Back in China and just found a new side chick this week! [MF]

OK. this is 100% true. I lived in China for several years back about 5 years ago and was last back in China 3 years ago just before COVID. Been stuck in the USA ever since but got married to a Chinese lady a few years back and in July they just started issuing “family reunion” visas, so I was finally able to come back to China. Arrived mid October and had to spend 7 days in a quarantine hotel and another 3 days in self (home) quarantine. My wife’s sister lives here in this somewhat remote area and we are only here for a few months due to my single-entry visa, so my wife’s sister helped us get an apartment in the same complex as she lives. No this isn’t about my wife’s sister.

Anyway, we are living in this remote area that is about an hour from the center of a very large city, sort of on the outskirts but it is very local. I have been here and out of quarantine about two weeks now and haven’t seen a single other foreigner, which is odd since when I lived in a 2nd tier city before I would see lots of foreigners. I think with COVID and the lack of visas and the generally non-pro Western things going on here that lots of foreigners have left and almost none are coming back, plus I am in this pretty remote area.

So I have had lots of sexual adventures here in the past and maybe I’ll post some more of those later if this goes well, but I was wanting to start up something with a local gal here in this new area. So the first day out of quarantine I change my profile photo on my WeChat app (sort of like the Chinese Whatapp, except that it has a “discover nearby” feature on it too. I changed my main profile to just my head shot, but all of my “moments” are of me and my wife so anyone looking through my profile can clearly see I am happily married to a beautiful woman.

So that very first night I get a “你好” which is “hello” in Mandarin from a lovely looking lady. I reply back and ask her how she found me, but she is obviously local and nearby as that is the only way to “stumble” onto a profile like this. She asks if I’m really a foreigner and if I can speak Mandarin. I reply back with an audio message in Mandarin and she is suitably impressed. She saw my head shot and wondered if I was some Chinese guy who just put on some foreigner photo or something. Anyway, I’m 6’1″ and blonde but aging a bit (47) and a little heavier than I should be at 220 lbs. I look pretty dang “American” though and she says she has never met or talked to a foreigner. I should mention that WeChat has a great “translate” feature so she can type in Chinese and I can reply back in English but it is easy to understand one another that way so 90% of our conversations are that way. We do audio messages too but she is from GuangXi province and her accent is a bit tough to understand sometimes.

Anyway, she is cool and all and I ask her about herself and tell her my story. She was married young and is 37 and has been married to the same guy for 16 years. They have a daughter who is 6 and a son who is 2 but the kids live with her mother-in-law in GuangXi province as her husband and family are all from there. Ok, so she is 37 but looks amazing in her photos, she is about 5’7″ and 130 pounds so she is pretty well put together from what I can tell. She is really cute in her photos and could easily pass for 25. Anyway, she and her husband live about 2 KM from me just over this big bridge, they both work in a factory and she makes about 200 RMB (about $30) per day doing work at a factory. She didn’t tell me what her husband does but he also works in a factory and I assume is making about the same as she is. They live in a dorm room type place with just room for the double bed and a small bathroom and balcony to wash their clothes and hang them out to dry. They get free meals from the factory cafeteria and they send most of their money home to take care of their aging parents and their two kids.

So I ask her if she has ever been curious about foreign men and she says yes, of course as she friend requested me right? I ask her if she has ever had a boyfriend before and she said she thought about having one once on the side but didn’t dare take that step. I told her I had been married for 20+ years before and that I had a girlfriend for 4+ years in my prior city but that we broke up when I left China, all true. I have been remarried for several years but since my wife’s family is here in the area we are looking to buy a place here and split our time between here and the USA but be here pretty much indefinitely. I told her I was looking for a real gal (as opposed to a professional) and that I would love to meet her and see if we had any chemistry and asked if she would be willing to possibly meet to see me.

This all happens over the course of 3-4 days with us texting about our days and just random get to know you stuff. I had sent Snow (that is her name in Chinese) 88 RMB (about $12 USD) via WeChat as just a “red envelope” just as a “hey thanks for taking the time to consider me”. This isn’t a ton, but it is about half a day’s wages for her, so it isn’t nothing either for her. Anyway, so then last Friday my wife was over at her sister’s place having dinner and I just wasn’t hungry for the local stuff they are eating, so I stayed home. I asked Snow if she’d like to meet me for a few minutes just to get to know me and chat a bit, she agreed since her husband was out with some friends doing who knows what, I assume drinking or eating or something.

