I [F27] have the hots for my flatmate [M28]
… and I don’t know why. Maybe because he reminds me of my ex or maybe because he’s just my type (and yeah, those two things obviously don’t contradict each other).
I actually liked him already the moment I moved in, which was almost a year ago. (I live with him plus one other guy). Still, I never made a move, mostly because I didn’t want to complicate things. Also, because around the same time, I started fucking some other guy and we are in an exclusive “situationship” which seems like a normal relationship to everyone else. But I still can’t forget my flatmate. Whenever I see him, I just want to jump his bones. I wonder what he kisses like.
He is such an innocent seeming guy, which is my favorite type. I just love seeing their cute smiles at first and then watch them transform into an animal in bed. Just like myself, no one would ever guess the things I did and still do. Still waters are deep, supposedly?
Shit, I just can’t forget his cute smile. The grey sweatpants he wears at home (ladies will know what I talk about haha) and that always make me look at his crotch. His slender arms. He’s actually smaller than me, which doesn’t concern me. It just makes me want to sit on his face more.
Sometimes, while taking a shower, I fantasize about him and imagine that he jacked off in the exact same place just a few hours ago. I wish I could find some leftovers from his cum and just rub them into me. Of course, it wouldn’t be like the real thing, but still close enough.
The past few weeks I’ve become more cheeky. I started walking around in tight tops, without a bra. Just in a small towel after leaving the shower. Putting my bra on the drying rack just in front of his room, for him to see it. But I am out of ideas, I still want to keep fucking the guy I currently do, but also explore more. (Also whenever he is here and we fuck it turns me on extremely to know if my flatmate is also there, sometimes it makes me moan a little louder…)
Maybe a threesome would solve my problem? who knows…
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ykx4xb/i_f_have_the_hots_for_my_flatmate_m
Go the 3some route !
So, I can see a few different avenues you could try here.
In the first instance why not ask him to give his opinion on your outfits before you go out. Ask questions like “Can you see my breasts in this” or “Do my nipples show to much” etc etc.
Basically get him to look at you and study you.
If you are feeling really brave ask questions like “Do you think this will get the guys hard when they see me?” and more direct questions like that.
Then of course there is the other route. Leave your door ajar so if he walks by he will “accidently” see you naked/changing etc.
Of course then there is always the accidental towel drop.
And if after he’s seen you naked if it still doesn’t have him jumping your bones well…..
Then there is a direct route:
Go out one night “drinking” come home and be a little bit stumbly (pretend drunk). The aim here is to wake him and have him “help you” to bed. Whilst he’s doing that and up to you whether you get him to help you undress etc. You make a drunken pass at him.
If he kisses back, great. If he doesn’t next day when you are “hungover” ask if you did anything “out of character” last night and go from there.
Also, don’t forget to let us know how you get on especially if you do any of the above.
You have the right to ask to open your situationship, and if they don’t ccept that, ask yourself what makes you the most happy: staying in that situationship and lust (; over your flatmate, or just give them an ultimatum and have a chance of getting your flatmate either way
I’d be curious if your flatmate is into voyeurism and really does get off on listening to you. Maybe there’s a way you can ease into a conversation about very basic kinks. I’m not real sure how to do it but once you get there then either tell him a real story (or make up one) about overhearing someone and how it made you feel. That might get him to spill the beans on his kink.
great writing. keep it up!