[FF] Going nuts hearing about an unexpected night at my girlfriend’s apartment

My girlfriend and I have a bit of an exhibitionist streak. Not in real life, but really just online, so we have another reddit account that we use to post picture and short videos of ourselves on another
subreddit.  However, I can’t really share this story with anyone in real life and I don’t want it connected to my other account for a number of reasons, so just posting it here separately.  To be honest, my girlfriend would probably be upset if she knew I posted this, but I’m like 99.99% certain she doesn’t read this subreddit. 
She and I have been together since October of last year.  We are in San Francisco and we met through a professional mixer.  We started out as friends, but at the time, I was going through something hard with a family member who passed away and she was a huge support at that time.  The friendship quickly turned into dating.   We’ve always been very honest and straightforward with each other our whole relationship. 
I like that she doesn’t play games or dance around topics. She just says what she wants and it allows us to have everything out in the open.  She is very sex positive and progressive thinking and so there has never been any questions around that topic.   
Early on in dating, she let me know that on occasion she has a need to be with women sexually. She isn’t really into the idea of relationships with them, but sexually she has a need sometimes for the physical/sexual connection.  
When she first brought it up, it wasn’t like an ultimatum or anything where it was like “take it or leave it” but it was more that she was just being honest about who she was.  From the get go, I made it clear that I wasn’t there to tell her what she could and couldn’t do and I valued honesty as well and even if that was part of her, I liked her enough that I wanted to see where things went.  As we dated more, it wasn’t something we focused on, but we talked about it a couple of times and I came to the conclusion
that if that happened, as long as she was honest with me about, it was just part of her and didn’t need to take away from us.  She also told me that just because she had those desires I shouldn’t have expectations of it turning into a threesome. If that ended up happening, great. But if not, I shouldn’t get disappointed or expect it. 
My job goes in cycles and can be demanding sometimes.  The last few weeks has been one of those times.  Last Saturday, I was working late into the evening and my girlfriend was out with her roommates and another girl who they were celebrating her 30th birthday.  It was almost 11o’clock at night and I was finishing up.  The plan was if she was back to the apartment, once I got done with work, I was going to go over and see her like I frequently did on the weekends. 
I sent her the following text and her reply:

