I’m a hs senior and me and friends went to a frat party at a college near where I live. I met a guy there and we danced for a bit. He was 22 and really hot. Tall muscular handsome face. Apparently is kind of a big deal hockey player at the school. He was being pretty aggressive/handsy but I didn’t mind. I was really turned on. Eventually we go upstairs to his room. I get on my knees and I begin sucking his dick. It was huge, definitely the biggest I had before. Then he puts me on my hands/knees on his bed and comes up behind me. I feel his cock press against my asshole. I’m like hold on what are you doing. He said something like if you want guys like me to like you you have to do this. And said he’d just go find a different girl.
Reluctantly I was like fine you can do it. It took awhile for him to even just get the tip in my ass. It hurt so much especially as he began to slide it in. Not only hadn’t I done anal but again his cock was huge. I was really struggling and whimpering. He was gentle at first but then began really thrusting hard. I was literally crying part of the time. He fucked me in a few diff positions. I’d guess it lasted about 20 min total and he cummed in my ass.
I feel kind of conflicted. I’m glad I tried something new. And it was fun being with such a hot guy. And it was kind of hot how dominant he was. But again it really hurt a lot.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/yqy4f2/my_18f_painful_first_anal_experience
Anal is absolutely not supposed to hurt. Don’t tolerate people like that, life is too short for bad sex.
tbh that sounds more selfish than dominant… i really hope you find someone that wants both of you to have fun next time you try it. there is a way to be dominant and empathic
Yeah that’s a huge red flag. Yikes your poor butthole
He sounds like a bully. Sorry that happened to you, hope you find someone who respects you
OK, This is not ok. Never ever ever let anyone tell you or convince you to do something you are bot comfortable with. If you had to be coersed into a sexual act I wouldn’t even consider that proper consent, he took advantage of you.
Second, when you do actually want to try anal and it’s under your own curiosity, decision, and wanting you need lube and lots of it. And to go slow, very slow, until you are comfortable. Your asshole is so small and tight that of course something big being jammed in would hurt and going for 20 min is a lot for your first time. I am in my 30s and still feel a little pain but it goes away once we go slow at first and then once I am comfortable we pick up the pace.
Again, know your worth and you don’t have to ever do anything you don’t want to do to prove yourself to anyone ever!
Well endowed individual here. Never ever is any dude supposed to peer pressure you into doing something. Anal is definitely one of those things that involves a conversation. For a big dick it also involves a lot of foreplay and usually some kind of scan training with plugs or dildos. Dominant is one thing but this is toxic. You need to be okay with saying no and not giving into the pressure by some frat boy.
Oh hun. This is all sorts of dangeous!!
* Unprotected anal sex is a very efficient way to get sexually transmitted infections
* The risk goes up when your butt isn’t properly lubed and warmed up because the lining can and will tear, meaning more opportunities for transmission of germs
* Pain is a sign that something is going wrong and neither partner should ever ignore or minimize it
* If he’s not listening to your needs or if you’re afraid to communicate your needs or feelings to him, why are you letting him have sex with you?
* It doesn’t matter how hot a guy is if he uses you for a masturbation aid instead of an equal partner during sex
Please be careful and please get tested!!
Adding to the chorus — he’s an ass, and shouldn’t have had yours. ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT is the minimum standard, even with CNC… or I should say ESPECIALLY with CNC/bdsm/etc. Never, not EVER, let someone peer pressure you into something you don’t want to do or aren’t completely comfortable with.
He’s not worth it, and you ARE.
What an asshole that guy is.
And this is why a high schooler shouldnt be at a frat party
OP posted in Slutty confessions. She doesn’t need your life lessons. She enjoyed it and will do it again with any hot guy.
You need lots of lube and to warm your ass up first, I will gladly show you