Anyway, I had borrowed my brother-in-laws car and drive over to the pin she sent me of where to meet her and it is just in front of some random business but is only about 15 minutes from me, it would have been quicker but it is raining and kinda heavy traffic due to that and it being Friday night. Of course as fate always has it, as soon as I get on the bridge to get over to her my wife calls me on WeChat and wants to know where I am since I’m not home. I told her it was only 9 PM but I was sleepy and bored and didn’t want to go to bed yet so I am on the way to the nearest badminton court to check it out and see about reserving a court for later in the week as I want to take it up again… badminton is viewed as a garden party activity for kids in the US but here it is a good workout and serious business, and a decent substitute for racquetball since that isn’t available here. I tell her I have to get off the phone as I’m driving and I’ll be back in an hour. Why does the wife always call right at the worst times. I always have a plausible excuse handy for her calls though just to be safe.

So I pull up and wait for Snow, kinda nervous. She finally comes to the car and gets in the passenger seat. I look at her and am pleasantly surprised that her photos do her justice and she is actually really cute, and has more of a body than many Chinese gals. She has a cute smile and beautiful eyes and her skin is super young looking. She is wearing this conservative looking dark top with a dark green skirt and her hair is just past her shoulders. We talk for a bit about this and that and I admit that I’m nervous. I find in these situations it is best to stick to the truth as much as possible and while I’ve had lots of other exploits I tell her my story a bit more and leave out the other ladies other than my ex, my 4-year side chick and of course she has seen my wife on my WeChat Moments and keeps telling me how beautiful she is… and she ain’t wrong! I also quickly pull out a super small sample bottle of Chanel #5 that I got free with a bottle of perfume I bought for my wife. It is a simple little thing but to Snow this is a big deal and she seems genuinely touched. I also compliment her repeatedly about how pretty she is and how I like her outfit and style.

So we talk in the car for perhaps 10-15 minutes and I put my hand on her knee as we chat and she grabs my hand from there so we end up holding hands for perhaps 20-30 minutes and she and are are intermittently squeezing one another’s hands, it is cute and sorta romantic. So after about 40 minutes she says she has to go, and frankly I do to. I ask her if I can kiss her and she seems super nervous but agrees. We kiss a very tame kiss and she keeps her lips together the whole time, no hit at tongue or apparent interest in getting passionate there in the car. We chat just a minute longer and then I kiss her one more time but it is still that same sorta “required” kiss rather than anything super good. I’m hopeful though due to the pretty aggressive hand holding. As she is leaving to get out of the car I tell her I’m really glad we could meet up and I want to show her my gratitude by giving her a “red envelope” and give her 500 RMB in cash (about $69 or over two days wages to her). She looks a bit shocked and asks if I’m sure, which of course I am. I explain that I want to be a long-term friend with her and want a discreet girlfriend I can help out so such gestures are to be expected.

So she heads out and I head home and all is well, she texts me how perfect the perfume was and how appreciative she is of the cash, apparently she has the next two weeks off at the factory as the boss doesn’t have work for them, or money for payroll, she says she wasn’t even paid her September salary and that a lot of people she knows are owned 2-3 months salary. I don’t know how widespread that is but I guess the talk of the Chinese economy slowing are true. Anyway, she tells me how much she enjoyed meeting me and how handsome I am and how she has even told some of her friends that she met a foreigner guy and how interesting that is for them. So over the course of the weekend we keep in touch but it isn’t really easy to get away on the weekends for either of us.

So come Sunday night I ask Snow about her plans and she said she has the chance to work in another factory for a few days at 200 RMB per day starting Monday but that she doesn’t really want to as she would rather see me. I then send her 400 RMB on WeChat (about $55) and ask her to take it easy and not feel obligated to go into work Monday/Tuesday, that she can take the time off to enjoy herself a bit and perhaps we can hang out again. So Monday morning she texts me about 7:00 AM showing me a photo of her going into work, she decided to go in anyway but says she might decide to take off Tuesday. I’m honestly a bit disappointed as I thought she would stay home and perhaps I could see her Monday.

I should also mention that I ask her what she thinks about possibly being my girlfriend and if she’s considered it. She says she has considered it but is worried she won’t be able to live up to her side of the deal as she isn’t as pretty as my wife and doesn’t really know what I might “need” from her considering her limited experience. She explains she has only ever been with her husband and that even that experience has been pretty one-dimensional. I don’t know exactly what she is getting at but I tell her I have heard that a lot of Chinese guys aren’t very attentive to their wife’s needs when it comes to intimacy and she readily agrees that this has been the case for her. I also tell her that if we do decide to take it to the next level that I want to always use protection for both our safety.

