So my gf was kinda bored with our sex life and decided to spice things up. She asked if I would like to start a dom/sub relationship and I agreed. She claims she is inexperienced but I know she just doesn’t wanna hurt my feelings. She asked if I had any sort of fantasies and I admitted to having a foot fetish. So she said she’d keep it in mind.
About a month ago she said to go over to her house and cuddle but I was out with friends. She said I would be punished by my dom. She wasn’t wrong. She told me what my punishment was next time I saw her. She said I was gonna have to sit and watch her play with one of her study buddies with her feet. She has never let me play with her feet knowing I have a foot fetish. She said “That’s what you get for not being a good boy” So the reason she’s only used her feet and hands is bc she knows how much I want her feet but uses it against me.
She was wearing a white low cut crop tee with a varsity jacket and jeans with a pair of her rainbow sandals. She was talking to me on the way there about how she had gotten a pedicure and hoped her feet would be soft enough to not have to use lube. I asked to touch and she said “No babe… Not yet” So she just teased me putting her feet on the dash.
For context the main study buddy is “Ricky”. I went with my gf and the other guys showed up a little after us. Anyways, I had gone to the restroom before the other guys got there and when I came out my gf was sitting next to the guy “Ricky”. They were seated on the smaller couch that holds 2 people. I was on the longer sized couch and kinda just glanced over every once in a while. The guys got there like 10 minutes later and my gf opened the door. She gave the guys hugs and then ran to the restroom. When she came back she saw one of the guys was sitting next to Ricky on the small couch. She said “Hey you’re in my seat sir.” and the guy said “Aren’t you gonna sit next to your bf?” and she said “No. There’s only one blanket here and Ricky has it” So he got out of her seat and she settled in. He turned the lights off so the TV was the only source of lighting. So she took her jacket off and got under the blanket.
Once the movie started and everyone was into it. I kept glancing over to see if she would put her feet underneath the blanket. I anticipated something would happen but nothing was happening. It was about to end when I see her arm kinda jolting under the blanket. It was pretty faint but I saw in the dim light since I was only like 5 ft away. Anyways I saw she stopped and the movie ended. The guys got ready to go and asked if I was going to stay and said I was gonna use the restroom then head out. So they went off and i headed to the restroom.
When I came back I saw she had her feet tucked underneath the blanket and was kinda going after it. The lights were still off but he had put another movie on. I was sitting looking at my phone. I looked over and saw the blanket was slipping off from his lap area. I could see his dick poking out and her feet working up and down. I pretended I had no idea what was going on. I didn’t know she had told him I knew.
So she texts me saying “I can feel him getting ready to cum babe” and she was right. I saw the load he left on her feet in the distance. She then to my surprise said “Hey babe you mind massaging my feet?” While he got up to use the restroom. I said “sure babe” knowing they were drenched. She didn’t hesitate to put them on my lap and I went to work.
Massaging her cum soaked feet. I have to admit they were really soft even more with the cum. I got hard pretty much instantly. Anyways he came back in and said “You want me to lube them up more Maddy(my gf)?” I was so shocked by that I was speechless. She said “I think that would be a good idea” So he pulled out his dick and started stroking next to me and she said to me “Take your pants off” I was so excited my dick would be able to feel her feet. Before I could slide em off she said “Boxers stay on” So he says “I think I’m ready” and my gf says “Go ahead cum on my toes” and he did. Some got on my lap and she said “Now he has plenty of lube to massage them real nice” I sat and massaged them for about 10 minutes when she said let’s head out. We left his house and I said “I didn’t expect that” she said “Well learn to expect the unexpected babe”
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/yju4oa/mmf_dom_gf_uses_my_fetish_against_me
Ok, first things first.
Do you have a Safe word?
Did you agreed on what you both hard and soft limits?
Did you consent for her being able to play “outside” your relationship?
Did you agreed you were having a 24/7 roleplay?
For me, to the little details you provided, is that she is using her power as domme to control you. Obviously, if you didn’t agree to the 24/7 roleplay, there’s an abuse of power coming from her as she expect you to “obey” her every command at any given time. That’s a no no.
Regardless of how you felt at the moment, did you wanted her to play with other guys? Was it discussed? If not, then there’s a transgression in your relationship where your “punishment” was letting another man use her feet when she hasn’t allowed you to.
Hope you can clarify those questions.