your situation wouldn’t settle for one gf. You’d probably be able to find an attractive boyfriend who is exclusive with you but understands that he can’t the same expect from you.
Try military guys 😂