Anyway, I decide if I’m going to be going out to see Snow that I should have some decent excuse so I decide to go on a long run on Monday. I used to run a lot outside in China but haven’t run in quite a while so I do a long-distance jog that takes the better part of two hours and don’t end up getting home until around 10:30 AM. I’m wiped out Monday and even take a nap for a bit in the afternoon.

So I text Snow on Monday night asking if she might be willing to see me Tuesday morning. I tell her I think it would be a good idea for us to meet in a hotel room as meeting out in public in this area where there are no other foreigners and they basically stare at me everywhere I go isn’t real smart for either of us since we are both married and trying to be discreet. I tell her I just want to chat privately and get to know her better and would she consider it? She agrees on Monday night and I tell her I’ll pick her up at 8 AM and we can spend a couple of hours together.

So in China even the nice hotels have “short term” day rentals, so for 140 RMB (about 19 USD) we can get a room for 3 hours at a hotel like 100 yards from our apartment. I tell Snow I’ll see her at 8 AM Tuesday and confess I didn’t sleep well at all Monday night thinking of the possibilities. I get up at 7 AM and have to decide if I should wear my running clothes out just in case my wife wakes up or asks where I am or why I was gone until 10:30 am, but I have been complaining of how bad my legs are hurting from the long run on Monday and figure I can wear just a polo shirt and regular pants with my running shoes and say I just went on a long walk of need be.

So I get up and shower and shave and put on some cologne and pack a condom that I brought from the USA (Chinese ones are too small by American standards and really hurt to get on or leave on) and head to the hotel. I check in and have to show my passport and health app code to get the key, then I head over to pick up Snow, she makes me wait about 10 minutes before she shows up and the tension/excitement is killing me! Well, she is worth the wait, she is wearing this beautiful blue jumper dress with pantyhose and a little scarf around her neck. She also has much shorter hair, it is to her shoulders and super clean and more stylish/younger looking. She also smells great, she has on the Chanel I gave her! I compliment her on her looks and ask about her hair and ask if that’s the perfume I small, and she blushes visibly. She is super shy and obviously super nervous too, which I see as a tacit confession that she knows what might be happening in the hotel room!

Well, traffic is bad getting to/from her place and we finally get to the room about 8:15. I am dying inside and nervous and so is she. If this was a professional or a massage gal or something it would be no big deal, but she is a fragile little pearl in my mind and I don’t want to mess this up. Anyway, room 707 is pleasantly large and clean, though the bed is rock hard like most remote hotels in China. We get into the room and there is a little couch and we sit on that and hold hands and are both laughing at out nervous we are. We chit chat for 5-10 minutes and then I lean in and smell her neck and kiss her gently there, then move to her lips and kiss her… she is still sorta close lipped and not real responsive and I’m getting a bit worried she is gonna be a cold fish.

She takes off her shoes and puts on the little disposable slippers and then moves to turn some of the lights off and close the blinds more. It is pretty dark but still light enough to see with the bathroom light on. I get up and move over to her by the light switch in the entryway and wrap my arms around her. She leans into me and hugs me back and I can feel the tension leaving her body as she sort of seems to surrender to me. She looks up at me with her huge dark brown eyes and I stoop down and kiss her. We just kiss like that for perhaps two minutes. After perhaps a minute of me kissing a bit open-mouthed suddenly her tongue flicks out just a bit and I flick back just a bit. She reciprocates again and little by little we kiss more passionately. I’m super stoked that she isn’t just a total cold fish and she seems to really enjoy the kissing. I bring one hand up to the back of her neck and gently stroke her there while we kiss a bit more.

At this point I’m getting aroused but more importantly I’m getting warm. I pull away and pull the covers down off the bed and she walks around to the other side to lay down. I run over to the A/C and hit random buttons until I figure out how to turn the A/C down from 24 to 22 C, dang Chinese A/C that I have never learned the characters for… but I get it to kick in. Snow says she is a bit cold and covers up in the blanket while I come over and kick my shoes off and get in next to her. We then just proceed to kiss for perhaps 5 more minutes, but all more open mouthed and with much more tongue exploring. We are in that sweet position where we are both with our heads on the pillows so kissing is super easy. Snow is clearly into this and I’m in no hurry to move on… it is heaven just making out with this beautiful woman.