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Sunday afternoon when I finally saw her, she shared with me what happened.  She told me that if she
shared this, I couldn’t tell a soul. Not my roommate, not anyone.  Her roommate had told my girlfriend she didn’t even want her to tell me, and at first she agreed not to, but she felt it was important to tell me. 
She has two roommates. Everyone is close in age and in similar stages in career.  I’ll just call
them Roommate 1 and Roommate 2.  They live in a condo in SF that is owned by the parents of roommate 1.  They charge rent to roommate 2 and my gf, but at like a 4th of the market rate. 
Just enough to cover some basic costs, but they are pretty wealthy and they do it so their daughter can build up savings and live with people she likes.  All 3 of them are cool.  Roommate 2, the owner, kind of has an Amy Adams look.  She is interesting.  She doesn’t always have the greatest filter and at times can say things that are a bit awkward. She wears her heart on her sleeve.  Sometimes seems to lack confidence, but at other times can come across as strong I think to make up for the confidence
issues.  She definitely is the most sexually active of the 3 of them and from what my girlfriend has said has had quite a variety of male and female sexual partners. 
Roommate 1 is the cool and calm one.  She doesn’t show it on the surface, but she has a lot of issues with men.  Something bad happened in her past. I asked my girlfriend about it once but she just
basically replied and said “It’s not mine to share.  She shared it in confidence.”  So I left it at that.  When my girlfriend first started inviting me over, she asked me up front if I could just make extra effort to be respectful around roommate 1.  Along the way, I’ve gotten in both of their good graces and they are comfortable with me coming over and even spending the night with my girlfriend. 
Roommate 1 says she is bi, but she leans very heavily toward women. She has a strong masculine vibe about her.  She’s attractive, but in a handsome way. I would guess she was lesbian if I didn’t know better, but her labels are her own.  My girlfriend and her are the closest.  They are good friends and very comfortable around each other.  When I’m not there, my gf has said they’ve been in various stages of undress around each other, like out of the shower or whatever, and it’s nbd.  I’ve asked my gf before if she has any sexual interest in roommate 1. She told me maybe, but not overly so and that she cares more about their friendship. She said she supposes if something came up she’d be open, but she doesn’t see things that way with her. 
My gf used to work at the same company as roommate 2. The apartment came open after my gf moved to a different company. Roommate 1  was there already when she moved in. 
So Saturday night, the 3 of them were going out with another girl that roommate 2 knew from work.  The girl recently moved to the Bay from the East Coast.  She was out of a longer term relationship and
moved.  She has no family in the Bay nor did she really have any friends at this point, but she was turning 30.  Roommate 2 had started to become good friends with her and felt bad that she didn’t have anyone to plan her 30th.  Roommate 2 asked my gf and roommate 1 if they would come along and help make it a good night for the friend.  I’ll call the friend birthday girl.  Neither of them had met birthday girl until the day of.  
My gf told me when birthday girl showed up to the apartment on Saturday afternoon she was caught off guard.  She said birthday girl was legitimately very hot. Like a true 10 out of 10 (my interpretation of her words, not her exact words).  She said she noticed an immediate reaction from roommate 1 as well. She said all night, all 3 roommates were totally digging birthday girl.  But roommate 2 was
clearly into her and my gf said there was obvious chemistry between the 2 of them. 
They had a full afternoon and evening planned. They went out to a late lunch, went to a place they all love for live music, and then did some bar hopping. 
They finally made it back to their apartment because roommate 2 had bought some really expensive wine to celebrate with at the end of the evening.  My gf said by the time they got back, they were already lit up a bit from the bar hopping but the wine really got everyone loose.  She said everyone
was a bit crazy and there was a lot of flirting going on.  She said roommate 2 was all over birthday
girl.  She said at some point, they were all sitting on the couches and roommate 2 apparently felt comfortable enough that she said something sexual to birthday girl and it turned into kissing.  My gf said at first she was a little surprised and her and roommate 1 thought it was funny, but before she knew what was happening, things turned and the two of them were completely making out hands all over each other and birthday girl’s top was quickly pulled off. 
She said her and roommate 1 were half stunned but at the same time turned on by what was going on. 
She said there was no shame between birthday girl and roommate 2 and before they knew it, birthday girl’s bra was off and roommate 2’s mouth was all over her tits.  She doesn’t remember who said what, and that it happened kind of quick, but my gf and roommate 1 got pulled into things.  She said next thing she knew, the 4 of them were all next to each other kissing and groping.  They were touching each other, but most of the focus was on birthday girl. She told me nothing sexual has every happened between the roommates, but that evening, the combination of alcohol and the fact that they all thought birthday girl was smoking hot apparently pushed them all across the line. 
She said it wasn’t much longer and everyone’s clothes came all the way off.  I pushed her for details, but she said it was all kind of a blur.  She said all 3 of them were making birthday girl the center of attention.  Roommate 2 went down on her while my gf and roommate 1 were kissing her and playing with her tits.
She said at some point, roommate 1’s attention went from birthday girl to my gf and she went down on my gf until she orgasmed. She said her and roommate 1 laid on the couch cuddling naked together while watching roommate 2 and birthday girl. She said it was obvious roommate 2 and birthday girl were completely into each other and they just sat and watched them.  They eventually pulled a blanket up over themselves and next thing they knew they kind of fell asleep and birthday girl and
roommate 2 had gone off to roommate 2’s room. 
She doesn’t know what time it was, but her and roommate 1 eventually woke up and dragged themselves to their own bedrooms. 
The next morning she was hung over and got up and found roommate 1 out making breakfast. She asked her what happened to birthday girl and roommate 1 said she had heard her in roommate 2’s room earlier.  They didn’t both emerge from their bedroom until almost noon and birthday girl left.
It sounds like there is more to it because roommate 2 left last night and said she was going out with birthday girl, so we’ll see if there is more.  
My girlfriend and roommate 1 talked a bit about what happened on Sunday evening.  I asked my
gf if it was awkward at all between her and roommate 1. She said not at all. They talked about it and acknowledged what happened, my gf told roommate 1 she really enjoyed it.  Roommate 1 said the
same and that was about it.  
I was kind of shocked that they didn’t dive into it more. My girlfriend basically told me it was just something that happened, they were good enough friends and mature enough about things that she wasn’t obsessing over it, but if it happens again she would be totally cool with it. I asked her
if she was going to look for opportunities to make it happen.  She said she would not, she’d just let it
happen naturally if it does.  She asked me to let it go and not hyper focus on it.  
Which is the hardest fucking thing in the world to do.  I wish I could have been there to see it.  The thought of all 4 of them all over each other on the couch kissing and sucking and licking each other has my mind blown.   Sunday night, we did have some of the best sex we’ve ever had. But it is going to be difficult getting this out of my head.

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