Back when I was 22. I had a 20-year-old roommate. while we both had a lot of things in common. we were also very different. she was inexperience when it came to dating. believe she had only dated 2 guys up until then. which would be hard to believe considering how attractive she was. However easy to understand why if you happen to meet her family. she had mainly focus on her schoolwork up until then. weirdly enough she wasn’t the typical “shy, quiet, Bookworm” you would assume. She was extremely open minded. and rarely ever said no to any form of new experiences. she didn’t seek out new experiences on her own, but she was always open to try something new if you asked her. Her family had just done a really good job at keeping bad influences from entering her life.
I on the other hand, am the opposite in a way. Don’t get me wrong, I am a complete nerd. I love Video games built my own PC. I love anime. I also love books. though I mostly listen to books rather then read. I also love new experiences. Yes, I am refereeing to NSFW experiences, as well as SFW experiences. unlike my roommate at the time, I am the type to consistently seek out these new experiences. unlike my roommate at the time, I had also quite a large amount of NSFW experiences. I wasn’t a slut in the sense that I would sleep around with just anyone. my NSFW experiences were always with people I trusted and at least knew for at least a week.
our Dom/sub relationship essentially started withing the first month we met. although at the time, it wasn’t something I thought about or even saw as happening. we would have a girl’s night, where she’d ask me about the things I’ve done. we’d talked about how those particular experiences developed. and often times come up with a way for her to try it out for herself. at first, she would ask if I thought she could pull it off. I was always encouraging her and would say yes most of the time. Eventually she started asking If I though she should do certain things. my opinion and suggestions were always final for her. something I didn’t think much of. I always just assumed she admired me in away and trusted I always had her best interest in mind. which I did.
one day, a girl I had been talking to for a few days asked me about my relationship with my roommate. when I asked what she meant. she said it was like we had an open Dom/sub relationship. me and my roommate had been living together for about 6 months at that point. at the time whenever the concept of Dom/Sub came up. I always Assumed it referred to M/F relationships. mainly because all of my full relationships had been with men. Most of my NSFW experiences with other women were in the form of experimenting. as I spent the next few days thinking about it, I realized my roommate was naturally a very submissive girl. I was unsure whether or not she knew that about herself.
over the next 6 months we developed what I would consider to be a Full unofficial Dom/Sub relationship. I say unofficial because we never actually put a label on it. however, by the time we had 1 year living together. She would ask for my permission on things. she would refer to me as ma’am. we had rules and punishments that came from breaking the rules, as well as rewards. For the most part we had our own separate sexual lives. with me having control over hers. it was honestly amazing. a few months later however she got an amazing job offer in a different country. which was heart breaking for both of us. We both knew it was going to happen at some point. which is a big reason why we never tried making it official. we both essentially just choose to go with it and enjoy it while it lasted, without actually ever talking about it.
now I have this D/s kink that I don’t think I’ll ever be able to satisfy. it was just such a unique relationship dynamic that would be impossible to replicate.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/yi2pbq/ff_roommate_exposed_my_ds_kink
It’s awesome you fell into a fun a d sexy dynamic