Ok, who am I kidding, I’m wondering how soon until I can move to her breasts… I start stroking her left breast but I can tell it is a pretty thickly padded bra so isn’t gonna do much for her or me. I try to move to undo a button on the top of her jumper/dress but fumble with the buttons while kissing but have no luck. I’m also getting nervous so start to get hot. She is rubbing her hands on my back and can tell I’m sweating like a, well like a foreigner. Chinese rarely sweat at all but us overweight foreigners get breathing heavy from making out and the sweat starts to come on. Anyway, she feels my bumbling fingers and sits up and pulls her dress up over her head and off comes the scarf. I see her beautiful bare back with just a black 4-hook bra on, that thing looks sturdy and like something out of your grandma’s dresser, not gonna lie. Well as she has her back to me I take the opportunity to pinch the bra in just the right place and get two of the 4 hooks off in the first try, the other two come on the next try and she quickly pulls off the bra and puts it over on the end-table with her dress while pulling the covers up around her in one smooth motion. I don’t press the issue or go in for her breasts though, I just take off my pants and then go back to kissing her in just my boxers and polo shirt.

We kiss another couple of minutes and I slowly work my hand into the covers and grab her left breast gently. I massage it and feel its weight and wow… does that feel amazing! She moans softly while we keep deep french kissing and I’m gently massaging her breast. Then I switch to the right breast for a bit before moving back to the left and start working my way down from her mouth to her neck and then to her right nipple with my kisses. I suck gently on the right nipple while playing with the left and I’m loving it. Her breasts are just right, either small Cs or big Bs but nice and supple. I have never been a big fan of fake boobs or overly large ones and these are a nice hand/mouth full and super responsive. A couple of minutes of this and her hips are gently rising up and down in her pantyhose and panties. I pull my hand off her breast to slide down between her thighs and stroke her pussy over her panties/pantyhose. After perhaps a minute of that and I reach to her side and slowly start pulling at the top of her pantyhose.

Snow has her eyes closed but reaches down and pulls up her hips to pull off what is left of her clothes and I make sure to help with my free hand and pull on her panties so she knows I want them off too. She goes along with it and I pause long enough to pull off my boxers and throw them on my nightstand. She covers up again and we go back to kissing. I start rubbing her breasts again but I soon slide my hand down to her thighs again and start exploring between her legs. She has a pretty decent bush down there and I admit I’m not used to that as my wife shaves. Well I feel around in the somewhat heavy bush and am rewarded by a dripping pussy. Wow is she ever wet! I dip my index finger into the outside of her pussy and bring it up wet to her clit and start gently rubbing back and forth on it, all the while kissing passionately. She then puts her hand down on my member which is rock-hard and starts stroking it. It feels pretty good at first but honestly her technique is a bit rough and it starts to go from pleasure to a bit distracting/unpleasant.

I pull away from her lips and kiss her breasts and then down to her belly. As I go to position myself lower between my legs she shakes her head emphatically “no” and says, “no don’t!” I say what is wrong and she says she is really scared of that as no one has ever done that to her. I tell her it will be fine and that it will feel really good. She looks up at me sorta freaked out and doubtful. I look back at her lustily and tell her I really want to taste her and ask her to let me try for just 5 minutes and if she doesn’t like it or if it is uncomfortable I will stop. She looks worried/scared but leans back and closes her eyes and opens her legs a bit, which I take as agreement.

I get down there with my face and yeah, its a bit of a jungle, but a wet jungle. I probe the area with my tongue and find her wet clit. I gently stroke it with my tongue, up and down but very slowly and being sure I have plenty of moisture on my tongue so it isn’t rough for her. I then lick all around her clit in a wide circle taking in the smell and taste. She is mustier and not as naturally sweet as my wife’s shaved pussy but wow, it is all natural and knowing she has never had oral before is a huge turn on for me. I’m rock hard and super over the moon that Snow has NEVER experience this before! I take my time but as I flick her clit more quickly and vary the pace and pressure and move off of her clit intermittently to lick around the labia she begins to whisper “舒服” (Shūfú, which means comfortable). I have her legs bent at the knees so so I can put my two hands under her thighs and up and around to both of her breasts and I’m massaging them and twisting her nipples gently while I lick her and she is soon moaning and rubbing my arms somewhat urgently.

The most amazing part of all of this is that she is dripping wet and pushing her hips up against my mouth/head pretty insistently for the next 30 minutes. I eventually bring my right hand down and start massaging her pussy while licking her clit. Then I slowly put my index finger in and while it is super tight, it is also well lubricated so that it is easy to get in. It feels so wonderful having her admittedly tight pussy wrapped around my single finger while she is bucking against my head and moaning. She keeps whispering “Shūfú” over and over and I’m super content to just keep doing this. Eventually I start to slowly put my finger in and out, always being sure my finger is facing “up” so my nail doesn’t hit anything. I kind of curl my finger to try to find her G-spot and to apply internal pressure in the right way to get her even more pleasure but it doesn’t seem to make much difference, she is still super “Shūfú” but no apparent orgasms. I start to finger fuck her a bit and she loves that, I do it a bit more urgently and lick her more intensely and suddenly I’m rewarded by the unmistakable fluttering of her labia and an exhaling that clearly spells orgasm for her. She doesn’t slow down though and keeps wanting me to continue, so I do.

I’m in no hurry at all for this to end and love every second of it. She has her hands on my head and rubbing the back of my head while moaning and whispering “Shūfú” every once in a while. I’m down there in her pussy and on her clit for at least 45 minutes… all the while rock hard and just loving life. I could do this for hours, it is such a privilege to be giving such pleasure to a woman for the first time. After 45 minutes I pull my finger out and move off of her, I reach over to the night stand for some tissues to blow my nose and wipe my face off, and I have to pick one of her pubic hairs out of my mouth. Then I lay back down and she gets on her knees totally naked and finds my penis. She grabs it and starts gently kissing it on the tip, she whispers that it looks much different than she expected and I assume her husband isn’t circumcised or perhaps she is commenting on my size, I don’t really know and don’t wanna ask. I’m probably a little above average for the USA at 6″ but I have never had any complaints so don’t really know in all honesty.

Anyway she just goes after me with such evident sincerity and gratitude that it just feels amazing. She takes me in her mouth and starts rubbing the tip of my dick with her tongue. It feels amazing at first but when it continues it starts to feel a bit painful, I ask her to focus on the shaft and the head but not the hole and she does for about a minute but then goes back to the tip and it gets quite painful. I have to pull back and motion for her to lay down where I was. I grab the condom and wipe down my dick so it is dry before putting on the condom. I personally find if my junk is wet in the condom that it can sometimes slide off so I prefer it this way. So then I have her on her back and at a bit of an angle to the edge of the bed so I can get at her pussy while standing on one leg and the other leg on the bed.

She pulls me toward her and I wet the condom with my saliva to ensure a smooth entry and then lean over her and slowly glide in just the tip. I lean in and begin to kiss Snow deeply again. She gasps into my mouth as I push further in after a minute of making out and then finally I slowly thrust all the way in while we are kissing. She has both of her hands on the sides of my face pulling me close to her mouth and then she uses her legs to pull me into her as far as I can go. I slowly start to go in an out while we are kissing and flicking our tongues in and out in turn. It feels amazing and I’ve been hard for so long that I only last 3-4 minutes before climaxing harder than I have in months. As I finish she keeps kissing me and licking me with her tongue and holding me in with her legs. It has to be one of the most intimate moments I have ever felt in my life and it is perfect.

After that we both grab some tissues and take turns showering, she comes out with a towel on and is super shy all the sudden and I admit I am too. We talk for a few minutes and she is glowing… then we get dressed and have to leave. I look at the clock as we head out and it is 10:15… wow, that was the best two hours of my life maybe? I tell her as we are getting dressed that I want to help her out but don’t want her to feel like this is strictly transactional or like she is a prostitute. She shakes her head that she understands and appreciates that, and I tell her I hope she will be my girlfriend for a long time to come.

I take her home and quickly get back to my place and park the car. I’m weak as a kitten and a little anxious as to what my wife might be up to but she hasn’t even texted and when I get back to our place she is still in bed looking at her phone and asks where I have been. I tell her I went on a long walk as I was sore from the run the day before and didn’t wanna run. She doesn’t think twice about it.

Later that day Snow texted me that she was beyond happy, that she had never experienced anything like that and that she was so excited to be my girlfriend. I also sent her another 600 RMB ($82 USD) as a “red envelope” to thank her for the amazing experience. She was super grateful for the help and about as complementary as you can get. She has been telling me the last 36 hours how amazing that was and that she feels she is just starting to live life on this planet after all these years. She has told me how she has never had any attention paid to her sexual needs before and she is blow away that any man would want to give her such a gift. I assured her I want to give her all of that and more and hope we will be very happy for the foreseeable future.

I can’t believe I am only out $218 to Snow and $19 in hotel fee for such an amazing experience. It looks like she will be very content with small red envelopes in the future and honestly she will probably want to see me for free given how happy she is. I’m super excited too, my wife is amazing and beautiful, but who doesn’t want a sexy side chick that worships you too?

This story is 100% true and just happened. I’ll post more and some of my other experiences here in China if you all are interested! Hope this wasn’t too long for it all but I didn’t want to skimp on the details and wanted to get it down here while it was all fresh in my mind!

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